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What should i do about this situation?

my childs father sporadically comes for visitation and he only regualrly comes for visitation or actually more often when he receives a subpeona from court? So far everything has gone his way with the courts... he has lowered his child support promissing he would be there more days and also asked for more visitation days and frankly he has not been at all to most of them. then out of the blue he wants to take our baby to long trips. what should i do?


    




Minny Mouse
I would not trust him you really need to speak with a lawyer about your options. It sounds like he maybe planning something. Also keep a record of the times he do come and visit with the baby so you can use it in court. If he says he will be there more days and he is not then they should raise the child support.

These website might help you:

http://www.ehow.com/how_8986_increase-child-support.html

http://www.nationalchildsupport.com/

http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_support/

http://www.womansdivorce.com/child-visitation-rights.html


safi
that is normal situation

my advice is accept that . i wanna to asked here the possibility to rerun this relation

pray 4 you


freeman08
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becareful !!! if he takes off and ends up in another state for 6 months or more that becomes ur childs home state he can take you to court for custody n the lawyers might come after you for letting the baby go with a irresponsiblre parent...


Nuwa
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Be careful. Consult a lawyer. Try to leave a record of everything. Do you think your child would be safe with him on a long trip? Does he have a new girlfriend? Where is this change of attitude coming from? If he did not visit your child regularly, why does he want to take him on long trips?


Stinky Swine dCook
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Get with me instead. Muh name's Dave. I'm a 46 yr old stalekr/engineer/fraud/con/doctor from TN. I went to MIT (Miss Inbred Trash school) My wife she likes to poison ppl. My other wife- the 30 yr old one- has saggy **** and a pot belly and an illegitimate child. The girl I've stalked for 2 yrs says I dont stand a chance w/her as I've been with her friend.
DONT LET YOUR CHILD'S FATHER NEAR THE CHILD. HE MAY BE PLANNING TO LIKE SELL IT OR SOMETHING..COZ HE DONT SOUND LIKE HE'S THE KINDA FATHER WHO WANTS TO SPEND TIME WITH THE BABY LET ALONE TAKE IT ON A LONG TRIP. do NOT let him take the baby. This is not a joke. Ppl are sick. Don't let him take that baby ANYWHERE.


star_dust2001us
from what you said there is something going on if he had to be subpeonad just to show up for the visitations then why would he all of a sudden want to go on long trips sounds like he is up to something.please please be careful next thing you know he will want full custody just so he doesnt have to pay child support this sounds alot like what i have dealt with my ex has tried everything and im still in and out of the court system dealing with his lies and other crap,i wish you all the luck hold onto that baby as tight as you can make him earn his role as being a father....


C.J I
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better call in the hardley boys


spiderlegs234
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DO NOT LET THE KID GO! He could take the baby and run! No way! Until he can prove himself to show up at every visitation then he shouldnt have rights to take the baby! I would try and get full custody especially since the loser can't even show up to see his own kid!





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