What should I do? My fiance stole my debit card?

protos2222222

First, pls refer to him as ex-fiance.
Do you still want to be with such a loser???
Please make police report and let them talk to him.
Don't think you can cancel the transaction.

Melissa R

Report the card stolen, give him his ring back, and get out while you still can. He has a serious problem and you should not be with him.

beth r

i would get ride of him he has a gambling problems if he has already stole from you who's to say he wont do it again don't cancel the account make him pay it back

god

call the police, have him arrested, and find someone else.

drumrb0y

Your fiance is a gambling addict, a thief and a liar who wants to drag you into a felony crime. Cancel the wedding and call the police.

dharma_claire

get used to it if he does it once he will do it again

coldilocks

report him and then dumb his ***

strawberries

First of all if this guy is stealing your cards you need to dump him? There is NO EXCUSE for that! Please do not marry this guy. He will get you in debt. Get rid of him!

Medical and Business Information

WHAT! You have to be kidding me. And your going to marry this man. He has a gambling addiction and you need to address that before he takes you to the poor house. You may love him but do not allow him to steal from you and watch your things or you will have no valuables at all. Good luck.

superrelax

make him pay you back then DUMP HIM!! that's pretty deceitful, not to mention illegal if it's not also his bank account.

Romaneasca

STOLE?! Honey, you better be careful. Good think you're not married yet. Talk to him!!! Be like: WHAT THE HELL??? Or...just stay calm : Hi honey. Saw you lost some more money?

You don't want to be dealing with a gambler!

frustrated

Well if he simply stole it, regardless of what he used it for , that is your clue to make him an ex. $1500.00 is
alot off money and I would make him pay you back, if
he owes the money else where, too bad, he needs to pay it back to you and whoever he lost it to. That was his responsibility and if he gets by with it this time, He'll do
it again. You aren't really considering marrying him are you? I sure hope not !!! Does he have a job?

fairyjin1971

Well, i would be pissed off!! But have you ever let him use the debit card before? And was any of his money in your account? Now, thats a lot of money! i hope it wasn't your guys money you had to get married cause if it was there might not be one huh? ha,ha! i know it's not funny! well can he pay it back? does he have anything thats worth anything that you can hold or pawn? well he's in the dog house now!! i hope you both can work things out, good luck.

Amanda S

That should put up major RED FLAGS!!!! The same thing happened to comediene Kathy Griffin although her husband stole in excess of 74,000. but here's the deal, One, your fiance is telling you to cancel the transaction. thats not very commendable. so he might not call it this but the bank would call it stealing! do you want to marry someone that is so shady? lets rethink this a little, I know dating is hard but a life of forced crime is worse

Catspaw

Call the bank and tell them it was stolen. Then report him to the police. The bank can trace what poker account it was used on and will prosecute him.

Well, I guess divorce is out of the question as of yet?

want it bad

cancel the transaction and get rid of him!!! Dump him in the most embarrassing way possible so he will be motivated to get help. You deserve better.

RAINBOW

If he STOLE it than I would file charges on him. Thats a lot of money and I'm sure you worked hard for it. I don't think you can cancel on a Debit card. If you think you might be able to then call the bank and ask?

classy chic

That is a big no no I known my boyfriend for years and I hide my purse from him!! I would beat his a#@ for taking my debit card you will need to cancel that transaction and you are with in good limits to sue his a#@ for that that was not your transaction I would report my card stolen and he would have to pay for that !!

linda

If you cancel the transaction the bank is not gonna look very favorably on you. In fact it is considered fraud.

I would think twice about being the finance of a guy who would steal from you and has a gambling problem to boot.

He had no respect for you, your trust or your credit rating.

I see lots of trouble with this guy!!

iamback55

Make him pay you back and report him if he refuses & dump him now!!

Latintweety

dont get married to him. There isnt anything you can do except make him pay you back. You cant lie to the bank. you could get in big trouble.

Willnotlietoyou

That tells you that he has a gambling problem and that he can not be trusted.(Advice)Get out of that relationship before it gets to the point where he takes much more than that.It gets bad enough you will have the same people he owes breathing down your neck for the money he owes them,and they don't play games.If you love him,the best thing to do is let him go.Not for his sake,but for yours.

bluez

Dump him (he obviously has a gambling problem on top of the deceit problem) and then file a lawsuit against him.

JO`NAE

Call the cops. He stole your card you didn't give it to him!!! Sweetie this is not the man you want to marry. And, why did you give him your pin number.

tbd2_2000

You are aware that it is illegal and if caught, depending on what state you live in it could be a felony.....Someone better put a lasso on the finances or someday bubba and his buddies might come collecting or worse yet how about a repo of something you both own because he gambled the money, Try gamblers anonmous. Good Luck

treatau

you should cancel your card,cance your relationship with him,tell the bank your card was stolen and dont talk to your ex finace someone who loves you wouldnt of done that so let him go move on and sort out the card issue with the bank asap

Tom

Call your bank immediately and let them know what happened. You probably won't be able to cancel the transaction, but you could make your fiance liable.
He might have a gambling problem. Be very careful as you get closer to the wedding.

Been There~Done That!

First of all he would not be my fiance any longer. If this does not wake you up nothing he does will. Make a police report and make him liable for it. Stand on your own two feet and stand up to him.

Would you honestly expect someone to tell you to pay for it and forgive him? I hope not.

You will find the right person to be in your life one day. But it certainly does not sound like this one is a very good idea at all.

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