What to do when your husband is cheating online?

januckey

He is cheating. Any man online saying he's single and he's not, is cheating. Trust me.

eric b

It sounds like he's cheating to me.Sorry.

Willie J

Seek counseling. He probably is not cheating but when on line flirting isn't satisfying any more he may take the next step!

daljack -a girl

He's not a really good guy then.

A good guy never pretends his not married and a father.

You're not confused.....he is.

He needs to either get his act together right now.....or you should seek marriage counseling.

Elliott N

Throw him and his computer out the door. They deserve each other.

mas172413

I completely understand. My husband did the same thing. If you ask him why he does it, he will tell you he doesn't know for sure. He loves you and would never think of doing anything with them but the fact that another women finds him attractive and a turn on. I had a hard time trusting my husband and we actually got rid of our computer because of it. As for lying to your face is a hard one to handle. I don't think they realize that it is actually a lie. You just need to make sure you tell him you love him and tell him you know what he is doing and if it does not stop then you will have to take action. Hope all works out -talk if you want!

China Doll 3

All I know without trust, you cannot have a good relationship.

'if you can turn back time', would you change a thing or two?

shirleyjean89

you need to get to the root of the problem in order to save your marriage...why is he looking around online? is he bored? is he feeling adventurous? there could be any number of reasons for his behavior...but if you want to save your marriage you need to find the reasons quickly...be upfront and open and honest with each other...lay everything out in the open...good luck.

autumnday2898

My ex husband did the same exact thing. It all started on the computer, and he would get online and talk with other woman and say things to them that are not really appropriate to type on here. He would say how beautiful they were too. I found out about it and confronted him about it, and he said he was sorry, and would never do it again. He did though, and I explained how it hurt me and I felt like he was emotionally cheating on me. He promised he would never do it again, and he promised each time I caught him. I would always give him the benefit of the doubt, and when I found out about it, I would ask him if anything had happened, and gave him the chance to come clean, and he would point blank lie to me. I would check up on him, and he knew I would at any time. We went to counseling and everything. It became harder and harder each time I caught him. Eventually he started talking to other woman on the phone, and texting them and telling them what he wanted to do with them. Then he started meeting a girl who he worked with, and I found evidence on his phone about cheating with him. As soon as I found out about that I left him for good. He had way too many chances and I was done. I was tired of being hurt, and I deserved better than that. I found that it starts out innocent, but escalades into more. If he is married to you, and wants to make this work, then he needs to stop. He needs to stop using the computer to talk to other woman, because he is married, and he needs to respect your feelings. If it continues I would suggest trying counseling. It may help both of you. Even though it did not help my marriage out, every relationship is different, and it might help yours out. I wish you all the best, and good luck

Gerbo

Give him a reason to not cheat anymore, or look to cheat.

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