What would you do if you found out that your husband was taking his wedding ring off at work so he could flirt?

Satanic Brainsmasher

He's looking to bang other women. I would divorce.

missmojo78

Would never cheat? I think you better rethink that one as taking off his ring seems like intention to cheat. I would not be cool with that at all.

Mrs. Heather Schabby

I'd reconsider whether being married to him were the right decision, obviously.

I'm curious as to why you think he would never cheat? If he's willing to take of his ring to portray himself as not married, why wouldn't he be willing to cheat? Where is the line drawn?

My husband and I consider cheating to be doing anything you wouldn't do if your spouse was in the room or knew about it. Would your husband take off his wedding ring if you were standing right there with him? Highly doubtful.

Besides, why does he need this attention from other women? He is a married man. Any attention that these women would give him thinking he's single but that they'd STOP giving him if they knew he was married is inappropriate attention, anyway.

Good luck.

Katie M

I'd be mad that he felt the wedding ring was such a burden. Seriously, how hard up must he be to behave like this? A happily married man wouldn't have to seek this type of attention from women he works with. No offense but I think you're a bit naive.

guitarsoloist07

To add to what everyone else said... I would be seriously offended if I were his wife. I would want my husband to show that wedding band off proudly.
My boyfriend gave me a beautiful silver ring as a gift and it didn't fit on any finger except my left 3rd ring finger. So it looks like I'm engaged. People have commented on this and I reply with "So? I'm proud to be with him and it keeps other guys from flirting with me."

Antithesis

That's messed up. I mean if he was keeping his ring ON and flirting a little that's not a big deal. But trying to appear as if he is single is just taking it too far.

Angie

Ha, anyone that takes off their wedding ring "so they can flirt" would cheat. Trust me, my husband and I both flirt while wearing our wedding rings....it is fun and makes you feel interesting, but the ring is the symbol that you are married and it will never go farther.

To remove the ring means he wants to go farther.

willow

He is taking his ring off for 1 reason. Never cheat?...why else would he take off his ring...attention my butt...

Tracy H

I don't know what's worse, him doing this or you trying to convince us that you are perfectly fine with him doing this and you justifying his actions to yourself and us. I would tell him to put the ring back on his finger and ask him what is missing in our relationship that he feels the need to give/receive this type of behavior. Maybe you should remove your wedding band and begin gallivanting around with single men.

the_hedda_lettuce

I would say you were married to a very insecure person.

If they are embarrassed to be wearing a ring, then maybe he doesn't really want to be married.

iyamacog

I would hock his ring. Since it means nothing to him. Who are you kidding? What makes you think he would never cheat?

Emerald

And he told you this? That is interesting in itself!

It needs to stop.

Woogs

Get a good attorney and start to think about protecting yourself during the future divorce. Sorry, it does not sound good at all. If this was my husband, he would be gone!

Doctor Click

I would tell him that if he want to be single, then that can be arranged.

Cham

If he cannot get women to talk to him, flirt, what have you, with his ring on...then he doesn't have the gift of gab for you to even be concerned with him cheating cause his game is lame.

On a more serious note, you should be upset but I don't think divorce is the answer here right off. What he needs is an understanding that continued behavior like this will result in filing for a divorce.

candye

Sounds ike he has intentions on cheating..why else would he not want anyone to know he's married...??!!

Lovin'life!!

I have no clue what I'd do because I'm not married yet (i'm 18, lol) but I would feel extremely sad and hurt that I wasn't good enough. Like I couldn't provide enough satisfaction for him. I'd probably feel that he didn't love me so much. I view it as cheating. When you get married, you commit yourself to that person. When he takes OFF his WEDDING ring, that says something. It sounds like he wants to get somewhere since he's taking it off. Talk to him about it, let him know that you know, and don't accept it. I'm not saying it'd be right blow up in his face and act like ******, but he needs to cool down and stop it. That's something a teenager would do, playing around like a foolish boy who doesn't give a care about deceny and faithfulness.

gettin by one day at a time

How did you find this out? Did he tell you this is what he does?

eagledreams

You have all the signs there in that behaviour that he is looking to cheat. He would not stop at the next stage be sure if he is prepared to mislead others then he is also prepared to mislead you.

Sexy Simone

Maybe if you cut his ring finger completely off, he'll have a damn good excuse!

Lil B

Um...not only No...but HE** NO...this is not ok. You need to have a nice long chat with him so that he knows that in no way is this ok. Yeah...he might not cheat today...but he will be tempted and do you really know that he will never cheat? No

I'm one of those people who thinks he already is cheating; not physically right now, but emotionally.

I would hope that his coworkers and clients would treat him in the same professional manner regardless of whether they knew he was married. If he's looking for some other kind of attention, that'd be a pretty big issue for me.

olaolaeh

if he didnt cheat yet he is def looking to. i would say that he doesnt want to be married to you anymore and is too much of a coward to bring it up so hes looking for a replacement. i think i would divorce him he obviously wants to be single. sorry.

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