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What would you do?

If you were a 65 year old guy how would you react to the following:

- You raised 12 kids that have been on their own for a long time
- Your wife died a while back
- You've been retierd from a difficult career for 20 years

And then you get remarried to some woman whom you very accidentally get pregnant (you never got fixed).

Now knowing she's going to give birth to twins, and you're going to be a daddy again at 65, How would you react within the first hour after hearing the news?


    




sweetcharityfan
scared shittless.

adoption my friend.


freddy
if this pregnancy is an accident, you have no excuse. you've had 65 years to buy contraceptives.


misspoo4
Oh ****! Ok, purchase insurance first. Then laugh it up because your boys can still swim! Besides, kids will keep you young.


ilih2006
shock


Danni
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Hopefully not have a heart attack!!


why...
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i would sit down in the bathroom, look at myself in the mirror and think back how hard it was raising 12 kids of my own and what i would do differently raising the new born's that are on their way.


JeenaBlahBlahBlah
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After 12 kids, what's one more? Enjoy the child. Shock would definitely come first but a baby is a blessing. Love it.


me n mine
your 65 how old is she? r u sure its yours?


hlg567
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i would support her and since your retired maybe it's good because you have a pension and can provide for the 4 of you?!
oh course your scared because your aware of your own mortality but any parent can die old or young. you might live to be 80 or 90. my father is a very active 80 yo.!
blessing to your family!


bob
i would freak totaly out.


gigglygirly87
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I'd be like "Say wha?"


BUBBLES
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Think about everything that wrong in the world.... and twins is a great blessing. I would be happy and take it one step at a time.


littleme836
Louis this is the big one I am coming up to join you!!!!


srf
Id be sad that the children wouldnt have me around for long, but Id have them and cherish the time that you you were blessed to have together.


YodasTatoo
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I'd be proud and feel blessed that God had wanted me to again raise another child. Then, I'd probably start exercising to get in shape for all of the physical work it takes to raise children.


land of the free
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sh*7t happens, you were in the business, so expect the profit, and start planning for the little ones....own up and take big time grown up responsibility


im_sick_inside
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What? You done quit screaming and beating the walls already?


Rachie
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ok, a little worried because she should take extra care of her health and the babies, and congrats!!! hope everything turns out fine! =D


?Jaileen?
holy smokes. but then, its a blessing :)


ftumpsh
Overwhelmed


foreverhappilysingle
Be very nervous, but own up be a man, and raise my child, and try my best to be a good dad!!


"33"
hell, you're 65 years old for s$%t's sake--get a fifth of Johnnie Walker Black and some good cigars.

way to be fruitful and multiply, Abraham.

you've just made my Ace list. congratulations.


Adam on the Gold Coast
OH ****!


Kate
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My jaw would drop down to the floor!
Wow thats a toughie- the real question is, do you want to be a dad again? If yes, great! You and the girl could settle down and raise the kids~ which you might want to think hard about( since you are 65). If you arena prepared and ready to welcome 2 babies into your family, I suggest an open adoption.
God bless you in your decision making


arklatexrat
Well, a part of you has to be proud of himself that you could still perform at your age, much less be that fertile!

Another part would be quite shocked and a bit apprehensive.

Another part would be at least a little sad, knowing I probably won't be around to see them grow up all the way to adulthood, and guilty at leaving the poor woman to raise them alone.


c*r*s
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it sounds like you may be bored with life from the first statements and maybe this could be good bump up in your life i mean new start and new kids could mean good oppurtunities to do good things for them shock is normal but you should be excited for it


Sgdsfs S
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If you truely love her you should accept the situation.


livinhapi
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happy and shock!! but lucky because you have a second chance to do the good things all over again and better with all the experience that you have before this birth...lucky twins because they will have a very, very good father..just stay healthy and well...good luck!!!!and feel young again....


Josh
well id probably have to go change my shorts. hopefully they will do the right thing and let them be adopted. it makes no sense for a 65 yr old to have a kid than it does for a 15 yr old, really. sh** happens ok its how mature you go about resolving or how you go about rectifying this with the best intentions being focused on the twins. i would not personally be in favor in abortion because the mothers life is not in jeapordy and you are married. but hey its your life. just remember your decision should be made 100% on whats best for the twins however you approach it. i mean you could be dead before they enter 1st grade. and thats the bottom line


woodnymph
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worried,angry,anxious....there must be a gamut of emotions going on there. so stay calm and make plans to start taking care of yourself so you can enjoy these little blessings as long as you can.


Copper Top
IMO if you raised 12 kids and worked you were very busy and tired most of the time. This is a blessing now you can go to the park on Wednesday afternoon... and be there to walk the kid to their first day of school. Have fun and enjoy it.

You can both go to bed at the same time.

Cheers





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