What reason doe's a married woman need a myspace page for, and why did she angry when I questioned it?

tamara

i'm married and on myspace all the time, i only talk to my cousin and his girlfriend, but there are plenty of reasons to have a myspace and if she is looking for people she knows the computer is so much more convienant than a phone book

Dr. PhD

If she said it was to contact classmates you should believe it. The reason she got angry is because of your lack of trust in her by questioning it. Unless she's given you a reason to be leary then back off and let her have her myspace page. Nothing will push a spouce away like an overprotective, overbearing husband.

BabyGirlK

I am married and have a my space page....and its fun to contact your old classmates and such...if she is new to it she will probably be on it a whole bunch at first....its very addicting kinda like Y! Answers :)

Jordan J-P

Relax man she's just keeping in touch with old mates !

queenbee

Wow! I have a Myspace account, Yahoo 360 and Facebook account. I am also on here once in awhile. My husband knows that I have all of this and he is fine with it. I even joke around with him and tell him "I got 'love notes' today", which means that I was talking to one of the guys on my accounts. He knows that it's only a joke and feels no jealousy or insecurities about it. Why are you so bent out of shape over your wife being on the computer? If you don't trust her then you shouldn't be married.

Suzu1980

I have a split answer about this. I'm a married woman and have a Myspace page, which I use to talk with old friends, relatives and people in my church. My husband knows my password and can see what I'm doing on it anytime he'd like. My husband, on the other hand, has a Myspace page which he has used to contact old friends INCLUDING an exgirlfriend who he emails all the time (sometimes several times a day). Of course, this has become a huge prob in our marriage (I also don't know his password.) I have more or less forced him to let me on his account and had read all the emails he and she had sent and while he says they are innocent, they seemed very flirty to me. I suggest talking with her about, checking out her page and seeing if there are any questionable people on it talking with her.

Shoe Queen

myspace isn't just for dating, I wouldn't worry so much about it. She just wants to get the dirt on other people's lives without actually having to pick up a phone.

lisalisa

The same reason your on here yahoo answers because you enjoy it does that mean your cheating?

casper

I created a MySpace profile just so I could look for old classmates and people I know. But I don't have any pictures of myself, family or friends on it. I check it once a month (if that)!!
Maybe she felt that you had an accusitional tone in your voice and got defensive right away (which may come across like she is p*ssed). This happens alot with my husband and I.

ChemoAngel

Maybe she just wants to make some new friends. It doesn't neccesarily mean "Boy Friends". she got pissed because she thinks that you are accusing her of cheating on you. Just leave her be, if she is cheating on you, then you will find out soon enough.

Andrea

my space is not only for meeting singles, it's a place to keep in touch with friends. Take a look at her page, do you see any evidence that she is trying to meet other men? Is she secretive about her page? If not, she is only trying to keep in contact with friends, family, etc..

jdydewing

I ran into this same thing with my man on accident, a friend told me. It made me furious to find out that way. Set up your own myspace, I did and he stoped doing it.

country girl

I have a myspace page and so does my husband. We're also on it all the time. We send each other little romantic letters through it. I also use it to keep in touch with my old classmates and my sisters that are 9 hours away.

rockinpunkin

It's a social networking site where people keep in touch with old and new friends. It's initially really addicting.

jim's girl

i am 35, married and have 5 kids and i have a myspace to keep track of my teenagers that are on it, they hate it and it keeps them from saying things that they don't want me to know but it doesn't keep their friends from talking about things that they are doing so they get busted either way!!! sometimes it is the only way that you can keep tabs on what your kids are doing if they don't live with you, they live with their irresponsible father who doesn't care what they do and all that....

zoey1176

It's fun, you can find a lot of people on it that you have lost contact with, I would not worry about it. My sister and I are always on it I live in the usa and she lives in the uk. It's like she never left from home.

Lisa S

I think it looks suspicious too. Seems unnecessary for a married woman to have myspace page unless maybe she selling a product or she's a musician. She could be contacting classmates, but there's more than classmates on there for sure. Plus, if it was only for old friends, she wouldn't be on there all that much and she sure wouldn't be angry when you asked her about it.

Derby Doll

Ive found lots of friends I went to school with on myspace... but my soon to be ex-husband says he was doing the same, turned out he was getting kinky online with random girls from myspace. If you trust her dont worry bout it... or ask her if you can make it a couples page. If she closes screens when you walk into the room, get rid of the internet.

ohiofirefighter42

My wife and I both have myspace pages...all our children are grown and its a great way to keep up with our kids lives, Many of our friends have pages and it lets us keep in touch with them and thier kids. We have also been able to find long lost friends.

Really dont see why you would have a problem with it.....

I'm Just a BIll

Myspace is fun and a great way to occupy your time. Your wife probably just wants something that is uniquely hers. You should start your own page. It's fun.

thegirl

I am married and I have a myspace page and actually one of my old classmates told me about it and I gave it a try i like it now and I got back in touch with some old classmates. If she is on it all the time she might just be working on her homepage. Don't worry my husband did not like it either until I showed him my page and showed him who was I friends with and then he was ok with it. So maybe you should ask her to show you her page. Just in case there is another website too where you can find other classmates or relatives is facebook.

mizzhollywood26

Maybe she has it just for fun.

ndnqt1966

I believe that myspace is just a way to keep in touch with people....some people use it for exactly that...but others choose it to hook up with people....even married people...Myspace isn't to blame for this....It is up to individuals to be responsible for their intentions with Myspace. I personally don't have myspace....As I really don't have too many people that I want to keep in touch with....but as long as your wife is using it for exactly what she says she is using it for...there is no reason to be concerned...

I'm married and I have a myspace page. A lot of my friends do too. The reason I created one is that I'm an aspiring author and was advised to start one for networking purposes. I do keep in touch with friends and also network with published authors. A lot of people think myspace is just for dating, but you can put "married" on your display and also choose who you add as friends. So if it's someone you don't know or someone who might be hitting on you or whatever, you can deny them as a friend. Why she got angry when you questioned it....who knows....maybe she just thinks you don't trust her.

arkiegirl

If she needs a way to "contact" her classmates, tell her to get their e-mail addresses! She doesn't need MySpace for that..

I'm not going to try to say that if a married person is on that site, that they're up to no good. However, your wife's reaction makes it seem like she really is up to something she shouldn'.. or she wouldn't have gotten so defensive about it.

You need to figure out what's really going on with her MySpace page.. cause it sounds like she may be hiding something.

Have a great day!

onenonlymanna

unfaithfulness

CATHERiNE

They might not need a myspace, but she is entitled to have one. Maybe she wanted one because it's the latest way to stay in touch with friends, family, etc.

As for the fact that she is always on it, it is incredibly addicted. She probably doesn't realize that she is spending so much time on it.

Another reason that she may be mad is because she feels like you don't trust her. However, I'm outside the situation, so I wouldn't know.

Good luck, and I hope I helped.

Lv Dr. 4U

To keep in touch with friends and family!

Sherri

I got a myspace to keep tabs on my teenage daughter (she knows I spy on her). To my surprise, many old friends from high school have contacted me through myspace and I am enjoying this form of communication. My profile clearly says that I am married.

oracleofohio

I'm married and I have a myspace page. I forget to check it ....

I have it to keep in contact with out of town friends and to watch my son's myspace activities....

I also run a page for my band.

If she's on it all the time and is defensive about it well...hmmm

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