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What should I do with her marriage?
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I have read similar question on YA answers, but wanted to post a question to get some advice. My exgirlfriend of 5 years dumped me out of the blue and then gets married a few months later to some guy she had known for many years (but only as a friend). She wanted to be married and I knew this, and HE knew this, and everyone, family, friends, me were in shock when this happened.
She got married about 7 months ago, and on the wedding day she called me crying, saying she was too confused. I tried to convince her to marry me instead, she said it was too late (I tried before the wedding to get her back, but she didnt). For many months after she was married she called me just so confused, upset, had no idea what she did. I told her I still loved her, but that she would have to divorce if we would even try again.
I havent heard from her in 2 months now. Is this woman happy? Anything else I can do? I KNOW you will say I am an idiot for asking this, but I still love her, but I have tried and tried and still she is not divorced.....a) is she happy and b) anything I can do?
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Bella
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Whether she is happy or not is no longer your concern. She made her choice and has to live with it. If she has not contacted you for two months, she has probably decided to work on her marriage, and this is her way of telling you to back off.
You need to go on with your life. If you find someone else who makes you happy go for it. If she changes her mind down the road and you are taken, it will be her loss. If your free and want to try again, then so be it. But either way, you cannot put your life on hold for a "what if". Live your life and let her live hers. She made her choice. She is married. |
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Aimes
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No matter if she's happy or not she is married woman. You need to respect that and move on.
Think about if the tables were turned, and you had married her - would you want some guy trying to convince her to divorce you and marry him? If not, then you need to respect their situation and wak away, |
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Mrs Dumpy dCook
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