What if your husband slept with 4 women?

iamhere

Depends. If there are kids involved by all means she does need to stay put. That house is for the children that were made within the marriage and it is their birthright. If there isnt any children and she is willing to leave IT ALL behind her then by all means leave and make sure she takes her name off the deed so that if it goes awry its not her credit that goes down the crapper. In the end it all ends with what she wants to do.

Mean Carleen

Sell the house, split the money and keep it moving.

AnswerDude

Divorce and let the court decide!

A few weeks ago I went to a divorce court ordered auction, the house auctioned and the husband purchased the house! At closing the wife will get 1/2 of the selling price and she will be gone, the husband got the house BUT had to pay 1/2 of the going price!

If they have kids or he's been abusive, he should leave. But the first thing she should do is speak with a lawyer.

redpeach_mi

if i were her, i would leave and go be near my family. after something like that happens, you need a big support network of people that care about you.

362436

If she has kids she may need to stay in the home and make him leave. Not fair to uproot eh kids because of the azz dad. I would kick him to the curb.

Heidi62

She should do whatever she wants to do. Definitely she is smart in ending the relationship though

Marina

I think she should do what her heart is telling her to do. When she files for divorce they can sell the house or he can buy her out. She can't make him leave, so she needs to take control and go where she can have peace.

Pamela C

It no longer matters who did what to who or who leaves first..
The States now have what is called a "no fault" divorce meaning everything is divided 50/50 end of it!
Sad but true.. no such thing as adultery in the court systems ..
What she should do is get what she wants to take before she runs out..
Once she leaves she may not get back in too retrieve anything.
I would recommend staying and filing for divorce..He will have to pay spousal support if he makes more and if she makes more then she will pay..

mila

let her make this decision on her own. if she feels like being around family will help her, then let her. some people are not materialistic, they prefer peace of mind instead.

The main thing is to divorce him, and if she can, get as much evidence as she can on him, so when the time comes, she can buy her another house off him. (alimony is a great thing, especially for cheating spouses) (a forever reminder of ur screw up)

Beth66

She needs to stay in the house. A similar situation happened to a friend of mine and he claimed abandonment. She needs to stay in the house until all of this is settled. Let him go live with the lowlifes.

rachel m

i would say divorce ,to kick him out ,depending on the state she is in ,she should take pictures of everything in the house and then take pictures of everything he left in the house assuming he leaves ,have a eviction order served to him 30 days notice and file for divorce, because otherwise it is considered a illegal eviction and she could find her self in court after the divorce is finished getting sued for the illegal eviction and she could be forced to pay triple the amount of the rent or mortgage (monthly) so she should get a lawyer prior to the eviction date and get everything in order , the court will have to decide who gets the house especially if the house in both of their names , good luck

justme

Kick his cheatin *** out, sell the house, then move.

teriod

If he told her this he wants out, so get him out ! Never say you don't want the money, you just want out - because you are entitled and YOU WILL NEED IT. Any judge in his right mind is going to side with the woman. Also, he admits to 4 - that means there are probably more than that. And get tested for STDs right away!

sophia_of_light

This is for her to decide maybe she really isn't happy there and really wants to move. If that house is filled with nothing but bad memories and deceit why would she want it? you really would? Being a friend means listening to her, giving advice only when she asks for it, try not to confuse her anymore then she already is. just be there for her and support her decisions don't tell her what to do or that she's making mistakes, explain to her that you don't want her to regrete it later but what ever she decides is best that you stand by her and remind her you care and that you are here for her if you question her she may feel more insecure about herself and her decsions and right now she doesn't need that!.

cutsup

give him a gold star!

bonnie

if its her house kick his sorry *** out

sukatx

I think you gave great advice.

Nay

A house can't give you happiness...although it is her home as well as his...if she has no family there and won't be happy then what sense do it make to stay there? If I were that miserable I would relocate to the area my family lives in. But if there are kids involved I would save up some money and then leave or I would probably not leave at all. There are many different things that she would have to take into consideration if there are kids in the mix. But they too want to be happy. So basically what I'm saying is things can't make you happy...only you would know what can make you happy in the long run.

reddevilbloodymary

She needs to ask her family for a loan to hire the best family law attorney in town to protect herself, her assets, her kids if they have any.....the law attorney will advise her on the whole leaving the house issue etc...

Contemplative

Get a lawyer now and file papers - do not abandon the household.

She should not communicate with him and move into a different room until the judge decides who should move out.

Tina

It is up to her. Probably to get more out of the divorce, she should remain in the house and make him leave. After the divorce is final, she would have the money to move back to where her family is. It just depends if she needs the finances bad enough as to what she should do. Whatever she does...she needs to call a lawyer ASAP first!!

super duper

She should kick him out! He was the one who ruined the marriage! Depends who's house it is when i comes down to it but if it's both of theirs she should still kick him out!

lenza

The more she have close family the better.By by husband hello new state.She might forgive him if she stay here so the long distance she take from him the better cause a house is just a house.

Worldtraveler 777

Hire a laywer immediately and try to get everything she can get out of him.

MamaBear

Toss the garbage out to the curb on garbage pick-up day!!

No way she leaves -- he leaves. Period. The minute she leaves, she loses ground, and "possession is 9/10's of the law".

..â™¥..Catrina..â™¥..

Yes, throw his butt out! He shouldn't have did what he did, that is wrong! He should be the one to go.
But if it's too painful for her to stay in the house or if she thinks it would be nothing but a reminder of what happened and what was suppose to be then maybe she should go and be in a different setting. Start new.
That would be up to her, it all depends on how she feels.
I am sorry that her husband did that to her.
She's lucky to have you as a friend through this.
â˜ºGood Luck!â™¥

not dead at 46

tell her to get a lawyer quick and kick his *** out

PokerPlayer

Good advice, tell your friend to pack his bags and put them out on the street.

Leela

I would hope that he died from some horrible STD. Secondly I would hope that I miraculously managed to not acquire said STD. Then I would happily move on, without malice in my heart, or any regrets for that matter, for that man is clearly not worthy of me. As far as staying in the house goes, it doesn't matter. It will have to be fought over/decided in court. She is in favor in the court's eyes, trust me. Cheating husband always gets the bum's rush lol

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