What should I do about my husband?

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Is he still doing it now? If not then I would say forgive and forget. If not then I would call him on it.

Boo Boo

As long as he agrees to stop I would forgive and forget. If he can't seem to stop you need to get out why you can because it will continue if not with this girl then with another one.

iyamacog

Depends on the conversation. And what's going on now that you're married. What exactly would you be forgiving? .....Forgettaboutit.......Start enjoying your new married status.

Work/school/mom of two

If he was talking to another women while you were already engaged, that in itself is horrible and even though he didnt "do anything" he was lusting after another women, and that is cheating in his heart! I think that you do need to address this issue, otherwize, time will go by and you will not trust him. If you cannot trust your partner, there will be problems, if not now, then later! The first year of marriage if very important as you lay a foundation for the rest of your lives together! If you dont have a solid foundation, when storms come in the future, your relationship will suffer! I just celabrated my first year anniversary, and we did have some rough times in our first year. We addressed them and moved on and things are great! You might need to see a counseler, its not like a bad thing to get help, sometimes its neccesary to work things out. Most people use counseling as a last resort. Instead, get help while the marriage is still new and worth saving! Good luck sweetie, and God bless you!

Mrs_VzQz

if his doing that.. n u guys are newlyweds.. just think of what else his gonna b doing in the future.. cause u forgave him this one time.. think about it..

marypoppins

you married him without resolving this issue..why?!

if he's still talking to her, you need to talk to him. and is the secertive talking or do you just dont like him talking to women in general? have you met this person?

dont have kids until this is resolved. good luck.

ps. you dont have put up with his sh*t. you do have the otpion of leaving.

Not_so_innocent

I know there are some real dirt bags out there, but damn some of you jump to assumptions really quick. Maybe he's just friends with this girl, find out before you go to far with this. Doesn't mean you shouldn't watch him closely, but at least give him a chance.

skydivingfreak39

Maybe they were just having friendly chats? I have a lot of male friends and I chat with them often. If they were just talking, let it go. Nothing to worry about.. Hon, if you can't trust him now, you wont be able to 5 years from now. Just ask him what they talked about, and when the cell bill comes in, look for her number. Look for clues as when his phone rings, does it ignore it or answer it right in front of you. Does he get calls late at night? Does he take off and stay gone for long periods? those are a few signs to look for..

Hope everything works out for you... :)

flavagirl

I would most certainly say something to him about it.I'm not that easy to forgive and forget.And especially since you guys are newleweds,he should have gotten all that out of his system before he even considered marrying.Remember one thing leads to another keep your eyes open.GOOD LUCK!!!!

Wisen Smart

You are still in time to annul this fake marriage. This guy does not love you. Whatever the reason is he married you, you are the only one that knows.

If he did this in your honeymoon, imagine what is heading your way. Get out while you can.

Nikki

Do you feel uncomfertable about the conversations that they are having..or just the fact that he is talking to another woman?? If you love and trust him (which I hope you wouldnt have married if you didnt) then it should be fine. Just talk to him about how it makes you feel uncomfertable...especially if its a new friend. An old friend that he has been friends with for a long time is going to be a lil harder to deal with considering they may have known each other before you two did...but still you can talk to him about how you feel...and that you want to be the woman that he talks to for laughs and heart to hearts..thats why you got married. He might not realize what changes are to come with being a husband now :)
good luck

chik7896

Well what was the extent of their conversations? Honestly I know I would have a talk with this other woman and hear her side of the story. It's a shame you didn't find this out before you got married!

free_angel

You put your foot down about it, throw him out and make him prove that he will never ever do such a thing again!!! Let him know he only has one chance.

Bonnie

leave him dear because it will get to where there is going to be more than "talking" on the phone. Cheating is cheating whether it be phone chats, internet chats, or face to face chats. You need to get out while you can.

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