What should I do? PLEASE HELP ME..?

MsBusylips

I think you need to stop and breath first of all. Don't let him confuse you because he is confused. If he doesnt know what he wants fine. You need to get busy living your life. It sounds like you need to put relationships on the backburner for a while and get yourself straightened out cause you jumped right back into a "going no where relationship" and got dumped. Bad decision. Take some time to love on yourself and pamper yourself for a while. And figure out who you are, what you want in your future and the kind of man that will complement the kind of style you have and what you are about. You deserve so much better than the run around hes giving you. Sounds like he dont want you but doesnt want anyone else to have you or make you happy. Leave him in the past and secure you a good future !!

Amanda d

you want a mature answer??? then please reread and proof your stuff before you post it because you sound like a 7 year old

kitkat

Change your number, it is OVER!

free_angel

Have you never heard of a restraining order?

Ludog

He wants the best of both worlds. Just block his number and tell him to stop. It is not fair to you that he keeps teasing you with a relationship and he does not want one.

Mel Bell

I don't know about all this honey? My first question would be how old are you because this all seem pretty immature. Now, I truly understand the part about trying to get over someone but they go away just long enough to give you time to finally forget about them and then they pop right back into your life. I think you just need to move on and find someone that is willing to have a relationship with you.

Carla P

Girl, you should change your number and turn a fresh new page. Get a fresh start, get a new haircut, get a manicure, buy a new dress and start new! Forget those two guys. If there were too dumb and blind to see you special you are the first time they were lucky enough to have you then, it was their loss!

Best wishes!

David L

First change your phone number and get an unlisted number. Then tell your ex that you have moved on and he needs to do the same. do not answer the phone if you know its him.
this is bordering on stalking and if he starts hanging near your home, it is stalking and he can be arrested. But he needs to know that you two are finished. Then you need to walk away from him. Do not talk about your past, do not tell him that you miss him. This guy is psychotic and anything you say will give him more ammunition to keep calling you. You are feeding his need to hold on to you. Tell him that you don't want him calling any more and that you are through with him.

David C

tell him you have moved on and that he needs to stop calling you and questioning your every move.

FAMILY FIRST

your ex sounds mixed up and afraid of commitment, you are saying you are moving on, if you really are, don't answer the phone to him. shut the door if he comes round. if you want to give him another chance tell him you think he has commitment issues and you deserve better. the only way you will consider getting back together is if he agrees to ge relationship counselling with you and further counselling on his fear of commitment. if you have moved on both physically and emotionally do not go back men with commitment issues let you down and hurt you time and time again. counselling can help but it can sometimes take many years. if he stops going after he thinks he's got you back give up on him, he'll do the same again to get what he wants you deserve to be treated better, if you stand firm he will realise you mean what you say. while you keep talking he will keep coming round and keep phoning. decide what you want and stick with it.

Confused

Dont let yourself get caught up in all of the drama. If you really like this guy then tell him he needs to figure out what he wants and until then to leave you alone and let you go on about your life. He is not going to help himself find what he wants if he keeps trying to be around you. One, it just isnt right. He knows how you feel about him and so you respond to his actions that show you that he wants to be with you but then still tells you no. That is not fair to you. So tell him to bug off until he really knows what he wants. You just need to move on. Stay single for a while. Find out who you are and have fun just being you. You dont have to be with someone to have fun. Give yourself just some you time withough stressing or worrying about other guys. it will only drive you crazy in the end.

Jery E

why is your 13yr old dumbas writing in this section?

jill(:

i would just say i want to move on , i thought you did too , so yeah we will keep in touch , but don't keep calling every night,
Good Luck!! xxx

Boyd D

**** OFF WHIT YOUR ******* TROLLING.

LindaR

sounds as if your ex is holding on to the past and can't let go of it.My ex does similar things with me,still says,"I love you",etc.He's probably just confused.If it's truly over,let it be over,and don't send any mixed messages,etc.He'll have to come to accept it eventually when he sees that you mean business.

iyamacog

You need to be very firm with him. You have moved on. You're not interested. You will not accept his calls. Hang up.
Last resort........Tell your mom, she'll put an end to it.

Seriously?

Do about what? What is your question? If he's acting like a stalker - get a restraining order...is that what you are asking?

Jasmine

Yeah you hate the attention sooo much that:

~you keep letting him into your house

~you keep saying "lol" while telling your story.

Seems to me you're enjoying every last minute of what he's doing.

twisted

Ok.The answer is LOW SELF ESTEEM.No offense to either of you but all this drama is stemming from somewhere, a place where you and your Ex is afraid to admit. Why do you think you're confused? Do you have a problem with being single? I mean, today alot of people go around and date people when they know they are not mentally prepared for such great commitments.

I said low self esteem because many of us try to find self worth in the guygirl we are dating. Your Ex fits the description of a stalker, dont be too harsh with him but just be careful with his feelings, you both need a break from the dating world.Get to know yourselves and stop trying to find yourself in people. Be honest with you and your Ex.

Good luck!

Valerie X Account #19!!!

Roughly 3 Billion men in the world and you continue to play asinie mind games with some stupid ex..............

I can never understand some of you so-called, "women"....

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