What should i do when my ex says i need to change?
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What should i do when my ex says i need to change?
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my ex now stop talking to me because he says that i needed to change my jealous ways but its hard to not be jealous when i think he is flirting or when he is walking down the hallway with another female. he says he gets made when i do the same thing but he gets over it and i continue to be mad and i start an argument. its been maybe a couple of weeks since we stop talkng and he apoligized and stuff but we still don't talk we might just look at each other
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MummaKins
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Sorry but you need to change!!
Every relationship you have will end up like this unless you get that green streak in check!!
You have to face the fact that every guy will have some contact with a woman everyday in his life! If you want to be part of a mans life you will have to learn to accept that!
Most women get jealous of other women because they feel insecure in the relationship - Jealously is never attractive! |
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Renee J
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He wants you to not be jealous, because being jealous means that you are insecure about him and dont trust him around other women. It says a lot to a guy when a girl gets jealous. But if you know he yours and you know what youre made of, you wont even think about other girls stealing your man. |
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tincan62
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well, i think hes right. id already have you airmailed , and id be dating someone else |
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waiting for baby
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he is your x right so why should you care what he says |
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ladyren
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He's your ex. Why do you care? |
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• Leo •
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All men will check out other women. And if you believe they don't, you just haven't caught them in that slick action It's something that you have to accept.
He's an ex, and if you know you have a problem with jealously leave him alone. 9/10 you'll revert to being the same. |
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Lisa N
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I don't think either one of you have finalization. I think you both still care for each other, so maybe it is time to throw down the weapons and have peace talks. You need to meet him in the middle, meaning jealousy can and will destroy a relationship. Love comes with trust, until that trust is broken. You can't expect him not to have female friends or not talk to other females. Now if he has and you can prove it cheated that is a whole new ball game. How ever does not sound like it at this point. Give him trust, and respect, and expect the same. Or you both lose with this. Hey I understand I went through the same thing in school, and had to let it go. If you care and still want him, I advise you to do the same. I am sure you wanted the truth so I gave you the older women version. Sometimes we love so deeply we can drive the other person crazy and not let them be who they are. Remember you fell for him the way he was, so be it. Let him be who he is and try like I said to meet him in the middle and be more secure. Same goes for him. Good luck. I live by never make rules you don't intend to follow, so sit down with him, let him know why things bother you and try to work on a way that both can be secure. Kiss and make up if possible, makes ups are so cool. Ps. If he didn't care he would never of apologized, think about that, stop being stubborn and accept it, or lose him for good. Just somethings from experience for you to think about. |
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miracleof89
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He is your ex you can't get jealous if you see him with another female. You to aren't together did you expect for him to not move on? If you do the same thing he is doing you can't get mad. |
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rsoon888
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Why do you have to be jealous in the 1st place. Perhap you should get on with your own life and stop thinking who your ex going out with since both have been broke up. |
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Craig c
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You both need to say "ex" you both sound like you have to much drama and both need to grow up |
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John R
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He's your ex, so why sweat what he thinks, just be yourself and move on with your life. |
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Guytheterrible
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If he's an ex make it so. Ex as in not anymore. WTF does your ex have to do with you and why would you be jealous of someone you're not with?? |
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mimzy
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He's your "ex". Why do you care who he talks to? Move on and find someone else and get over him. |
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