When will the pain go away? What will I do?

Katie P

you will go on, it's going to take some time, and you'll get a place to live, try getting help from your state, I know what you are going through, my ex left me after 26 years of marriage, that was 3 years ago, I get by, it still hurts but I make it a point to go on with my life, I still love him, but he doesn't love me, so keep your head up high and go on with your life, get involved with different activities to keep your mind busy, in time you will heal, and you'll find someone who will love you and treat you right, good luck, I wish you all the best.....

cac7301

First off, STOP paying for the car & the phone! (I hope that YOU were using these & not just supporting him.) I'm not sure if you live in the city/country, but just look in the classifieds for people looking for a roommate or people w/a room to rent. I know you've been w/this guy for awhile, but he obviously doesn't feel as strongly towards you or else he wouldn't be so willing to walk away so quickly. The hurting will ease up after awhile---it might not seem like it now, but it will. You seem like you'd be better off w/o him---most MEN won't go into such despair so easily; especially if they have a woman they really love by their side.

redhead27

Your first mistake was paying for things that are in his name... ever seen judge judy? your the classic case.

You first need to STOP paying his car and his phone.

Secondly, if you are in bad credit then you need to figure out how to get out of it ON YOUR OWN. I hate to think this, but it seems you were using him only to be able to get a car and phone... otherwise without him, obviously you are not able to get any of those. Its time to be an adult, face your credit problems and fix them on your own... you can't rely on a man to take care of you.

DerekK

you need to stop paying for his stuff! Something that might help out is if go out with some of your friends and have a good time. You need to try to move on and find another guy.

Exgirlfriend

I'll tell you. I lived with my boyfriend for 3 years. And I had to move out. I am not even sitizen here. I got a room for rent. Its not hard at all. A lot of places dont check your background check or credit history. Dont look at apt complexes -they are the one that do check. I dont have a car- it was on his name, and I was paying for it, so now he has it with all this payment that we both put on it. I am taking bus- not too great, but you can get used to it. I got a cell phone from his name to be re-assigned on mine - u can do that. Otherwise I would not be able even to have phone. And now I have couple credit cards on his name that I am paying off )). All that does not really matter to me. I love my boyfriend, or ex boyfriend ( we are trying to work things out now), and hope that everything will be just fine!

Dakota Lynn Takes Gun

How long have you lived together for? Check and see if common law marriage is legal in your state (if you have ever used his last name on any document you are common law). If it is, he is your common law husband and can be liable to pay for some of the things you mentioned and he has to get a divorce just like any other couple divorcing. In the future, get married BEFORE you live together. There is a reason why married people have a marriage license. If problems like this ever come up, one cannot just walk away and leave the other with all the bills.

You will get over the hurt in time. It takes a while for some though. Just remember, if he could just walk out on you like that, is he really worth crying over?

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