When I was drunk I slapped my fiance' several times and made him cry. After about the 10th slap he bit me?

coolchica4u2000

No you need to call AA for your dumbass.. If I was him I would be calling off the wedding.. who wants to marry an abusive drunk *****??

Sandra B

Duh.... sounds to me like you have things backwards... I call what he did "self-defense"

camys_daddy

No, you should call the wedding off because YOU are abusive. Being drunk is no excuse.

If you want to use being drunk as an excuse, then you have to let him off too, as you provoked him.

Do us all a favor and don't marry anyone until you can own your own behavior and don't have any kids either until you grow up.

Is this question even for real?

Bev

Perhaps HE should because you are the abusive one! Get some help. I don't by any means agree with a man hitting a woman, but that goes both ways sister! You don't hit! EVER!
You will get what you give!
Grow up.

Shesha

Are you serious? Should YOU call the wedding off because HE is abusive? Good Lord! You should get some help with that drunken-rage problem you've got there girl!

Honey, you've got some issues, for real. If you slapped him several times and made him cry what do you expect to happen?

Without YOUR problems being addressed by a professional your marriage will not work out. You're destructive and toxic to anyone you're around right now. Get help. Get help. Get help.

I wish you well and hope you don't take my words as attacking you. I'm just hoping to wake you up and see yourself and actions as they are.

sunbun

u got it all wrong honey---u are the abusive one NOT HIM
!!

DR. E

He should!!! your a beotch

smackit_flipit_rubit_down

i think you should turn yourself in for domestic violence and hopefully this guy leaves you because you sound demented as well.

Meuy V

Umm, I think you are as abusive as he. I am sorry to say this, but if you hit him as much as you said you did, then I think he probably had no choice. I mean, they say that you should not hit someone just because they hit you, but if it is uncontrollable, then what do you do? Hit them back? I am sure he did not mean it, but your were slapping him. Maybe you shouldn't get so drunk next time. It is as much your fault as it is his. Just because he is man doesn't mean he is in the wrong. Now, if he punched you, then it would be a different story. Sounds like he was just trying to get you to stop and he had had enough. I suggest you take some AA classes and maybe the both of you take some counseling. And move your wedding up to give some more time.

wifey

Maybe you should call it off because you are being an abusive weirdo

gitsliveon24

No I think he should

PraiseBob

No. But he sure as hell should!

itza_mea

OMG! You are not asking that.. him abusive, honey look in the mirror do you think what you were doing was ok? Wow, I can't believe you asked that

Bert

He should call it off b/c you slapped him ten times.

The Plague

Are you an idiot? What he did is called "Self-Defense" what you did is called abuse and uncalled for. If he had thrown you into a wall he would have been justified. Hell you was drunk but sounds like to me you really weren't drunk if you remember how many times you slapped him.

jasmine s

you should not call the wedding off you said yes for a reason he is not abusive you just kept slapping him so he had to do something to keep you from slapping him so just sit him down ask him why did you bite me and pull my hair and tell him why you kept slapping him and maybe you might beable to forgive you

Floss

Just by reading the title I knew it would something like this. I'm saying he's right for pulling your hair, but you did slap him 10 times, and would have probably keep going had he not stopped you. So for you to call off the wedding because HE was abusive is sad.

Gasman

How bout' call it off because YOU'RE abusive. LOL!!!

Merry Christmas

Thickness

No cuz It wasnt abuse, abuse, and since you kept slapping him, he wasnt gonna keep letting you hit him in the face so he bit you and pulled your hair instead of smacking you across your face like you probably should have gotten

libralov3

h ha ha...u are 2 funnny

shonnie

You are crazy, he should have done more than bite you.

puertorock882003

uh, yeah, and get some anger management and join your local AA(provide of the members with facial protection from those hands too)
I dont' know about the biting, where the hell were you two raised, in the jungle?

allaboutme_333

YES! call the wedding off!! he deserves some one better than that!

nbr660

He exercised alot of restaint with you, if it were me after the third slap you'd be laying on the floor. You need to re-evaluate this situation. He IS a good man it seem like.

Fiesty

Girl you are twisting it all around, you provoked the man! you being drunk is no excuse. you are both wrong primarly you, what do expect out anyone who is continuosly getting slapped? both of
you need to seek help! you need to sotp being a abusive drunk, and
he needs to learn how to walk away from a situation like the that just occurred.

r_u_redday

Nope, keep slapping him and asking him over and over, "who's my b**ch?". When you finally says, " I am". you'll know ya got him by the balls.

Carrie H

well in my opinion you both were wrong. you need to sit down and talk about what happened and try to come up with ways to avoid the same situation from happening again. my husband and i have decided that walking away and cooling down is the best for us. after about 30 min we will sit down and try again to figure out the problem. communication is key in a sucsessful marraige. Good luck sweetie

Alejandro G

he is abusive!!!!!!!!!! maybe you should seek help in anger management

Poppet

You need to seek help and call off the wedding. You are the abuser not him. He defended himself against you.

hurtand still in love

LMAO!!! Are you kidding. I will speak to you like the immature person you sound like....'You started it, you started it'. I think he was doing well to refrain himself for the first 9 slaps. Maybe you need to lay off the alcohol.

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