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What is the best revenge a wife can get against her cheating husband?

I recently found out my husband has been lying to me for 4 months and cheating, not paying bills, etc.
Ladies-what is the best revenge, I mean absolute brutal revenge-without going to jail of course?haha
MEN-what is the worst ever done to you?
serious answers please!
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And by the way-he is already OUT OF HERE! and divorce cannot be soon enough! BUT of all the dirty lies he has told-our home will be foreclosed soon, as he has not been making the payments he claimed he was making.
I STILL WANT REVENGE! yes i'm bitter, but get real-who wouldn't be?


    




NYpearl
Pack up and leave, and hire the best lawyer you can afford to get EVERYTHING from him. REVENGE without being trashy!


Beatngu
get everything you deserve and find a man who will treat you like the QUEEN you are. Get a good lawyer and make him pay. Then when he sees what he had and how good he had it.... That is when the true revenge comes out. All without being nasty. Karma will come around to bite him.


Spring
divorce him and then start dating a man better looking and that makes more money:)

and get yourself in better shape after you get rid of him that always pisses them off.


Mel
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Revenge is best served cold. Just remember that. Be cool and calm right now. Don't let him know how much he's hurt you. Let him wonder what's going on in your head. Then get him later when he least expects it.

That is, of course, if you decide to stay with him. If you are leaving, then that's the best revenge. Leave his sorry butt.


Denise J
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Divorce him. Tell his relatives that he has been cheating on you for the past 4 months. Get the meanest divorce lawyer and take all his net worth if possible. That will hurt him for a long time. It will also curtail his ability to spend money on his new lover. Don't look back, don't take him back, and continue being nice to his relatives. They will hate him.


spitchus
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rub poisen ivy all over his underwear ......


mable3691214
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The best revenge is to act like it isnt even effecting you.


YodasTatoo
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I'm sorry that you are in this situation. Please remember though, both men and women cheat.

I would think that the worst punishment for either a woman or a man is just to get out of their life altogether and never again give them the time of day. People that cheat tend to do it because they haven't communicated at home what their needs are and how the couple might work together. To go outside of the marriage is an immature cry for help, so the person that's being cheated on should just cut the cord altogether if they want to cause the most damage possible. Remember, any attention you give him is good attention, whether it be good or bad. Even John Wayne Bobbit got to be in a few adult movies after his incident with Lorena, so he was actually AWARDED for his plight. . . .


comeundone4162
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Find you a good man and live a really good life.


Bubbles
I agree with NYPearl. Revenge without being trashy. I love it!

Girl, you deserve better. Leave and never look back. Eventually, he'll realize the mistake he made and by then it will be too late.


Stephen K
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Then take him to the cleaners via the courts


Braydens' mommy
Move on and find someone else or just be happy by yourself. Men hate it when they see that we can make it without them. When I found out that my husand was cheating I had a subscription of Hustler mags sent to his work and I also logged into his e-mail and sent some pretty crazy stuff to his boss. He still does not know that it was me.


Karin H
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Why would you want revenge? You are better than that. He doesn't deserve you. The best thing you can do y go on with your life and leave him.


www.askaman
Seduce his best friend---or his worst enemy. Either one will f**k his world up, you vindictive she-devil you. Have fun,

askaman


?
Well...........it all depends on if he still loves you anymore and wants the marriage to work. If he doesn't care, very little you do will matter (short of destroying his property, which will only convince him that you're a phsycho). My advice? DATE! Date a LOT! Send a message that you've taken this opportunity to find out what you've been missing! Who knows? You might end up enjoying it.

PS: I like the advice you got about dating or sleeping with his worste enemy! Figure out who he hates the MOST, and figure out a way to become friends with that person! That would drive me absolutely up the wall!


~NIKKI~
Act like it doesn't bother you and just leave, show him he is not worth any malicious revenge. That would be the best revenge is to let him know that it had no affect on you whatsoever


I need help!
I once watched an interview with Willie Nelson who said his ex-wife got sweet revenge on him after finding out he cheated. After he passed-out in a drunken stupor she sewed the bed sheets down to the mattress and then lit the room around his bed on fire! Obviously he survived!!


jlcjills
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The best revenge is to survive, better than you were before.
Do not let him see you sweat, do not let him see you suffer.
Kick his sorry behind to the curb and go on with life. He is expecting you to be upset, to miss him, to be jealous, to be a basket case. Don't give him the courtesy of all that.

You are fine, you did nothing wrong, and you don't need him, when he sees that you are better off without him, it will destroy him.

Revenge with a touch of class


Rose T
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The best revenge for a cheating husband is just too act calm! husbands hate that, they tend too think that if you don't raise hell with them then that means you were cheating also,and of course THAT just kills them! lol..I hope divorce is allready in progress for you because I find that once a man or woman cheats, it will happen again. might be years down the road or a week later but it will happen..But act cool and calm, thats the best revenge in the world. Then their little minds start working overtime..lol


cherriwaves
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Get the best Lawyer you can find in your county.

Then cut of contact with him, and make sure your lawyer notifies
him that you will only be speaking to him when your lawyer is present.

Drop the extra weight you have put on (if any) during the marriage and start dating someone completely opposite of him.

Don't get even get EVERYTHING!

This is the classy way, and the most mature.


Xena
If you still love him and can forgive him.....then no need for revenge . If not....then divorce him , and move on. Best revenge is living happily! Im sure right now you wanna do something really nasty to hurt him, but it will only come around and bite you in the *** in the end. Show him you are better off without him.


suepooh23
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divorce that SOB
sleep with his best friend


Caramel
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You obviously plan on staying with him. Sooo, my lawful suggestion is to spray paint the side of his car, "IM CHEATING ON MY WIFE" in Big Readable Letters! This is bound to get tones of attention. Could you imagine how embarrassed he would be at work, at the stop light, just driving down the road! But sweetheart, once he starts cheating on you, it's a never ending thing. He may quit for a minute but he will do it again and again. So this is just a temporary fix to numb your emotions for a day or two. But when it's all over with you are still going to face those hurt feelings. And then what will you really do? Cause getting revenge may just make you feel sorry down the road. And when you finally get tired of his sh*t, then get a divorce with dignity. Nothing will hurt a man worse than that. It will not seem like it at first because they will act like they don't care but when they see they had it better at home and try crawling back it will hurt them worst than you making a fool of yourself. Im telling you first hand.


LilSunbeam
Actually leave him with a smile and act like it totally doesnt bother you at all. Take your grace and dignity with you and it will make him feel more like crap than anything you can do to get him back. If you sink to his level it will make him feel less guilty, guilt really is the best revenge. And then take the sorry son of a b*tch to court and clean his clock.


jc
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Here are a few...

Tell his parents what he did as well as his siblings and close friends.

Sleep with his best friends(s)

Lose weight, get in shape, get a makeover and look like a million bucks and don't give him the time of day.

Be happy and successful without him.


♥Jen♥
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Leave and take him for all he's worth!





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