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What is the quickest way to get over an ex?

yeah we had a pretty serious relationship, we loved each other, I loved her family and we were all close together and then I found out how cruel and dishonest of a person she really was when she left me for the second time. I keep wishing things could be back to normal?????????

and I've tried talking to her...she's already had 3 different guys since we've broke up less than a month ago


    




scott c
Man I tell you what, I have been hurt several times i my life, its never easy, it hurts I know. You feel sick and cant eat or sleep sometimes, you feel like someone had kicked you in the stomach, am I getting close??? People say time will heal all wounds and that's true. Trying to hang on to the way it was for you is tearing you up and she doesn't seem to care and the hurt full part is she probably doesn't. The worst thing you can do is lay around the house and suffer or drive by where she lives or beg or whatever. That just gives her more power over you in some way ..... you agree so far??? The best answer is the one I know you don't want to hear ...... let her go!!!, maybe ... just maybe she might come back one day .... but even if she does she might run off again one day ... right??? You need to clear your mind, so go and do whatever it takes, easier said than done.. right ??? but look at it it now, whose hurting? her ? no ... you? .... yea! go for a walk .. go get drunk .... go out in the woods and scream ..... beat up your pillow ...... ask another girl out ..... go buy some new clothes ..... clean up your vehicle ..... go fishing ...... anything but laying around and thinking about it, hey man take it from me sitting and thinking is not doing you any good, do yourself a favor and do yourself a favor .... ok??? ...... cheer up !!!


KA
find another girl


Mat M
get a new ex.


Mii$z fR3$H
get a new girl


acujocat@att.net
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Start dating again!!!


primalclaws1974
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The joke is always to get over someone get under someone new. Lots of people take that advice. It might work.


Josh
get with another girl


Pete
i'd say she got rid of you a long time ago in her mind..... I wouldnt worry about her there are a lot more fish in the sea so to speak. Listen to the song "unanswered prayers" by garth brooks that will give you all of the answers you need


Kelsey I
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burn his picture lol


NickJ_luver
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well im sorry you ever were together with her...
you should get a new girlfriend to make your self feel better. go out there and mingle. :p


xohmaddie:)
get a new gf. and don't think about her lol


jesus
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i hate to break it to you but their is no quickest way its hard not easy to get over someone you had strong feelings for her because its in the heart if you thought getting over someone is easy your wrong its harder than you think it is it isn't easy period it takes time for the feeling to go away. but it also depends how much you really cared and loved her and what she meant to you .


Sicko
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Go get a tim hortons coffee.


Whoknows
excersize
get out more
hang out with the buds
hang out with girls, that doesnt mean go out with them, just make some friends that are girls
stop contacting her. she knows where to find you.
think about this objectively, from a third person's view


joicewilder
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show her that you don't care about her any more.
get a new GIRL! rub her in your exes face.


John
Get a hobby that takes up your time.


mt
Find someone new!!!!


Ron-Y
go to fun parties with lots of hot chicks...have fun, but make sure to always use protection dude....

if u were here in LA u will be able to forget about her that same day ya left each other....flier parties every weekend...wooooooooooo


CM
Hang out with your guy friends, focus on other things (job, school, etc), and get another girl.


mommy to baby.....30 of march
distract yourself and have some fun meet new people and find a another girl eventuallyy you will find someone way better than her..


Emily
im not kidding, im basically in the same situation that you're in.
i'm totally trying to forget about me and my boyfriend doing anything,
i've been talking to other boys, and just been trying to forget.
it's easier for girls to get over their relationships than boys.


Shannon
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Understand that she used you and once she could no longer use you as much as she wanted to, she left.
She came back when you were the next best person to use and she'll use you again if you let her.

Break all contact. Never respond to her again.


Jordan
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go on vacation, or get a new partner, or you could just try working things out. =]


Nickan M
go hook up wit some crazy hot drunk chick
get crunk


Jay
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there is no quick fix unfortunately though a good way would be to throw everything that may remind u of hers, pics presents ect also cut ALL contact.its easier said then done but these are crucial steps.she will come back once ur gone, dont give in to it.u deserve better.


Tiaun
Man! This is such a dead-on question! Most people react different to the break of a strong relationship. Your personality reflects on what you think is best for you to do to move along. Its pretty sad because if you really still feal strong for this person....its like an addiction and you have to avoid it to get over it....be patient because good ex's take time to get over...but if you cant stay away you can ask back togetherness!





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