What would you do if your partner of 5years(still married) txt his wife on new year eve n said i still love u?

Tag Your It

What are you complaining about . . . ? You are screwing around with a married man . . . and he hasn't even thought of divorcing her . . . nor has she.

If he text her saying "I still love you" . . . it tells me too things . . . either she left him or he lives somewhere else because of his work and you are just a bed-spacer. Something to keep him warm at night.

Odds are . . . if it is the latter . . . she knows nothing about you, and if she did, she doesn't care . . . because odds are . . . she has a bed-spacer too.

Does he leave you from time to time to go out . . . perhaps on the week (more likely long weekends) . . . he is going to his wife.

You need a clue and some self-respect . . . is he all that you deserve . . . a married man . . . or do you deserve to be married to a man. Come on girl . . . you've wasted 5 years . . . and what do you have to show for it . . . nothing, probably free room and board. All you are is a concubine, a substitute until he gets to his true home with his legal wife, whom he visits. And odds are, you don't even know it.

pinniethewooh

You reap what you sow....

sunexec

I would dump him and move on.

Kitty

I wouldn't do anything... If I chose a partner who was married, him being attached to his wife would come with the territory.

Debt Free!

i would disappear. i understand still loving an ex. some ex's have that kind of "I will always love you thing about them". (jen still loves brad) doesn't mean he's in love with her, but if he took the freaking time to type a text message, i would say something is not right. leave him.

angela n

ask him. the truth might hurt but if ou dont find out what he meant that'll constantly be in the back of your mind.and theres no point been with someone who u cant trust..

Julz

you're with a married man...he has a wife....get a clue

mom_single_sexy

I would take the hint is what I would do, if he is still married and has been with you for 5 years he has no plans on getting a divorce so, you will always play second..

P.Bunyun

First off he is not your partner he is someones husband.If the text msg hasnt told you all you need to know then nothing you read hear can help you either.The man has no morals or integrity.Ask yourself why are you living in such a messed up deal.Find yourself then find a SINGLE man.Good Luck

Tell him to sling his hook, show him where the door is i know you have had 5 years together but he is still married to his wife and telling her he still loves her? It sounds like your only a pit stop cause if his marriage was over why not divorce his wife? thats what any other man would do. Sling him to the kerb there are plenty more fish in the sea who will love you and not there ex wifes. **** he has a cheek the git

Sexy Eyes

That means still thinking about that person and why haven't they got a divorce yet sorry if you have a feeling something is going on then your right good luck

Nancy Kay

I would never have been with a married man, even if he were separated for years...if he's not divorced, she still is his wife, dearie!

tychdyboys

i would get out. Why would you want ot stay with someone who does things like that. Why would you be with him in the first place he is married.

Moxie

I'd be really upset. The fact that he's put in writing that he still loves the wife, doesn't bode well for you. I suspect that's why he hasn't divorced her, yet. I think you need to have a serious talk with him and get to the bottom of what's going on. You don't want to be wasting too many years on someone who may go back to the wife in the end. You might want to set some deadlines with him for a final decree of divorce. If he isn't willing to act, he's not worth it and you need to move on, girl!

farleyjackmaster

I'd get a reality check!!

bebabuho

get the hell out of their

jadey

get rid and find someone who will put you first instead of staying married for five years without getting a divorce. You deserve better good luck and make sure you are never second best!

andy b

Forget the social stigmas, taboos and conditioning. It is possible to love more than one woman. (I'll get many thumbs down for this!)

But if you can accept that, that all 3 parties are aware of the situation and you're happy to be in such a relationship - then why not?!

x

randyandy902102002

My partner is still married to his ex-wife although he has been seperated for almost 10 years now. We have been together for almost 3 years and have just had a baby together but if i though he was still in contact with her let alone telling her he still loves her i would be gutted. I'm sorry but i couldn't be in a relationship where i knew he had such strong feelings for another woman especially where there is so much history between them.

If your relationship is going to go the distance then you deserve to be loved in the same way that you love him. If he cant offer you that then hard as it may feel..............get out now. You deserve better!

joy

Well, he's married and he texts his wife. So what.Your just borrowing him remember.

Caroline

Ditch the pig.

stokies

are you still with him? WHY? get rid,if he hasnt fell out of love after 5yrs,he'll always have a place in his heart for her.you deserve better.

lynnej1965

Be worried!!
I would ask him why - no point stewing over it - it will upset you.

why are you with a married man anyway and why has he not made any intention of divorcing?

Dont watch the 'I am separated/estranged' The fact of the matter is, he is still married, and he can up and leave and go back to her at anytime, are you sure he is not classing you as his mistress?

You two have been together for 5 years? in the UK, if one party does not sign the papers, the divorce comes through anyway.

You want to have a word with him.

MEL

id txt him saying she can have you!!!!

JoJoBa

Tell him you are not interested and wish him and his wife well and keep going forward with your life to good fortune.

slickcut

I wouldn,t do anything because you should know he still loves his wife,they are still married right? well thats his wife and he is her man,you are the one that has another womans man,you don,t have any rights whatsoever,,,so just let it go.............Its been 5 years and he still has his wife.......does that tell you anything?

rozeh2004

in my opinion if you are seeing a partner for five years and it has not progressed any further than i would go to God and ask him what you should do . good luck

sticky.fngrz

Ouch, that's messed up. First, don't be snooping around your partners cell phone. But you found something so it can be justified. Just talk to them.

cheekkkychik

i would dump him do you need to ask?

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