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hurts so good
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communicate , trust each other , and most important respect each others beliefs. |
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Phebie
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A happy marriage is a daily work in progress. Once you stop working on your marriage, your marriage stops working for you. |
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Chuck T
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Always keep an open line of communication , never go to sleep mad ... |
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gone then returned
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Live only for each other and live every day like it is the last day on earth. |
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keelin
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good luck |
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MegaBeth
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Don't take advice from strangers on the internet. Don't take that as a negative response, I'm serious! Realize that any and all issues in your marriage are personal and specific to the two of you, and no one else knows how to deal with them better than the two of you. The important part of marriage is being mature enough to know that and to force yourself to work through disagreements TOGETHER, solve problems TOGETHER, and revel in the good times TOGETHER.
I think the leading cause of divorce is laziness. No one wants to make the effort to uphold their vows, "for better or for worse."
EDIT: I apologize, I should have said "no one" wants to make the effort. I should have said "very few" people. |
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Glamourous_Girl
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COMMUNICATION
COMMUNICATION
COMMUNICATION
Do not go to bed angry - STAY UP and argue :)
Oldson has great pointers hmm |
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SuSu
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First: A toast:
May you both grow old on one pillow.
Second: Be patient, be friends, listen to one another and be understanding. This person you married is not a clone of you and they have different opinions and views of things and you have to learn to talk things out including how you truly feel but that doesn't work if you both dont listen - truly listen - to what the other person is saying.
Be able to say what is on your mind, and trust one another.
Laugh, laugh, laugh and don't be afraid to cry in front of one another. Hang on to one another and love each other with your entire heart and soul. Be honest in ALL aspects of your life together.
If there is ever a problem, run to your spouse and talk about it. That is your best friend, your partner, your life you just married.
20 years of marrige with lots of love |
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M&M'S
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Compromise and patience. |
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Lakersfan
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Never go to sleep angry at each other. |
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Jennifer
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Learn to have good communication and trust will be the best thing to have. It also has to be 50/50, and what I mean by that is you have to give for him and he has to give for you. Keep your life romantic like going out on dates, movies, ect.. Good Luck |
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Deblyn
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Communication is the key. Talking is the best way to keep a marriage strong. Love is good, but liking them for who they are and how they treat you and others is just as important. |
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free_angel
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Give it your all.....100-100 |
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Marco
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I believe the secret to a happy marriage is for both partners to have a full understanding of the needs of their spouse, and a spirit of cooperation to meet those needs which are most important.
To that end, I'd urge any couple -- especially one early in their marriage to read the book "His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage" by Willard F. Harley Jr.
The book explains why having our needs met is so important, and provides exercises to help you figure out and communicate your basic needs. |
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mrsphd10
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Husbands love your wives as Christ has loved the church... Wives submit to your husbands. Its real simple. When men do all they can to make sure their wives are happy.... She will do all she can to make sure her husband is happy. Do unto others as you would want to be done. |
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Konstantin Kotschenreuther
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if it doesnt work dont try making it work because that will make it worse !!! |
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Lenora
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Marriage is cyclical - like the rings exchanged. It symbolizes what ones gives to another he/she can't be surprised at what is returned. For instance, if he is selfish and unconcerned about his wife's feelings, he can't be surprised when she is never in the mood. If she doesn't like to hold hands or kiss him, then she can't be surprised when he gravitates towards someone who does like to. At the same time, when he gives her his house and she makes it a home or when she enjoys doing for him and he can't help himself but to buy things for her - there should be no surprise in this either.
What does happen is that worldly things get in the way and the couple tends to forget about those small details. It's those small things that can make or break the relationship. |
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If it ant Boeing I ant going .
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Listen to each other and do what the other person wants just as much as you . |
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Purple
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Be honest with each other. Always think of things that will make your spouse happy. Be sensitive to each other's feelings. Respect and accept each other as they are. |
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Scott
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Good communication is very important. When you are happy, or unhappy, talk things over. |
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mickey mouse
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Realize the importance of effective communication & remember that it's not your spouse you're upset with, it's just the issue at hand so try not to take things too personally!!! AND "the grass is NEVER greener on the other side" so do whatever it takes to make it work with your husband and make it last forever! |
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siesteph
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hmmmmm
say your piece
don't wait 20 yrs to tell him/her what bugs you
communication is the top key to keeping your relationship healthy and happy
Good Luck/Have Fun
communicate
communicate
communicate
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becool
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Act as if everyday is the first day you met. That will keep it exciting. |
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Safwan
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First of all I am saying that if the husband had taken anything from the wife's father or mother, my advice is that say to him to give it back or his is in HELL.Because it is prohibited in islam and Prophet {PBUH} said not to take anything from the wife's father or mother.If they didn't take anything my advice is that "good luck, And move in the right path that is Islam" |
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