What should i do? theres still something going on?

ok, so a few years ago my boyfriend and an old friend of his, who he'd had a big thing for, had kind of a fling for the summer.. we talked we moved on, i of course had/have some trust issues, they've stayed friends, talk often. earlier today i was in his email (not snooping, but was actually supposed to be there) and i decided to look around a little, and found an email he sent her saying he had the most amazing dream about her.. its obvious to me that somethings still going on, but what do i do now? he doesnt know i saw it, and i dont want him to think i was just snooping

Sarafina

Uh, you need to get rid of him. Why did you allow them to continue their relationship? He's proven that he's untrustworthy. Get away from him. Don't allow him to walk all over you again and again.

Tsunami

wel its your fault for staying with him period. if hes not messing with her hes doing somethign which isn't right you knw it he knows it and all knows it but they are ok with it. i would just move on and get out of his life and stay out this is not for you to have with him alone and he sn't willing to just stay with one person. so get moving and leave you dont' have to talk to him about it or say nothing trusting is love and you have had issues before now its showin gup again how many times are you to back up for him iwouldn't do this no more.

(WOMAN)

He obviously still have feelings for her or something is going on. Who the HELL says to another girl "i had the most amazing dream about you" that is soooo WRONG! Get rid of his a** you are just there for nothing. Who cares if he gets mad he should not be sending e-mails like that and if tries to blame you don't let him because that's going to be his way of changing the subject or getting out of the situation.

handyhelper022

Hi Jenn
Take it from a guys who's first gf and him are still friends, she was my firs and i was hers. Even thought we both have other gf and bf we still fool around every single time we see each-other . I know i sound like a creep but if you knew how good the S was you would understand. So be careful and snoop all you feel you have to because i will bet my life him and her are closer then you think

bobbie

ask him about it let him know you saw his phone read his email messages innocently just to cure your boredom and ask him about it other wise it will just eat at you.

Sarah

You need to confront him about. Even if it does seem as though you were snooping around. Its something that will end up hurting you if you don't talk about it with him. So hard as it may be you should talk to him.

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