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What should i do about my wife?

My wife is 6 months pregnant and she has got really lazy. There is a ruck of ironing and washing to do and for the last 3 nights my dinner has not been ready when i get in. I am fed up of the excuses about being tired especially when im working in the office all day while she sits on her butt watching Jeremy Kyle.
Is there anything i can do to get her back up to scratch


    




Christopher S
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3 nights! 1 or maybe 2 can be tollerated but 3 is completely unnacceptable! something must be said immediately, your status as lord of the manor must be made clear! or before you know it you will be running your own baths and fetching your own beer during a game.


seriously though if thts gennuine seek help!


cosmicmoon
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(I'm sure you've only written this question to cause controversy, but I'll humour you anyway.)

She is pregnant, so treat her with some f*cking respect. She is not your slave or your damn maid. Surely you can make your own dinner? Lowlife scum.


LC
You are a poor excuse for a human being. Your wife is pregnant.


Bill H
wow are you serious. Grow up man. She is carrying your baby. Worthless!


*MONKEY TAIL MEAT*
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well start doing the laundry and bringing home take out. oh and dont forget to kick your own A33 buddy!!


Psyched Gabby
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I would love to see you carrying a child for 9 months and all the meanwhile, just await for the moment when the child is going to come out from a whole smaller than a lemon. If this was you, you would probably get the crap scared out of you and crawl into a whole in the wall.


yoyo
Are your arms broken??? She's pregnant! Get up and help out...she may not be feeling well or maybe she's anemic.. some husband you are..supportive?? NOT!!


C
Oh u have it coming matey!!!

Give her the respect she deserves and you may get it back, she is pregnant let her enjoy that, you should be looking after her


gordon3392
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Yes its called HELP HER,,,,,,,


justmedrt
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Want something done? DO IT YOURSELF!


bella
She IS tired. She is carrying your child,show the poor woman some respect. I bet you make sure to get a lay in at the weekend dont you? She is probably still slaving around after you.Give her a break.


Heyvenn
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Make her happy,u do it.


Liam
You could do her a favour and die. Pig.


iain4rangers
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Yes she needs to tell you to find a slave which is what you want not a wife, Lord I thought Neanderthal man had gone years ago apparently not,


seahorse
you nasty horrible excuse for a man. your wife is carrying your baby. you should get home from work and get your own ******* tea and then do the washing.


J F
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If you think it's bad now, just wait until she has a child...it does sound like it will be HER having the child and not YOU and HER. I guess it will be all on HER to raise it right? To you IT will just be the THING that gets in the way of you getting serviced.

GROW UP and be a MAN.


INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS
exhibit patience.
oh, and i know you didnt ask this, but learn to do for self.


happy n
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you said it yourself: she's pregnant!!
she just didnt decide she wants to be lazy! she's carrying a baby and going through physical changes that can be quite irritating and exhausting!
as a husband, you should be considerate of your wife and your baby's health!
go pick up some dinner if there's nothing to eat! or cook for both of you!


samantha21it
Come on man!
Why do you expect there should be food served for you when you come home you spoiled person?
She is carrying YOUR child!
Obviously you know nothing about what a woman goes trough when she is pregnant, and honestly, I really think you shoul try and be a little more supportive for her, instead of giving her a hard time!
Unbeliavable.


phoster
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you know what works? if you see something needs done you do it. my wife and i both live by this. i am as able to iron, wash, do dishes as she is. if my wife doesnt feel good and i see something needs done i do it. your arms arent broke, you do it. you were quick enough to make a baby in her. now she is feeling it, so why must it all fall on her? i am sorry, men have to get out of this old way of the wife does everything at home while he's out working. that is so out of date, and today's world just isnt that way. wake up or you'll find yourself in the same boat as so many others, distant, angry, resentful and divorced.


sparky p
If you think this is bad, wait until she has the baby and she doesn't have the time or energy to do anything.

It's really sad that you think she's being lazy. Being pregnant is tough and draining on a woman.

Why don't you do the house work?


Jana
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seriously dude are u for real???..get house help or learn to do the laundry your self...bringing food to the table is pretty cool..... but not as awesome as carrying your child


Lisa D
Yes, Be more supportive! I mean the child growing inside of her is YOUR heir, she will take on the important, critical task of growing this life inside of her for almost a year. I'm sure if she could switch places with you she would, but carrying a child is hard on a woman's body. Give her time to adjust to the changes. Why don't you do the laundry, and ironing for a bit. Show her that you appreciate her, you'll build a stronger marriage, and a better relationship with your wife in the end.


algoba
What you can do is stop thinking you are macho men, and go on and give your wife a hand.after all she didn't got pregnant by the holy spirit, surely your hands will not come off if you help her


Nutty Girl
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yes do it for her if you don't like it tough
im not really thinking this is a genuine post as no man is as unsensitive as you


ron
I suspect you're having a laugh, to see how many angry women answer your question, as one already has.

My fiance can be very inconsiderate too, last night when I was in the bath, she came in and sunk all my boats!


Dbldiva
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What should you do about your wife? Try SUPPORTING HER! Get off your own butt and help out around the house while she is bending her body out of shape and risking her health to make your offspring, you goober!


pleom70
i am a father of five,my wife gets the last six months of her pregnancy off,i do as much as i can to help,try it ,its not hard and your wife will appreciate the help,that is your child she is carrying!!


Bossman â„¢
ha ha very funny


Fairy
Hell why did you make her pregnant???

Its the men who do most of the household course when the women are busy bringing babies to the world...

Have some courtesy towards her as you are never ever gonna know how it feels being pregnant!!

Instaed of her I would say that you are Lazy!!! and not loving caring husband





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