What has happened to him? (my husband) I am getting desperate..?
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What has happened to him? (my husband) I am getting desperate..?
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Well two years ago my husband was working in the CIA and they sent him to Indonesia for a mission or something and a few months later a man came to my house and told me that he had not contacted the agency like he was meant to and that he failed to do what he was told and that he ran away.... Well two months ago my husband just walked the house looking like hell, his hair was a mess and his beard was all shaggy.. He looked like a bum.. He said that he had not ran away but he was jailed in a militant training camp and managed to escape with another prisoner (a british guy). And they came to the US on a boat they snuck into headed to new york (we live in CA) He tells me he was betrayed by the agency and he gets very paranoid at night..
Well as you can imagine this is very hard for me. I have not seen him in two years, so i told him that we needed to get to know eachother again.. He sleeps in the spare room with his brit friend.. so we have been going on dates, and two days ago we were on a date and he was asking me questions and we were talking and it seemed to be going good.. It was quiet for a bit then he just said 'i can't do this anymore, this is just too much'..
Does he not understand how important it is for me to do this with him? I know what he has been through and that he wants everything to be back to normal but how can i help him to help me?
I really need help i love him but i am still not comfortable enough to sleep with him or kiss him yet, and i am very depressed..
thanks..
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Look woman, miss sunset you, how dare you say that about my husband, he has work hard for his money and for what we have, how dare you call him a con artist.. Whatever happened to him over there really messed him up so how dare you say that about him..
Also, the brit friend is with him because my husband has a friend who is getting his papers in order so that he can go back to england.. he should be gone by the end of the month..
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MummaKins
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Well, I needed a good laugh this afternoon .....thanks for obliging Cynthia. |
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sunset
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Something about this is very very fishy. Why would you stick around in this mess? Do you really believe he works for the CIA or is he really a con artist? Why don't you do some snooping on your own instead of taking his stories at face value? |
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Questioning wife.....
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Yeah - nice little invented story there. But you need to write more convincingly to convince me.
My husband?
He went on a combat mission to Afghanistan - and impostered as Bin Ladens first hand man - and then - he ate spagetti with him - and then - they went outside and shot a few people for sport - and then - they flew to america in their own private jet and had lunch with George bush - and then - they counted how much money their joint owned arms factory was making.
Then he sent me a post card saying he was in Indonesia the whole time, and appologised that he lied to me.
But I just cant bring myself to spred my legs for him again because i suspect that him and Bin Laden indulged in .... relations together.... |
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goatslunch
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Sounds very sad. Im just glad to hear the CIA is in Indonesia. |
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straycat
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I recommend Counseling all around. It's really the "only" answer. |
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Titanium Pete
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well maybe you need to talk about it to him, see a counselor or something or a psychologist, give him some pot im sure it will help calm him down.. I really feel bad for you, i guess you should just show him lots of love and just kiss him, im sure he will get better if you aren't scared to kiss him, it's not like he's gonna kill you.. He probably got up and left cos hes tired doing all these grab-*** dates again..
just open up to him and i promise he will change.. |
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mush
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Your husband probably has some post-traumatic stress or possibly even multiple personalities. Who knows, really. He needs a psychological evaluation. You can't expect, respectfully, for things to be gradually getting better every day because he's home now. He probably needs professional help.
Keep loving him and doing what you're doing, being there and everything, but just realize that it's going to take help to get him back to normal.
Best wishes to you both. |
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NicoleC
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couples counseling.
both sides needs will be addressed and you will know what really is bothering him.
should help your relationship and if not then he has changed soo much that you dont belong with him anymore.
GOOD LUCKK! |
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Candy B
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this sounds a bit fantastic, but if so i would say get some spiritual counseling from a pastor, he's not being a husband to you, why is his brit friend still with him? that is very odd. |
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