Whats your reason not to cheat?

on YA people answer quite often with : i would never want to hurt my spouse, or i dont want to lose him/her, karma and its not fair to him/her and so on. it suprises me a bit, because you hardly ever read that someone has no urge to cheat or desire for someone else. i wouldnt want to be with someone that doesnt cheat because he dont want to hurt me, i would hope its simply because there isnt anything better than me for him.
so whats your reason?
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its nice to read that people feel no need to betray and are happy with their spouse....thats great.

Michael T

There are tons of reasons not to cheat. I'm not willing to risk my lifetime relationship for a few moments of pleasure or a few minutes of being together. No matter who with.

I think a better question is why cheat in the first place? What's so great about cheating?

Just Surfin

I have no desire to be intimate with anyone other than my husband. It's that simple. The fact that it would hurt him is secondary.

Heather R

My husband told me were over about a week ago and I still don't want anyone but him. I just have had no desire to be with anyone else since meeting him.

Logan W

Because I have eyes for no one but my wife. She is hands down the most beautiful woman, inside and out, that I've ever met.
That's what marriage should be like, as you say - there is nothing out there better than who you are with.
Ergo you should not be in a rush to find 'the one'. When you are ready, they will come to you.

Redogg

When I am with someone, I have never even had the thought cross my mind to cheat. I love that person and that is all I need. There just isn't anything better than what I got!

Jason M

Im under threat of death or penile amputation.

And its an integrity thing.

Lela B

I'm with you on this one, who needs a reason to cheat it shouldn't be anywhere near your mind once you are married.
Should be a no-brainer :)

nodumgys

because he would kill me. jk... i hope...
no, because it doesnt occur to me and if it did i wouldnt need to. he fulfills all the needs physically and emotionally a partner could.

Shetedon

I would never cheat on my husband because I love him unconditionally.<>

kim h

I have no reason to cheat and can think of no one that I would want to cheat with. I have also been cheated on and know how it feels.

askme

Because I have morals, loyalty....and a sense of fairness. When I married my husband I made a commitment to be faithful.....a cheater is a traitor to his/her marriage. A very weak minded person in my opinion.

Raul L.

I don't cheat because I believe in total commitment. I also am not a 2-timer. Plus I wouldn't want to be cheated on. That's why I do unto others as I would want others to do unto me. (Luke 6:31)

adwoa

cheating is not always about someone better. at least for me it never was. my husband says he wouldn't cheat because he made up his mind to, cuz nobody believed that he could do that. it's sort of an ego thing...
all the time i cheated on my bfs was cause at the moment temptation was too high. so now for me it's not about better man or not hurting the one i love, but about my moral state

Treece

I cheated once, but it wasn't that bad and it was early in our relationship. I broke up with him but somehow I found myself back with him. He forgave me, and honestly he is the best thing to ever happen to me and I am grateful. Besides losing him for real I don't cheat because the guilt I held on my shoulders was way too much. But now that you mention it, I don't think I would be happy with anyone else. :D

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