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When he doesn't know he loves her more than you?
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When he doesn't know he loves her more than you?

what would you do? leave him? stay with him?

he said he loves me- but he get really excited when he talked about her..

you could see he is really happy when he talks about her..
you could see he is happy when he needs to buy thing or do thing for/with her....
you could see he remembers all her details accuratetly.....
you could see he enjoys talking to her.......

for example- he would take initiative to think of a creative present during her birthday- like baking a cake- creating a card on his own- aa special shop trip for what she likes...

but he never did any of these during your birthday..

but he claimed he loves you more than others- i know he is not lying- but i think unconciously he doesn't know he is loving her...or he doesn't know that's the unconcious action of showing love...

but you know you love him- you really love him..

but would you want to have a chance of losing him by telling him the truth? would you want to tell him he subconciously love her?

she is married- i think she knows that he loves her- but she can't do anything because she's married...

i'm so confused- i know they can't be together- but it's really hurt when i know deep down in his heart- he loves her- he simply don't know and they've no chance to be together...

it's painful when he's hugging you, "why are you upsetting? tell me?"

and it's so hard for me to say- "coz i know you love her".


    




happier days
why would you want to be 2nd best? find a man who will give you his whole heart without any reservation.


Paul
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Love comes and goes through life. The feelings are intense, because love is intense, but this isn't your final chance. End the relationship with him, be sad for awhile, then move forward. No good relationship can be built when there is so much doubt going on....you deserve a guy who is locked and loaded and wants you.


marheather
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Finish it- You do not deserve to be second choice.


life goes on
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don;t play second fiddle get out and let him live with his memories,


Confused
Leave him. Let him be happy and you go find a guy that will do all of that for you.


Kal
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You are sensitive and insightful. You love him but you must end it now. This is eating you up inside. I went through this... I wasted several more years on him, trying so hard, and it fell apart anyway. He also said he loved me. I felt hurt the whole time because at some point I knew, as you know with your guy, his heart was not with me. His heart is not with you. He knows the relationship is good with you, but he craves the excitement of the other woman. Regardless of her own situation, you must





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