What is the formula for a happy married life?

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I would rather quote the second comandment given by Christ " LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF" This the real formula for a happy married life.If you love your spouse as your self you both will always be happily married.

NoDeal21

either no kids or stay single.

Enigma

being friends with your spouse and never go to bed mad at eachother

garfield

Compromise and communication

CMoe

Respect for one anothers feelings. be romantic. Living for each other. keep things fresh. trust each other. fight temptation. There will be times that your love will be put to the test. It's what you make of it. Don't throw it away. Good luck.

sanam

Love and affection, Sincere, Give and take, Patience, Understanding etc., makes marriage life very happy.

HereweGO

Love, love is what will help get you both through the rough spots and there will be many. Trust, trust helps open communication and love blossom. Friendship, friendship will help your relationships foundation to be strong. Respect, respect will keep your communication honest and kind. Without respect for one another you can be angry and ugly with the one person whom you should love more than life. Hugs and Kisses every chance you get. Say "I love you" constantly - you never know when it will be the last. Apologize when you are wrong. Be strong and don't give up Marriage is worth fighting for because True LOVE only comes once in a lifetime!!!

kazzadanni

I believe the best formula is LOVE and plenty of it. Honesty and trust also communication is a must. Mutual respect, a willingness to accept we all make mistakes and forgive each other. Helping one another. A cuddle when down or upset. Just loving one another faults and all.

bettyrubbleau

When you find out please let me know. I have been married for 29yrs and the last 5/6yrs has been quite bad. It is very hard to get trust back into the relationship when he has been cheating for 2 of those years and kept it from you for 4yrs even though you asked and asked cause really you knew something was going on.
When his way of handling it is to basically tell you it is in the past so therfore, you should be over it!! He doesn't want to talk about it. Maybe the secret is to only stay married for 10yrs.

Jena Isle

You have to work hard for it. It does not come in a silver platter. There will be a little rain and sunshine. ( problems and happiness) but always having a positive attitude will help a lot in turning the problems into happiness. A correct frame of mind is vital for a successful marriage. Love is like a plant that should also be nurtured and taken cared of. Let your love for each other grow by understanding , concern and thoughtfulness. Do not allow the sun to set, without you settling your differences, if any. Do something sweet as often as you can. Vary your activities and love making. Learn how to make love in various ways. Seek not to be understood as to understand. Support him in his endeavours. Listen to what he says. ( for women) Never, never nag, in any given situation. (men really hate this foremost). Love, love and still love.

just curious

be careful in a marriage that you want to last. some things can not be undone. so ask yourself before you do something, will I regret it.
also, there needs to be trust and communication.

sureshflourish

One word lady...only one....TRUST!!!!!

livelovelaugh

Communication, Acceptance of your difference. Comprises. Lean to Back down. Saying sorry when needed, Faithful, Honest,Helpful, Kindness,Understanding, Taking care of each other and each others needs.Trust,Loving and Forgiveness.

Prof. M

Patience - vs - acceptance. Respect other one's feelings. Forget what is not done and not achieved. Radha in Vrindavan told Lord that 'Lord it is you.....' use same formula 'Everything is you.....' Lord Jesus told 'What you expect from others, give it to others'

Just me

Love & trust & selflessness :)

eternity

Am very proud to be one of married woman , God should be centered for both of you and be understanding to each oher ,respect ,love the person whom ur husband or wife unconditonally.

irbid_mix

Respect and understanding are very important, if the couple lose the respect for each other then the marriage cannot go on, couples have to understand each other, and stand by each other all the time, and the most important thing is having the will to go on, and having the will to work things out and try to beat any problems that might come their way

Achha Admi Buddha Admi

Happy Marriage
No formula as on date.
It is the state of mind.
Two together can only decide.Please do that

Van T

The formula for a happy married life is to give a man his
space and find your own things to do. Don't be a diaper
on his butt and always full of s**t.

onlineseeker

There is indeed a formula:

Both people live there lives thinking of ways to please their spouse in all ways.

This is called love.

arku19462004

Love and let love.

Martha K

Love and communication

Gloâ˜…

Communication, Trust, Honesty, Compromise! God bless*******

Display

hey, understand each other, dont trust other words, start trusting each other, this is one and only formula

bigirv@sbcglobal.net

Hold on. I'll ask my wife

happy_blabla

Choose right; be consequent; communicate genuinely; Dont let hurt you, try to really understand your man; humor; dont take yourself not too serious; take regard, take it easy, enjoy good times; think positive; the higer the claims the harder to please; Set priority.

But I have to mention:
- There is no formula
- There is no guarantee

Choose right

Important: You can give a lot of advices during the relationship. But if the choose is wrong you can often forget it right from the start. Thats why I decided to write more about this here:

Dont just choose what you like, choose what fits to you too.
There are so much people who choose bad. Listen to wrong signs for example only superfical signs. Much people dont listen right (Behind the lines). Im not suprised. Cause Love makes blind. Try make the right choice as long you can see.
Its absolutely suprising how unskilful in choosing the right fellow certain girls or men are. They choose superficial. A good choice often isnt the choice which seems to be. Its unbelievable. Some girls prefere guys simulating than telling the truth which hurts but helps developing or learning from faults.

Be consequent

You have to set priority in life. You cant have one and the another. You have o know what you want and communicate this straight. People let them hurting. Other people just do the things to you you let them doing. Many of them would be well advised to be more consequent. If once your man realize that he can have you no matter he will do its too late.

Dont expect changes your partner but respect him. He will not change. Be just happy if he will. You can adapt but changing other characters is difficult.

ms . heartbroken

., trust,respect,communication, love and god is the main formula of a happy marriage

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