What is the#1 cause for divorce?

cpinkfloyd

lack of respect, selfishness and financial issues come to mind. otherwise, people get bored with each other and don't try hard enough to make a relationship work.

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infedility

Jimmy R

I would guess that it is irreconcileable differences, but that can include money problems, in-law problems, and a couple getting married without knowing each other well enough.

DESTINY

Men/women not taking their vows as seriously as the day the said them.If all did I really believe that there would be less divorces."Till death we do part".

)=THE COLDEST WYNTER EVER=(

immaturity and irrespondsibility.
not to mention being lazy
if you marry some one,your saying no matter what i am commited to making it work.
and people divorce becasue they are too lazy to do the work to make it better so now they want to start anew which tells me they were never ready to begin with.
dont give up beacuse things arent going your way compromise,make it work

kitkat19582002

Money problems and cheating problems. just pick 1

ahafner2

i would say money

jehrapha

Money

Izetriyen

marriage too soon and for the wrong reasons and without the realization that marriage is a contract between two people.
I dont think most couples take the vows as seriously as the love or reason they married.

whattheheck

Not sure but I think it is finances.

keeperofpuppies

infidelity is the number one.

Ms. M

yup...cheating...it is intolerable....

Stupidity-
But seriously lack of communication
during the dating phase is the underlying
cause of problems in marriages later.

Many times both partners do communicate-
BUT- not about the right types of things.
When too many important things are supressed
that should have been discussed-
this can lead to a lot of petty arguments
later on- which really just mask all of the
larger unresolved issues-
until the final big explosion and ensuing
break-up.

Masceo

1. Money
2. Cheating
3. Incompatibility

calliope320

Either infidelity or not being able to change your spouse.

jacky

disappointment

somathus

marriage

Common Sense

Probably cheating but variations of abuse would come next..

Eat Fish

alienation of affection

Annie

1. cheating
2. money or lack there of
God bless

(^InLove^)

I believe it wld be mistrust. W/o trust, there will be miscommunication which later brings up a whole load of problems (3rd party) coming after that. =)

Freaked out

Not marrying the right person to begin with.

texas_truth

lack of love.broken trust.treating the person ,worse than a dog.

Fotomama

Selfishness.

Mensa Head

MEN ARE PIGS

It's Just Me

Not applying Bible council

RunSueRun

Out of love.

J D

Cheating

brucewhited

Childish Selfishness.
When married, you devote yourself to making someone more important than you. Your JOB is that person's happiness. That means listening when YOU may be bored. You listen because that is what your spouse needs. The NANOsecond you lose sight of that, you are in trouble. When you start thinking selfishly, YOUR finances, YOUR friends,... YOU'RE headed for trouble.

jodie

Lack of communication

annawuvzchris

when they get married thinking they were ready and then they realized they didnt no everything about eachother and there is many things they dont like about eachother....when the little things start to kick in they start to argue all the time, after a while of that they start to get annoyed of it and give up.

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