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wizjp
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confront, end, forgive and forget;
or confront and move on. |
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stoppdemadness2003
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Bring a hot babe home and tell your wife to watch. |
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J H
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Kill the computer !!! |
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robert r
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sell your'e pc |
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Phurface
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Get an attorney, organize assets to they're only in your name. Sorry to hear that bud. |
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jelisa3120
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divorce her! |
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Teacup
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leave the *****! make sure your right first.. |
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G. E.
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get proof..ask her about it and if she tells you the truth you can try work things out if you want to and make sure she doens't do it anymore or if she lies bring out the evidence..just do want your heart leads you |
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Colleen O
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What do you think you should do? |
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Charly Bravo
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talk to her about it. don't accuse her of anything, but talk and really listen.
She is obviously missing something in your relationship that you believe she has found elsewhere....if it is meant to be, you will figure out what it is and look to provide that for her...
Best of Luck,
BE Well |
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ancutza b
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Im sure u've heard so many opinions. I'm a woman who did just that...It could be serious and if you confront her which u definately should, it would help her to come clean and she will leave u anyways. If its not serious, women are stupid, they do this for so many reasons, ask her what the reason is and if its an addiction, lack of attention, lack of exitement, etc, make sure ( I'm sure u know ur wife) she is honnest and try to work it out. Divorce is an ugly thing, It only appears to solve things on the short term but on the long run you and her will both be unhappy. Its hard to find someone to last. I'd say dialog dialog and dialog, if she is cooperating and willing of course. She might be ready to trow in the towel but its a crazyness of the moment. I know, this my deja vu. Anca. |
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rikfreese
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Better make sure first. Then divorce her. Next time take care to take care of business at home first. |
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Dr S
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An affair is an affair.. online or not. First give her the boot, and put all her personal belongings outside. If you live in Denver, give her a sweater too. |
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Shortstuff13
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If you're sure of your facts, sit down with your wife & tell her what you know. Try to be calm so the two of you can discuss things. In the meantime, decide what route you wish to take & go from there. Is counseling an option for you two? If not, take one day at a time. If she truly has broken one of the wedding vows, then the rest is up to you. |
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tumadre
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Confront her about it. Leave her if she won't stop. Forgive her if she's honestly repents and stops. I know I'm going to get thumbs down for telling you to forgive her. But seriously "Love really does conquer all." |
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Dood
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Take her on a romantic vacation to Egypt and leave her there with nothing. |
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Sunshine
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Go to counseling. Why is everyone so quick to throw a marriage away. Once a cheater is NOT ALWAYS a cheater. Give the marriage a chance. Talk it out. |
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kacaroly
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Maybe this situation has been developing over a period of time. Could it be she is not having her need met at home and is searching for greater satisfaction, deeper love or an expression of same? Don't jump to the conclusion its all her fault, however you'll need to talk this one through but be prepared to possibly make changes in your life too. You don't say how long you've been married but obviously the 'spark' has gone out of your relationship for this situation to have arisen, but this can be reversed if you really love her. Check out www.lovegreater.com for ideas to work this out together. Avoid acting in haste or irrationally. This could be your opportunity to create a whole new meaningful relationship and fall in love with your wife again. Go for it! |
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mgnlok
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Get your facts together then confront her if she was cheating |
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elizabeth_ashley44
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Confront her. Tell her straight up what you know or what you think you know. Go from there. Don't listen to anyone who says you should just leave her. People who really love each other work through things and actually give the person a chance to respond. |
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Sandy Sandals
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Gather all your evidence and confront her. |
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dccuttie75
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Sit down and talk to her sensibly.Ask her why,it's more than just asking a bunch of strangers what to do when your heart is involved.If you love her sit down and talk to her to see if it can be worked out. |
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sunflowergal
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does it matter if its online or in person? Same end results. You have to decide whether you can overcome this or not, if she wants to reconcile..... |
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Mrs. Kitty♥
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Make sure you have all the evidence against her and confront her about it. And if in your heart you want to repair things do so. if not, get a divorce and start a new relationship. Or stay single for a while. |
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thinker_belle*
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one suggestion is to examine your sources verify it is infact true and then think about what you want (is this something you can forgive are you prepared for the eventuality that once a cheater always a cheater ??) and tell her about it (there are always two sides to every story ....have you ever cheated on her ?? ) .........im sorry you have to deal with this though and hope you're blessed throughout this whole ordeal......... |
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Chatterbox
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Give her her freedom.....she must be lonely to pursue someone else. |
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theresa
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get a small camera so you can record her in her car and it will allow you to hear her talking on cell phone....and you can buy something for computer to trace all her im's and emails too check into it
good luck |
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