What would you think if you found out your husband had sent this text message?

Redneck_Momma

It sounds like he's cheating and is telling her to give him time to leave you.

sugaree

i think i would drain the bank accounts and change the locks on the doors while he is at work.

nodumgys

no, theres no other possible explanation for that message.

addisonavery7718

Sorry to say, but it does sound like he's cheating. It's slightly possible he's talking to a co-worker or someone like that who's thinking of leaving the workplace, but it's unlikely. I usually don't advocate being sneaky, BUT if you get a chance, get his phone, text the number with something generic like "What r u doing right now?" If the person replies, "Thinking of you" or "Walking around the house in my lingerie" then you've got a confimed case of cheateritis! Confront him immediately--don't act like it never happened. It's best to get everything out in the open before it festers much longer. Good luck with everything!

abused no more!!!

It sure does sound like he's cheating. If he is, leave him!

Mona

You already know he's cheating. The text was him telling his other lady to be patient for him to leave you for her and for her not to leave him cuz he would be lost without her. Tell him what you know and to pack his bags and get the f*ck out and go live with his b!tch on the side!!

Silenceâ„¢

He plans on leaving you.
Give that number a call. I BET it's the homewrecker.

WOWZA!

Ohhhh I'd be heated....It wouldn't be a good night for my boyfriend/husband if I had found that text message......

sugargliderqueen

call the number and see who you get ahold of. or text the person with his phone. i caught a boyfriend like that once.

â™¥Taraâ™¥

I would call that number and find out the 411 and then confront him to see what he says

gripper2

Well he sure as hell ain't dating Tom-Tom.

Nina

Yes he is cheating, but do not confront him yet. Write down that number. Get your finances sorted and see a lawyer asap.
As soon as you are ready, change the locks while he is at work. Pack his stuff, take it to where he works and tell him you know all about his affair. Tell him you got a call from that number and a woman told you all about him and her. That way you will ensure that their relationship gets off to a very shaky start. Very underhand I know, but if he knows that you have gone through his phone then you have lost the moral high ground.
Try to do all this as quickly as possible.

He is going to leave you sooner or later, make sure you end it on your terms and take him by surprise. Your one priority here is your financial security. Deal with your broken heart later.

I am so sorry this has happened to you.

tscotthargadon

yeah sounds like he's having an affair. i would confront him about it-and if he tells you something stupid then you know it's true. hopefully you guys can talk about things and get it all out in the table.

Spindrift

He is cheating BIG time, you need to confront him and then call an attorney, he will lie to you which he has been doing all along and he will not stop seeing her or someone else, he is a liar and a cheat.

s.i.l.l.y. s.a.r.a.h

Id flip out.

Try to catch him again, then confront him.

Good luck

Lioness

Yep, he's either cheating or he is communicating with an ex that he has rekindled feelings for. Sit him down and ask him about it. You can also call the number from his phone and see who answers. Ask that person what her (or his?) interest is in your husband, and go from there.

lifeisgood

It doesn't sound good to me. I think you should stay calm, but definitely don't let it go. If you haven't confronted him, you need to. If you need to seek counseling, then do it.

"Arkie Mom"

Start asking questions dear. I honestly don't know why people leave evidence on their phones when they are cheating.

Lubyloo

It doesn't look good to me. The only other possible explanation is that it could be work-related or some type of problem he needs help with. I don't know that I'd text the person - the person might not reply in a way that clears things up, and may bring up his (your) new text to your husband, so you'd be busted and he might make up a story to explain the text. You should try to obtain as much information as possible -- do a reverse look-up on the number, google it, and call the number from another phone (you might get the person's voicemail and, possibly, their name). Also check his bank account and credit card statements, and consider whether there has been any other unusual behavior. Once you have all the information you can gather, assuming that he's not "cleared" by what you find, ask him about the text in a calm manner. Don't let him turn the situation around on you (i.e., Why were you looking at my texts?). If he tries that, just say that you're sorry if that bothers him, but that you need answers about the text.

Theresa T

Trust issue you don't know who he was texting. So give him a benefit of a doubt.

Abbuzzy

What are you reading his text for?

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