What would you do if your husband/boyfriend.....?

Kitty

He would not be my fiancÃ©, husband or boyfriend anymore.

â–‘â–’â–“â–º Aqua Fires

Dump him immediately...

DEBBY'S BABY

1. Leave Him
2. Leave Him
3. Leave HIm

xyz

i would be gone all of those are just disrespect to me and would not do that to him so it is a two way street.

harold

Stop the wedding and dump him

miss N

You need to psotpone the wedding!!! he is not being faithful and not loving you the way he should. Marriage is about trust and he is not proving himself.You need to tell him how you feel and if he really is ready to be married to you.

Melanie J

If my boyfriend/fiancee did any of those things, he would no longer be my boyfriend/fiancee.

CW1967

I wouldn't tolerate it. I would think that if he wanted to do those things, then that's just not the person for me. Let him go and let him do whatever he wants.
I have more respect for myself than to be treated that way.

Kat

Get back all your deposits. Whether he is cheating or not he definetly does not sound like he is ready to settle down. I would definetly call the wedding off until he decided whether he wanted this or not. If not you end up waiting and in the end it will cost you twice as much to get divorced. Stop now and you can start getting over him and moving on to someone who wants you and only you; instead of wasting time, affection, tears, and money.

Unfortunetly it sounds like he is not marriage material. At least not an honest one.

bocasbeachbum

A friend of mine got married and when they were leaving a restaurant he brought a girl back instead of the car and introduced his wife as his sister. Funny, they aren't married any more and he is working on number 6 or 7 or something. That might be your guy. You could be number 8 or 9.

LaraSue

I sure as hell wouldn't marry him! And if it was my husband, I would divorce his cheating a$$

Suthern R

Sounds like you found out at a good time and not after you said your vows. I would print all that stuff off and have it delivered to him at his place of work and tell him the wedding is off, not just for a while, but for good. Then start calling everyone and save as much money as I could on the wedding.

dizzykylie

I would pick up and leave! No one is worth being treated like dirt and being disrespected. Men (and women for that matter) are like buses, there's another one coming around the corner every 5 minutes.

If your guy is doing this he does not deserve you. Let those other women have this "prize". This is definitely a deal breaker. Break up with him and cease ALL contact (unless you have kids together-that will make things really difficult).

Good luck to you!!

KISHOR LAL

find new relations, where peace of mind is not a problem

samsandrasan

If it was a boyfriend - show him the door.

If it was my fiance - show him the door.

If it was my husband - seek marriage counseling.
If we can't work things out in counseling, we go our separate ways.

singing_angel_of_the_night

obviously this would mean he isn't committed to you, by heart, by sould, by everything. Marriage is a BIG jump into a relationship, and sometimes can change alot of things. Honestly, if he is getting chicks numbers by saying he done left you, that is sick, right there should tell you, "If he's telling her he's single he must really want her number, and if he really wants her number, he must be looking for something other than what he has"....that's heartbreaking, Im so sorry you have to go through this (if you're posting this for self reasons). Secondly, when you marry someone, it is not fair to spend nights apart, unless it is work related, when you marry someone, you're giving up the childish games and lifestyle to be ONE with that special person - so him spending all night out at a bar none the less, dancing ontop of coworkers should let you know that he is the type who wants what he can't have, he is a very flirtatious guy, and if he's doing it when he says he loves you now, don't think he wont do it later on when you're home with his children and he's out at the bar....Third, an affair is an affair, regaurdless of what people think - words hurt just as much as actually touching someone...I am sorry hon, but all these signs would point to him looking for something better (not that he will ever find something better, just saying he is looking)....most women would not put up with that - my husband did all those things, would probably leave....

free_angel

I'd beat all their asses and dump them.

kitttkat2001

i would kick him to the curb... without trust u have no relationship

Gena

Well I know first hand about the "hubby had an online affair" thats wny I am no longer married to him. Sounds to me like the boyfriend/fiance/hubby needs a wake up. None of these things = a guy whom wants a lasting relationship.

rhodeislandbornandraised

confront him tell him everything you know call off the wedding and throw his *** to the curb

blondieoftexas

I will say it is cheaper in the long run to say bye bye to him right now...Divorces are NOT cheap at all!!!

Girl, you DO'NT deserve that treatment at all! He is looking to run around one last time before he ties the knot with you and wants to have another woman...NOT FAIR TO YOU!!! I would straight up confront him on this issue, don't let him think that you are OK with this. If he does it now I would hate to see how easy it would be just for him to walk up out of a marriage! Maybe get some serious counseling at this point to see if this can be worked out 2 weeks before the wedding! Good Luck Girl!! Sorry this happened to you!!

mexicanaprincesa

i would tell someone to spy on him to know if its true and if it is i would break up with them cuz i don't want someone that lies the he left you to just get a number. the dance part is k but i atleast want him to call me before so ill know were he is. if i saw that he did have an online affair ill see why hes doing that and see if ill dump him or not or how much he cares for me. but if he told someone i love her no no.its over. leave. don't look back. leave when he doesn't know!!!!!!!!!!!!

chris d

I would be gone so fast he would be lucky to see the dust I would leave behind

Without thinking..... dump his A**

robinwagner22

End the relationship. Period. No looking back.

texasstar1974

wHAT DIES YOUR INNER VOICE TELL YOU? IF YOU LISTEN THEN YOU ARE IN TROUBLE . IV'E BEEN THERE DONE THAT. kEEP IN MIND PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING THEY CAN TO MAKE YOU SAD. IF YOU SEE IT THEN YOU KNOW IT'S TRUE. THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS SEE
IT OR HEAR IT YOURSELF.I WOULD ALSO CONFRONT HIM &ASK IF IT'S TRUE. GOD BLESS YOU

Lady T

I'd tell him to leave and not to come back.
Tell him to get his sh*t now or it'll be in a
trash bag on the curb!
Move on and get your party on.
Still have your bachlorette party and call
it "F*ck him" party! Invite all the girlfriends
and the ex boyfriends and have some fun!

candy'sroom

Did you already get married? If not, DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you have, leave now. It's so early in the relationship, it is not worth counseling at this point. See if you can get an annulment.
This man is not ready for marriage. He is not ready for a committed relationship of any kind. He is a player.
Don't listen to his lies when you try to dump him either. they are just that. Lies!

americangurl_28

Confront him about it and if he doesnt wanna stop doing it or he denys it, then call off the wedding & leave him be. He is no good if he is only gonna do that crap anyways.
How would he feel if you were doing that? Ask him that...

samans442

Leave him before you get married. If he can't even take his engagement to you serioulsy, he definitely won't give your marriage the respect it deserves.

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