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What if you could be with your first love again would you want to?
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What if you could be with your first love again would you want to?

be with them if they were still in love you.


    




virginiamayoaunt
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Yes, and she was in love with me and me her. Things were perfect until one night she had to go to Atlanta. Dallas, Georgia, 1977. She ran through a stop sign and was killed instantely. Thank God her children was not with her. I guess she was the only person that I truly loved; after the many, many years. I still visit her gravesite in North Alabama. I have never met a person like her in my entire life including two ex-wives. Never did I see her when she was not smiling. It kills me to even write what I just put in print. Sometimes a person will come along that you truly adore. I was in California when the accident occured, and I came to visit my father. I , at the time did not know she was dead. Dad said , Robert I saved this clipping for you and thought you would like to have it. It was her funeral announcement. I went into shock.
I can't blame it on my dad as he did not know we were that close.
It has been twenty-nine years, and there is not a day in all those years that I have not thought about Barbara. I WISH I HAD BEEN IN THE CAR WITH HER....


missapparition
That's a hard question because I'm happily married to a different man now...but I would be lying if I said I didn't think about my first love on a fairly regular basis. I do realize, though, that the more years that pass, the more fond my memories of him are, and I know that is just my mind playing tricks on me. So...in the end, I would have to say no.


beckdawgydawg
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mine is and was....i chose to stay with my current husband. too much time has passed and we have both grown up. i don't think that is would work. remember that you are no longer together for a reason. it is usually a pretty goof reason.


Wiser1
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No. I was really young and immature and I imagine my "love" was based on hormones and not my brain. He was handsome and a hunk, but he was selfish and rude.


Bluebird
No, that ship sailed. I wouldn't erase that time from my life at all, it contributed to who I am as a person but there is a reason our relationship didn't work out. We were kids and had a lot of growing to do, after a while we were just stunting each others growth.


Tiffany
Nope, I wouldn't....he and I were together for a short time and it brought me to my fiancee, the most wonderful man I have today. It was one of lifes lessons that I wouldn't want to live again. I am happy looking toward the future!!


aenigma
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No way!


angelgirlkn
I think I'd have to say no to this question based on the fact that I believe you can have no regrets. If you go backwards, it means you have regrets. I choose only to go forwards in my life.


just_me3575
God no..... not for a million dollars.


Her Adorable Kookiness
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Well of course! And if horses had wings I'd ride one over to his house. Geez!


avery
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Yes,,, give it a try anyway.............


Poppet
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No. I'm a very different person than I was when I was 17. Frankly, we wouldn't get along now at all.


Canela
After 20 years! - Bumped into him and was with him!
It was the best! It's had it's repurcussions - my heart was broken all over again, - but man, it was great while it lasted, of course, but better to have lived and loved than never to have loved at all. It's never too late. It's only too late when you die. Since we are both still alive , hope is alive.


BOO
hell no


maykithapin
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....too young to realize his true character.....


josefiend2000
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Yes, I often long for Terry Lynn.


serestmar
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yes.


wantstoknow
I would love to, but unfortunately my first true love has died, 4.5 years ago, if he was still alive I would have been with him, God I would give anything to have him near me again. I was the happiest woman alive when he was by my side and when he died I felt like I died as well, and even though I am still here and I have moved on and I am pretty happy now, a big part of me did die when he did.


atahsina
never. there was a reason for leaving him.i dont want to repeat history again.


Well i Say..
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that relationship just ended.. and i wish it didnt.. so yes


inquisitive
Nope, mine was a very brutal a**hole that had the pasttime of beating on me.


sky
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Yes!! I was 15, and he killed himself 2 weeks after we broke up.
He was a beautiful person, and it is a cross that I wear.


Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo
No, there is good reason they are not with you...You have to remember...Usually you have been hurt, but you cannot go back...So look up and look ahead good things are in store.........


Firefly
nope, i was 16 at that time and although i cherish the thought of d relation, i know he wasnt rite for me....


dougsc950
no,but i would like to sit with them to ask what was the one thing that made us part.or just tell her i'm sorry if i hurt her in any way.your first love is'nt allways your true love,and if its not, when it ends it hurts the worst.i'd hate to know that i made someone hurt that way


ricki20042001
hell naw... my first love is still in love with me... we havea kid together.. but he will never have me ever again or anything to do with my son.. he hasnt done anything now so forget him.. he is worthless.. in my eyes a chaeter.. lier.. wothless dad he is not a man at all....


Peach
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Absolutely not. I'm so truly in love with my husband that I really question if I ever knew what "real" love was before. Nothing has ever felt like this before - I don't miss my first love (or any of my ex's) one bit.


newbiegranny
Breaking up with him is one of the biggest mistakes in my life. I wanted to see the world and he was "boring" to me. Well, I've seen the world and it's not worth all the hype. Now, I would love to have a life with a good man, a modest home and living in a small town or country. Yes, I would want to. Unfortunately, the last time I spoke with him, he was married.... so I ended contact, 'cause I had a hunch his wife might get upset to know he was talking with his "first" if you know what I mean.

Best Wishes,

Sue


Yume Kid
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Idk ive gotten so depressed and crazy about my first love.
We were so unbeleivable perfect, we had everything right, we were like the couples you see on tv, (only kids) and she had to move.
Id give anything to have that feeling back again, that feeling when your laying next to your love and nothing else in the world matters, its just you, and her.


Willnotlietoyou
no





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