What makes a husband fall in LOVE with his wife all over and make his eyes sparkle again?

Love2Sew

The problem is HIM, not you. Now that you have to spend so much time taking care of a child, he may feel (immaturely) that he isn't the center of the universe anymore.

You are finding out what many women find out--that there is a weak, self-centered side to the man they married.

Don't act desparate--that just fuels his ego and arrogance.

Men want what they can't have--that never changes. Stop trying so hard--and give him distance. One person can not fix a broken marriage--it has to be both.

qhowarddad

For me it's usually whenever she does something surprisingly nice for me. Something small from out of the blue....it show me that she still cares for me and in turn reminds me why I married her.

Stacy H

Arrange a date.that reminds him of your first date.maybe same place,or same activties.or just do somethine romantic and sweet.snuggle maybe.slow dance.peaice and quiet and some alone time can solve it.

Annie R

Everytime she shows him that he made the right decision.........

Erin S

Check out the book Love Languages. It has some great advice for keeping love alive in a relationship.

StraightDrive

For your info, men look at women not their dress. The dresses are for other women folk. Your baby must have caused a small gap in your otherwise steady relationship. If you are back to normal health and fitness then start afresh and spend more time with him. Go on a vaction to release the stress of work and routine life.

Phantom of the Opera

If you have not been taking good care of your outlook, then go for grooming class. If you have those curvy assets, flaunt them to him.
Tease him with tight fitting clothes revealing your cleavage and body curves and wriggle around the house.
If he still does not notice all this, send him to the optician to get his eyes checked.

kdeegan2006

Never let him get that bored to start with. Always make him wonder what you're gonna do next.

hys7768

Honestly....sit your husband down and have a long talk. Tell him how you are feeling. He is probably feeling the same thing, but just doesn't know how you might react. I've been in your shoes before to where my wife was feeling the same way. I had to reassure her that I am still madly in love with her as the first day I met her. It's just that when you have a baby, it's a whole lot of other responsibilities that you have to take care of...and it wears you out. He could just be stressed out and don't know how to come to you about it...and the same with you. So just sit him down and have a heart to heart talk.

Kitty

I think sparkle are in his eyes for another woman. after the wife have the baby,s the man go out looking for someone new to f...

lillady

I'd like to know too, after a while it just seems they don't look at you the same, they don't touch you the same, and that spark isn't there anymore. I know how you feel!

FrEaKoNaLeAsH

When he truely comprehends how great and true her love for him is.
When he feels he has hit bottom with no way out, and as he looks up, there is her hand reaching in to pull him out......
When he's going through troubled times and emotional turmoil and he looks up to see his head has been laying on her breast, her hand upon his head.........
When he is drowning in a sea of tears and as his vision begins to clear, he sees it is her drying the blurr of salty water rimming his eyes........
When he is old and gray and ailing, it is her hand that gently washes and feeds him and eases his suffering.........
When he guestions himself and his judgement , he hears her say, " I trust you"......
When he is riddled with quilt for having hurt her, she whispers...."I forgive you".......

kikul3204

i've never been married, but i can probably give you some advice. i think you should try to take him back before you got married and had the baby, back to when you first met or on your first date. try to rekindle how you left about him back then and how he felt about you. just forget about the present and focus on the past for a day or two and probably end it in a great romance.

canucklehead1951

When the bloom is off a relationship, it's off forever. This is a normal thing and you shouldn't let it bother you. Now's the time for you to roll up your sleeves and get down to the business of being married, rather than simply being in love. All couples have differences that can't be resolved. Accept them or leave. Most everyone in the whole world who is married learns this.
The exceptions are shallow Hollywood stars who pack up and leave the moment they find that they aren't hot for each other every waking second of the day and they call it irreconcilable differences. Hello Carmen Electra.

smiley

pay back it's a wake up call

cmyl77

my husband says he likes the smile i give him but really, get a good babysitter that u trust and tell him when he gets home u have a surprise for him when he gets home take him out on the town and when ur just sitting there at the table or whatever touch his hand smile tell him u love him and weak at him i think ur a n excepional husband a great dad and i love you i just thought youd like to hear that,now tell me what what u think of me, please hunny i really would like to know good luck

beAn*s MoMmy

I am carrying his baby and he just stares in awe at me and always touches my belly..... its like we are falling in love all over again!

old man

Once you have a baby a guy looks at life differently, more responsibility, wondering about the future,etc.
before baby it was just the two of you playing house, now it's for real.

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