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What should I do about my wife weighing in over her weight limit?

My wife (who is French and an above average woman) and I agreed to a weight clause for her when we married. She was under the 125 mandated weight for the first 3 years, but I have noticed that lately she is starting to creep in at 124 1/2 and even 124 3/4.

Well, yesterday morning she finally did the wrong thing. She weighed in for me at 125 1/2. She managed to take a hot shower and walk for an hour, so she did get back under 125 officially. But is this going to be a problem now? How do I handle it?

In the official pre-nuptial agreement, I have a legal right to divorce and keep all of my earning if she went above 125 for a full day. Should I be letter of law on this, or is it okay to give her a break? I just want to set a good example for our daughter.


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AKAyla
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wow- weigh shouldn't be that much of an issue. This sounds like a made up story but I guess there are a few of you weirdos out there. You don't need to be with her if you over react over something stupid like weight. You relationship should be more than that.


Laura C
How old are you.........12?


Chazman1347
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First, go to the mirror and stare at the biggest pig there is. Second, if you have a clause that mentions weight, she had to be french and not speak or read english.

Setting a good example for your daughter would be to show her you can accept people for who they are and not what they look like and that beauty comes from within.


christine_
Considering you had another question you asked about dumping your internet girlfriend, I'd say either you are making this up or you are a real slimeball.

If you're for real, please divorce the poor woman and set her free to find a decent man who does not judge a person's worth by a number.


Mrs Captain Jack Sparrow
What ? Am I hearing this right? How are setting a good example for your daughter?You have got to be kidding me , right? I feel sorry for your wife


dukeofrugby
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You are sick. A WEIGHT LIMIT!!!
What is your problem you are the shallowest person i have ever heard of.
If you want to set a good example for your child then grow up and marry for love not lust.
you disgust me


elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom
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I really hope you are kidding...a good example for your daughter would be to love your wife no matter what she weighs!!! =(...


Important
I think that you should GROW UP! There is nothing wrong with your wife gaining weight, did you hold this over her head when you got her pregnant with YOUR daughter and she gained weight during her pregnancy?

Just as long as you and your wife maintain healthy living and eating habits your daughter should be fine. We already have enough women starving themselves to please others and the last thing you should be doing in threatening to divorce your wife for the 1/2 a pound she gained.


miho♥rattail
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Your wife just turned into French, she used to be Korean!!! Maybe that explains the lil weight gain. Koreans are generally skinnier and now that she has turned French she's gaining less of a pound on and off, on and off.

If her very little weight gain is a problem to you, i suggest you change her back to Korean. Keep me posted what happens.

Good luck for being so weight-conscious.


ladylady4470
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Your a creep. My lord woman go up and down all their life. You have no idea what love is. Why did you marry her? How dare you put her in that situation in the first place. Did you put in a weight for you? I mean why should she have to put up with your fat a** someday? Maybe you should let her go so she can find a real man.....


The Gizza!
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This is funny! Great imagination. I be you really like seeing folks all up in arms over these bogus questions, huh?


Goddess Nikki
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Be nice about it, buy her a membership to Shapes fitness center, and tell her you've heard they have a great hot tub there, and you thought she'd like a nice place to take fitness classes and make sense...that or keep a supply of laxatives in the house- great way to drop a couple lbs real quick...

What happened to the marginally adequate european? Is she above average this week cause she made an extra tasty dinner? Or are you trying your hand at bigamy? Have you heard from Miss Korean Mistress you had deported?


Valerie X
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OMG....hilarious!


Jenny W
You can't be serious, this is ridiculous! You are a complete idiot. You should be happy (I'm shocked) that she loves you. I can't believe she agreed to that pre-nup. Go ahead, divorce her, she deserves a man with his head on straight anyway. Love is supposed to be unconditional.


J F
Any time I read something as outlandish as this I go and look at the other questions posted by the questioner. From what I can see, this is just a bogus scenario designed to get under people's skin.

Last week you posted that you met some girl online and gave her your phone number. If you were married, you wouldn't be giving out your home phone to another girl...

Give us all a break and find something better to do with your time.


♥Shorty♥
That's stupid! I can't believe that you would even consider divorce over something like how much your wife weighs!
Setting a good example for your daughter would be to support your wife. If you were afraid of having a wife that might gain some weight during your married years, you should have saved some money and got a blow-up doll!


Jennifer W
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You are crazy! That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of! I can't believed she actually agreed and married you! Get over yourself who do you think you are..god or something? Your that weird that you would want to have control over somebodys life like that? Like your some deserving king.. you are the king of pigs is about all buddy. I hope she leaves you and is free to be her self and not having you check out her weight like some kind of freak. You are causing more harm to your daughter than good, you will have her growing up to be self conscious of her body and become some twig with eating disorders and eventually die all because of your big head. Grow up!


infamisstrish72
OMG!!! thats all I can say. wow wow wow

Your DAUGHTER is going to have weight issues, hopefully your EXAMPLE doesnt lead her to EATING DISORDERS!!! I cant believe what i just read!!


keral
don,t bother in it


blue eyed girl
No, there is no way that people like you exist!


Mrs. Graham
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Are you serious?


D G
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Are you serious? You are so shallow. She's not unhealthy, maybe from being too thin. But when you marry someone it's because you love them. It shouldn't matter if they gain a few pounds. If she had medical problems and was obese then maybe there would be a problem. If I was her I would divorce you for being a shallow man.


LizzleXD
Oh my goodness! I can't believe there are people like you out there!?!?!?! That is the most rediculous thing I have ever heard! Why in the world are so concerned with her being above 125!? I wiegh 150! I'm so glad you're not my husband!


krazyredd2000
frankly i think i would of slapped u and never signed crap! i think when u love someone it doesn't matter whats on the outter side of course she may have gained a few pounds but she is the same person u go by looks all ur life u gonna be askin alot more questions bout who u r . ur not perfect no one man is or woman get over the weight issue theres much more to contend yourslelf with . love her for who she is not what she looks like. help her feel good instead of oh u got a couple pounds bigger


Hmmm...
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I really hope you are kidding! I wonder what YOU look like? You have to be VERY insecure to be in control and judge your wife's looks! PLEASE go to therapy or see a psychiatrist! You sound pretty pathetic! I HOPE she will leave you and PLEASE do her a favor,divorce her so she will and CAN find someone who will be kinder to her and NOT judge her! I HOPE you end up all alone! You SHOULD NOT be married!


Christie
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You must be a very shallow man. If you truly loved this woman, it wouldn't matter what she weighs, only that she is healthy and happy. You'd be doing her a favor if you did divorce her. Why she'd want to be married to a dictator like you (emphasis on the DIC part) is beyond me.

Oh and hey, way to go, putting your daughter on the road to an eating disorder! You should win father (and husband!) of the year!


Mommy to 11 month old Jacob
a weight clause!? my god are you shallow! No woman in her right mind would ever enter into something like that. set a good example for your daughter by LOVING you wife no matter what and accepting that weight gain happens to the best of everyone.





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