What is wrong with giving a woman a Cubic Zirconium engagement ring?

Lucy_Fir

So, you're ok with lying to the woman you supposedly love enough to give a ring to? She'll find out. Go ahead and break up with her now because it's obvious you're not mature enough to be in a relationship.

hughjorgan_2552

it shouldnt be what the ring is made of but the thought that counts...however in this case i dont think there is much thought it in as you would rather go motorcycling with your pals. get your priorities in order man.

FlaChic

You are a cheap skate and a liar and had better skip the engagement all together, you moron! Go buy the motorcycle, cruise into the sunset and have a good life! Eeeee Gads!!!

lon d

i think you should let her find someone who will love her and not be as selfish as you are. she truly deserves someone better than you. don't be so sure she won't find out-she can always have that appraised. sounds like your a fake too-so your probably right she doesn't know the difference and won't figure it out, but when she does-oh well adios amigo!

watergirl

If you can't purchase the real thing, don't buy the fake. She will figure it out eventually or someone will tell her the ring is Cubic Zirconium.

You need to set your priorities straight. You are already off on a negative tone ..."if we break up, or she loses it, there is no loss." Sounds to me that you are not sure if this is the right girl for you, and the idea of purchasing another motorcycle is more important to you than investing in an engagement right of value.

Muffin

Sweetie if you are planning on getting her a fake ring and then trying to cover it up because you don't think yall are going to make it then you need to reconsider. It is totally wrong to buy her a fake ring, I mean TOTALLY.

Hot Lips 4077

there is nothing wrong with giving her a CZ if she KNOWS what it is. the type of deception you are talking about is wrong. how would you feel if she deceived you about something that was fundamentally important to you?

why are you wasting HER time?Move on already................spare her the fake relationship,(just like the ring).You only want a motor cycle to **Cruise** with your buddies??Shhhhure'ya do! Is your girlfriend going to be one of the chic's on the back of the bike?or are you cruising for chics ?If I were her you'd be crusin ANYWAYS without a bike!!!!!

dragonfire

if she's the type looking for a diamond
then you all ready well on your way to divorce
why marry such a women?
your buddies will be more true to you than she will

charliew77

Seriously? If you're not will to give the girl a real diamond, why bother getting engaged? You're going to lie to her right out of the gate.

At any rate, there's few visual differences that are immediately visible with the naked eye, but if she got it appraised on her own, the jig would be up.

Wikipedia has a list of the differences between CZ and diamonds.

moneekie

Nothing is wrong with a "FAKE DIAMOND" if that's all you can afford. But if you rather have a motorcycle instead of getting your girl the best than your not really ready for marriage.

shomechely

Do the girl a favor. Skip the ring, buy the motorcycle and leave town.

And for the "it's the thought that counts" crowd. Yes, it is the thought that counts THAT'S WHY YOU BUY A DIAMOND! It's pure, it's rare, it lasts forever, get it? Cheese and rice! I never knew there were so many cheap *** losers out there! Why even bother with a CZ ring. Just put a bread tie on her finger and call it good! Damn! guys! If you aren't willing to put the effort in on the engagement ring, you certainly aren't worth the effort of making a marriage work.

SCHANEEKQUEAH GOTTI

you ain't gonna fool anybody.diamonds are forever. when people ask to see her ring she'll fell embarassed. that is if she takes it . you are better off getting a promise ring that looks good enough.

Suzi W

SKIP THE RING........... Buy the motorcycle..........IF she found out about th fake. you would have been starting an important part of your life with a lie......
Now you could ask her how she feels, and if she doesn't mind.. Some would prefer it, when themoney is used for a home, furniture , etc.

angel74

cubic is nothing woman want diamonds it means a lot more......

charlie_2you

So..let's see...a lie...and a liar, love is in the air
So as a lie, you present a gift of "fake" value (aprraisal) ...a lie as his sign of love - how touching

I suggest you break up and save yourself the cost of the very expense divorce you are very clearly headed for before you are even married

I pray this is a joke

joy

your a real winner

ycatstouch

To me, there is no big deal if that is what you can afford. However, what you are thinking about doing is down right deceitful and wrong. You are more concerned with yourself than your soon to be fiance, which makes me question your value on the relationship. Perhaps you should postpone the engagement until you have further thought about your personal goals and future.

r2d2

the ring is not your problem...your other agendas are...if your not ready for marriage...if your not ready for a life change...if your not ready to communicate the idea of a fake diamond...this communicated might suprise you...she may be all for it! If your not ready for the trust and commitment ahead of you...perhaps you ought to rethink your motives. Are you wanting to get married really? If you can not commit and you are not ready... Let your girl know that you are not ready ///if your not. If you are ready then Buddy...cruising with your buddies are not a priority...that will just be something you and your new wife will have to work into your relationship somehow if you
truly are committed and understand what marriage is Buddy! Being Married is a JOB! It is a JOB that GOD has given the betrothed...The Bible tells man three times to Love his wife...now why is that you suppose...perhaps it is because men have a problem with this in general. Are you up for the JOB Buddy?

happygirl

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with a nice CZ. But if you really love this girl you will buy HER the new BIKE and forget the ring altogether!

kayro3

there is nothing wrong with giving that if that is all you can afford, but you can give better you are just trying to be selfish. the point of the ring is that i spent all i had to let you know that i am serious about being with you and that i love you. it is supposed to be a selfless act. it sounds like you are not ready for this relationship.

Couto

bet me she won't find out !!!! I don't know any women that don't get their own appraisal sooner of later. Especially if she insures it. ( you should be paying about 3 months gross wages for a good one.)

dark angel

u dont want to buy a ring because your friends r more impor- to r u human or just an ***

Sassy OLD Broad

Hey, leave the woman alone. That's a cheap trick to play when it's just because you're being selfish. You certainly are not the 'catch of the year"! Do her a favor and break up with her and get your motor bike! She'll be happy you did later on down the road, you little cheap pr*ick!

MJ1977

sound like you not ready to get married..sound like you assume all bad things..i think you should go buy motocycle insted..and if she loves you she will understend that you not ready yet to setlle down

Genevasthebest

Obviously if youre going to give her a fake ring, and lie to her about it then you dont really want to be married to her anyway, so why dont you just spare the girl hardship and go buy that new motorcycle.

Delilah

Ahhh...I see....you want to skimp on your gf's ring so that you can buy "another" motorcycle ...."to cruise with your buddies instead."
Do your girl a favor, don't give her a CZ.....don't give her any ring======you are too young and immature to settle down.

shere w

i don't think there is anything wrong with it but i don't think u should lie about the ring if you really love this woman why not just get her a real ring and put the bike on the back burner for now. if you think about it it's not how much the gift cost but the thought behind it so don't cheapen it any more with a lie good luck

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