What would you do if your spouse cheated on you?

cope_acetic

I would divorce him.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.
PERIOD!

Bert

I was hurt when my ex did this to me, she had an affair and left me wih 4 kids, I forgave her, asked God to bless her....I redecated my heart to Jesus, today all my kids and my ex respect me.....God is so good

lisa w

It kind of depends on where you are in your life.
When my husband cheated on me, I took him back as I did believe that it was more physical than it was emotional....and I had two small children at home, new house etc.
BAD MISTAKE
He did it again.
They never change
I put him out and it was and is hard
I dont miss him but the life that we built (material) still has not been replaced.
But if I would have put him out the first time, I would be that much closer.
Cheating is just like a beating in terms of what the response SHOULD BE

~Just A Girl~

Everyones expectation of a relationship is different. There are some people who feel if their spouse looks at another man/woman they are cheating. While others say it is only cheating if "I don't know about it."

I guess it depends on the relationship and the people involved.

chemky1

I would divorce him. Why get married if your gonna cheat??

Eds

This is the only reason for DiVoRcE in the BIBLE. I would definitely have along talk with a divorce lawyer and my spouse would be there with her clothing ON. There would be no second chance.

My wife and I are happily married and have been for 31 years. She is truly a GOD-SEND for me. I have been so fortunate to have her. I hope that your spouse has not done this to you...
Eds

Tenchu

If she cheated on me.... I would take all her belongings and take them to a pawn shop. what ever I dont get money for I would simply donate to good will or salvation army. Kick her *** to the curb with only one possesion I would have of her. a picture or two of her with the other guy. HAVE A NICE DAY!

Jax

It would be hard to seperate myself from the emotion of it. I couldn't do it. I would fight with him, I'd be hurt. I would be angry. I would feel vengeful for a while. I would probably never get over it, bad bad bad. That's why spouses shouldn't cheat. The other person is too vulnerable to them. I love my husband so much and I've made myself be so vulnerable to him. I trust him so much that I'd be so shaken.

mmmkay_us

Each person is responsible for the outcome of there relationship

It does take 2 people to make it work. That being said.....

is it important to you to give your relationship every opportunity to succeed or do you run at the first sign of trouble. when you leave a relationship your side of the ledger has to be clean.

if your partner has issues do you turn your back and walk away or do you get help for them and support them.

if your partner does not take it seriously and work on changing then you have a case but to walk away without tryin to save your relationship is your problem

zether

leave her and not look back

Ms. Behave

I would kick him in his ball sack...

bcom925

murder

cutie379

i would cheat Back, once a b%$#@ always a s%$#

psst.... its me

keep the house, change the locks, and call a lawyer. If he did it once, he'll do it again and again.

sirjames

MS. behave you are mean! and cruel and i hope i never run into you. the answer to your question> Beyounce to the left to the left. Of course divorce -

karina g

I would probably leave the house at first , and than send him the divorce paper, if he cheated on me I wouldnt even want to see his face.

smile

leave him...no excuses!!!

Lindsay

Dump his *** so fast he didnt kow what hit him. Then sell everything he ever gave me and pamper myself for a day.

STARS

If my husband cheated on me I would separate and make him very sorry that he couldn't keep his ding dong in his pants!

Fairy*Blue*Eri

It would be over...once a cheater, always a cheater.

kiera70

Change the locks while he's at work. I wouldn't even bother to tell the pr**k why.

D-Wizzle

Kick that ***** to the curb!!

sbratt2

My 1st husband cheated all the time. He would swear to me that he wouldn't do it again, begging me not to divorce him. This happened for 13 years. I believe marriage is forever, I believed that maybe if I were a better wife, etc that I could fix my marriage. After several (22) affairs that I know of, I just couldn't take it anymore. But I thought the same thing as everyone else, I would divorce him, leave him etc, however when it happens to you it's different.

I believed it was me, i lost my self esteem, etc. I tried harder, did everything to try to please him but it just kept happening.

I do believe that people can change and people make mistakes!

However I'm remarried and I have a great husband now and married 11 years. I was unsure of a long time, believing that everyone cheats. But life is good now!

I think life experiences makes a better person. I'm a stronger person now I really can't say what I would do if it happened again.

Leave his cheating ***. Period. Once a cheat, always a cheat. You deserve better than that and he will do it again, TRUST ME. Ask anyone that has ever been cheated on before. If you forgive him this time, he will think you will forgive him everytime.

'lil peanut

I would do what I did do leave and divorce.

kala2032

Confront Him

Daiquiri Dream

Throw him out forever.

fade_this_rally

I would break up quickly, no questions asked....just a quick, clean break...there is no excuse

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