What is the key to stay married for many years (till death due us apart)?

zeba

trust each other
try to be more as frds rather than wife husband
discuss problem but no torchers in future related to that disicussion
give space to each other rather than pressure
freedom and its limits
beleive in u and beleive in ur partner
be ready in any problem of each other

Jewells

Patience.

superboredom

honesty, being faithful, communication, loving and caring, being there for eachother, compromising, when problems occur solve them immediately...etc.

SEXY 818

You need to do things together as a couple. Go out together with other couples. If you do the things you did together before you were married, you will always stay togehter. 11 years married. It is always a work in progress.

Patience.

WxEtte

be best friends

effecter

Just go and see a Muslim married couple how they live. You will get the best answer for sure.

mjboog2

taking your vows seriously to begin with....that's it...all of your vows "cover" any situation you could ever run into as a couple...stick to them

Amazon

Make sure that you like the person. Of course you should love them too. Its one thing to love, but liking is a completely different thing.

~Saratini~

space... you need to be able to do your own things. spending all day every day every moment together can add stress to a relationship

communication is also key

evelyn_01

Trust, Patient, Communication and Love.

Cobra

Love, honesty,friendship,good communication,caring,taking your vows seriously and never being afraid to say your sorry or l was wrong.and to be able to forgive that person for their mistakes.and dont bring up the past,

Angel Eve

Communication
Conversation
Complete Trust

Trust is the biggest thing... Once you've lost that, the relationship is over.

+++++ SPOOK ++++

BALANCE EVERYTHING

LOVE
RESPECT
MONEY
KIDS
HAPPINESS

IF YOUR HUSBAND MAKES YOU ANGRY JUST SCREAM AT HIM AND TRAIN THEM TO DO AS YOU SAY!!

marks3kids

We take 2 vacations a year. I take mine in the spring and she takes hers in the fall. Been together forever. Good Luck

Just Me

Communication, trust, loyalty, and pure and simple love

sshhorty2

for us its God first each other second and ourselves last.

masterblaster146

love,honesty,commitment, all in that order..,I've been married 15 years.

Grandma

never go to bed angry with each other.

akristel2003

couples that play together, stay together.

Kamunyak

I am not married yet (just got engaged) but I heard a on the radio this story of a man and and woman who had been married about 60 years. They said the secret to there marrige was that they had one little fight everyday... and they made up everyday too. I

Mommymonster

From one who has sat in that boat for 14 years:

Patience. Tons and tons of patience. Rome wasn't conquered in a day and you're not always going to like each other. Little things, let them go. They are not worth the grief.

>>||<<

1)Communicate and be open minded to your partner.

2)Never make them feel like what they are talking about is stupid. You might think they are off the wall in their head for thinking a certain way but never tell them that. You just might change you mind and think the same way.

3) Never call your partner names when in an arguement. The name will be remembered long after the arguement is over.

4) You don't always have to be right.

5) Never go to bed angry.

6) Make your partner feel secure in your marriage.

Again, you gotta ask!

Love TRUST communication and respect

baby_luv

Honesty, trust, compromise,communication and lots of love.

metalicgirl69

devotion by both parties.

gabby

patience & communication

someone

Spirituality, in turn practicing LOVE from a higher place of respect, patience, kindness, honor. And as Erma Bombeck said...having the luck not to both fall out of love at the same time!!!

lisa46151

Trust...Honesty..and laughter......
Don't sweat the small stuff and never say something you'll regret. Even though you say your sorry...the damage is already done.
Have faith and respect each other.
Good Luck and God Bless

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