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concerned tennager
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dont always expect the worse he might of just needed a break |
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the_silverfoxx
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probley with his girlfriend in that span of time or boyfriend if a frmale/ |
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jwatson7307
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WHY DO U STAY WITH THIS IDIOT?????
U DON'T NEED TO PUT UP WITH THIS CRAP!!!
IF HE LIVES WITH YOU AND IT'S YOUR APARTMENT...TELL HIM TO LEAVE...
AND IF HE GIVES YOU A HARD TIME...THEN THERE'S RESTRAINING ORDERS ----GET ONE ----AND USE IT!!!
IF YOU'RE LIVING WITH HIM...
MOVE OUT..FAST// MOVE IN WITH FAMILY OR FRIENDS BUT GET THE HELL OUT.. ...
LEAVE HIM IN YOUR DUST GIRL AND DON'T LOOK BACK...
GOOD LUCK.. |
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sgd_88
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He was somewhere he didnt have no business , and he cant tell you there is more to that story so pack his little clothes again and tell him he can go back to where he was at cause he was comfortable there that he didnt call or return your calls if he stayed there for 5 days tell him he can stay ther for as longggg as he likes and dont be a fool cause im pretty sure you can find you someone else and remember ;U CAN DO BAD ALL BY YOURSELF'' |
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jaimestar64cross
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You mean you actually sit around and wait for him to do this to you again and again --- get a man that handles his business and not runaway because things get tough |
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jodie
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If you broke up during the fight there is nothing you can say or do. If it was just a fight and the person disappeared I would imagine that they were having the time of their life and moved on if just for a long weekend. It is always possible that a big blue light came out of the sky and then everything went black, they were abducted by aliens and returned in time for Monday morning. |
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kim's korner
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If he needed space, then he would have talked to you about it, not just disappeared. I agree with another answer here, "learn to appreciate the term good riddance". |
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sochiswim
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Learn to appreciate the phrase, "Good riddance!" |
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melissa_anne_maison
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Even if you are in a fight and don't speak for several weeks, once the person comes back you would think that they would want to make it work so would be willing to communicate their feelings. He did not. How can he expect you to get past your fight and now his dissappearance if he doesn't open up to you and hides things? I would explain to him exactly why you want to know. |
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oneblondepilgrim
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Kick his sorry *** out the door. |
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gna
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Girl...my hubby was that way and trust he was cheating on me....he did this yrs ago but now started all over again...and i say what is good for the goose is good for the gander....now he is the one calling and i don't answer. |
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Hi
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I HAD AN EX DO THIS TO ME YRS AGO. I FINALLY DIVORCED HIM, FOUND OUT 2 YRS AFTER THE DIVORCE HE WAS SPENDING TIME WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WHEN YOURE MARRIED YOU SLEEP TOGETHER AT NIGHT, AND IF NOT, THERE IS DEFINATELY SOMETHING WRONG SOMEWHERE. TELL HIM TO MOVE OUT FOR A WHILE AND SEE WHAT HE DOES, AND SEE HOW HE REACTS.. AS LONG AS YOU LET THIS GO ON, THE MORE HE WILL DO IT TO YOU.. THINK OF YOUR HAPPINESS. |
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kj.lang
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wrong expect the worse, if he didn't come home for five days there is something. Not telling you anything and expecting you to, be happy with that answer is crap, you know all of his friends and if he wasn't at their places then where was he, tell him that if doesn't tell you then he can go back to where he was. then you'll find out. if your man is doing something out of the ordinary then there is something wrong, jump to conclusions and ask questions. you know each other and your relationship, what isn't normal, is always trouble. |
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mother of 3 angels
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Pack your things and take a 7 day vacation or a lifelong one. It seems to me that he has something to hide. If there is no trust then there isn't much of anything else either.
Best of Luck |
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Lets see, you couldn't reach him. He doesn't answer your calls. He won't tell you anything about it. He wants to come home and act like nothing happened? Well, if you are dumb enough to believe he is innocent and take him back without answers then just stay with him. It will drive you crazy and it will always bother you. He will know he can do this again and again. Don't be stupid. You can NOT put up with this crap. You can do much better than this!! |
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1234
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GOOD THAT HE HAS RETURNED AND IT WAS ONLY LOVE THAT BROUGHT HIM BACK. U SHOULD ACCEPT THAT FACT. |
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minerva
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maybe he didn't have an affair but he definitely wanted time completely on his own to think things through. I think your partner wants out but still loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. Try to end this amicably before one of you does involve someone else just to make an excuse. He must feel very guilty and afraid to have behaved so extremely but it will happen again and he's not going to start communicating with you. Start preparing yourself for a split up by loving him enough to let him go and not wanting him to stay if he's unhappy. You won't be happy if he stays and he's made it so you can't trust him. It's gonna be hard and painful but you have a future ahead of you that can be so much more fulfilling than wondering for the rest of your life where he was for 5 days. Forgive him and move on. Somewhere there is someone else who will want to share with you and make a life with you. open yourself to that destiny and end your partner's suffering. He may well spend the rest of his life alone or may find someone else and you may even stay friends if you can walk the higher path and see the bigger picture. |
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sexy brown eyes
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Tell him 2 KEEP STEPPINGGGGGGGG |
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Mandy
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tell him to keep walkingggggggg .. you don't need a guy who is going to disappear every time you have a disagreement. |
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evenbetta47
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I would have to say good-bye cause he has been up to no good to leave without notice and then want to come back to you is just plain wrong |
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sangi
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jus bang him/her to the wall n slap till the people look arround for u. |
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chillwithheat
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just let let ur partner be and after he/she is settled down talk to thm.figure things out and make up for the mistakes |
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~*LoveDoctor*~
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I liked the response of the person who said for you to tell him you are going away for 5 days, and he is not to know where you are or what you are doing! I am betting if you got a few of your g/f's together, and went off on a cruise or to Hawaii without telling him, he would be furious!! So, why don't you plan a TOP SECRET Getaway, and sneak off...WITHOUT A WORD! When you come back with that glorious glow, and a huge smile on your face, he might be more apt to tell you where he was!
But let me give you a little piece of advice. Make sure you are prepared to know where he really was. Sometimes it's easy to say you want to know...but the truth might be something you aren't even suspecting. Sure, your first thought would be he was with another woman. And he might have been, but maybe after your fight he was out of his mind and ended up drinking and having a good time. Maybe he was having too good of a time, and he ended up in JAIL.....!!!!! I don't know, all I can do is speculate. Explain to him he must tell you, in order to have an open and honest relationship, there shouldn't be any secrets between you. And if he does not tell you where he was, then you can not continue to be with someone like that.
Bottom line, there must be TRUST in a relationship before it will work. If in the back of your mind every time you fight you wonder if he is going to do this again, that is not good my friend, NOT GOOD AT ALL!! |
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EAGLE_
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PUT HIS CLOTHES OUTSIDE AND KICK HIM TO THE CURB |
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BAG LADY
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IF TWO PEOPLE DONT COMMUNICATE THEN THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP EVER...... |
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Kitty Kat
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Disappear on his *** for 3 weeks. That will show him! |
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Denise D
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Take a little trip! This time do it for 7 days. Don't answer his calls either. On the 7th day go back home. If he wants to know where you've been you simply say the same things he said to you. If neither of you never tell each other where you went, than at least you are even. If you want to work it out you can put it past you, hopefully this will help your anger subside because you didn't just sit there and let him walk all over you. Now he knows how it feels. The point of this is not to fight more about it, but to put yourself (and him) at an even slate from where you can start agian. Good luck. |
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jane m
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you probably know him better then anyone, if you are having doubts about his behaviour then you should go with your gut instinct. If he refuses to tell you then give him an ultimatum |
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