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What is a man called when he is a married woman's lover?

I know a female lover to a married man is a mistress, so what's the man called?
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If a married woman takes a lover, on her own and doesn't tell him she's married therefore not making him a homewrecker since he doesn't know, what is he called? A woman in this position is a mistress. What's the man called?


Stud, sugar daddy, Ricky lot of different names i been called.

An @sshole.


if you are in the UK, then he's her "bit of rough" or "bit of rough on the side"

in the US in the south he's her "backdoor man" because he sneaks in and out of the backdoor while the husband is away.

The back door man.

The one i hear cheating women use the most is a friend my dad says when a woman tells you were just friends you can bet the bank they are shagging

If she also is supporting him he is technically called a gigolo. Another definition for a gigolo is someone who is morally unrestrained.

A home-wrecker

Her Lover

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A gigalo.**=)

hahah look how many angry people responded here.....

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Sugar daddy

a cheating @ss hole!

Old Kid
A scumbag.

By the way, that's the same name I use most for women who cheat too. Sometimes I use slvt too.

buried if i catch him

Well, aside from all the smart @ss comments here - I think the most common term is FWB - friend with benefits. But this is just what I understand from some of my co-workers who indulge in this sort of thing.

Anything that you can think of. I prefer a home-wrecker

MR.Phat Saks


My boyfriend....

A Manstress; lol


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i dunno good question though...

Anja H
There is no specific word in English for a "male mistress", a man in the same relationship to a woman as a mistress is to a man, except for the more general term "lover", which does not carry the same implications. "Paramour" is sometimes used, but this term can apply to either partner in an illicit relationship, so it is not exclusively male. In 18th- and 19th-century Venice the terms "cicisbeo" and "cavalier servente" were used to describe a man who was the professed gallant and lover of a married woman.



A cheater. I would prosecute him and her to the fullest extent of the law.

Usually this is referred to as her 'lover.'

Diane R

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