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What should i do when my wife tells my she not satisfied?

my wife told me that she is not being satisfied in the bedroom. I am not very well endowed, and can't seem to give her what she needs with the equipment I have. She told me that she fantasizes about a mfm with me involved of course, but the other guy being a very well endowed stud. Maybe I should go for it. what should I do?


    




^TRZT^
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Lose your wife dude.

I cant believe your even thinking about having another Guy join in.
Slap yourself for that !


UNITool
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No way. Whatever you lack 'down there' must be made up for with increased efforts in the oral department.


t.larae
With things being rocky right now, I don't think it's a good idea. First, you need to solve the problem with the both of you, because bringing in anyone else will only create more problems. After that, I'd say it should be cool. I think it's a pretty crappy thing for her to tell you, but I guess you need advice on how to fix that, not on your marriage. I'd just go down on her a lot.


anne04char
NEVER NEVER NEVER bring another man into your bedroom!!! Ask your wife what it is she is not getting from you. It could not be you size because she was fine before you got married right? you are not doing something right. Just ask her! If you bring another man in your bedroom you are asking for trouble and I think you should be angry she even asked for that. Good luck on what you come up with I hope you can turn things around with out another man.


submariner662
Go back and do it again. Do it until you get it right. Ask her what she wants you to do and then do IT right.

MFM, with another guy in your bed and in your woman? Don't do it. You'll be sorry.


~just_jd~
at least , don't stop caring what it takes to get her there to that point. an open relationship could go both ways you know....in your advantage as well.


se7en
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If you don't satisfy her in the bedroom and you bring in a male who can what does she need you for anymore?

Can't and won't are two different words and in this situation you are saying you "won't" satisfy her. Size isn't all that counts as many have said so you have to try new things and bring your A game.

Make it your goal in life to please her in bed and I bet you can think of something you just have to take it seriously.


pqrama
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Sure, why not? Might be enjoyable for you also.


silentnonrev
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it ain't what you got, it's what you do with it

hint: try your tongue


nanny2
dont do it it will ruin your marriage there are many other ways to satisfy women talk to her.


slotman54
I think it would be exciting and educational. She may open up more about what she needs.


krystal s
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don't do it!!!!she will probably leave you for this "stud" and there are other things you can do besides bringing another player to the field. like buy some toys or tie her up or something


Shaken Not Stirred
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Bad idea, dude. You would be opening doors to a lot of issues, there.

There are other things you can do - and "toys" you can purchase.
Bigger is not always better. She is your wife, and should accept you for who you are, and be very open to resolving this personal problem between the two of you.


swarr2001
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Steve, either go with the fantasy (note, not really do it) and talk her through this while you are using your hands or whatever, or find other fantasies. Endowment does not equal fulfillment. Somehting else is going on, find out what it is. Good luck and have fun with the experiment!


olderbutwiser
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In my opinion, that is certainly NOT the answer. Find out what she is lacking, and try to fulfill that need.... your being well endowed is not what she needs, I don't think. She might need more love and romance, or foreplay, but in my opinion, bringing another man in is only going to create MORE problems. Good Luck.....I know it hurts like crazy to be told that.....and you're a good husband for trying to solve this for her.


valveman
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dont do it


oracle
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before you go for the mfm threesome... try other things. There are many other ways to please a women in the bedroom if you are not well endowed as you said... try using toys... that way you are still somewhat in control and she will have the size she needs without opening up the door to something you are not sure of


the truth
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you need to find out if there are any options that can be done besides that, like toys, movies, and stuff of the oral kind, women always say its easier to climax after an oral fixation is done, but if you give her the mfm you might lose her.


Christy
You can always, do something special first, such as taking her out for a nice dinner, and come home, watch a romantic movie to kind of spices up the mood, Then, whatever happen it happen. She would most likely thanks for a special night. And you something in return.


Katricia R
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Well, the do have toy stores and they have things you can add to yours to make you larger. Have you all tried different positions to see if that will help. Maybe her being on top since she wld have more contrl. I think marriage in sacred between a man and a woman but I guess if that is wht you want.


Daniel A.
You should first try to fix the problem yourself, some new things in bed can help (toys, oils...), dirty talk is always useful. About the request on mfm, you should try it as last resort, OF COURSE, you have to be OK with the idea cuz you WILL FEEL bad at first, but then you'll be happy to know that shes satisfied


gladshe8or
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don't do it - she'll never be happy. Toys are the answer and LOTS of batteries!


allan l
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try some wipped cream and other things like eatiable panties i wouldnt go for the mfm thing





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