When you're just bored, heartbroken and fed up?
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When you're just bored, heartbroken and fed up?
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Before you read on please don't give me one word answers!
It's hard to explain how I feel, I'm 15 and lately I don't seem to see anything the same anymore. I am just bored with everything from school to where I live, to my life in general. It was all sort of triggered when I broke up with my gf of 7months two months ago and i really cant get over her and the idea of her being with other guys just tears me up inside. She really is the most beautiful person I have ever met and in someways I feel lucky to have had her but nothing I try can get her back.
Lately as well i just get really pissed off at everything and can't seem to find enjoyment out of much and start getting into depression mode really quickly.
Obviouysly these things are linked, but I just really cant stand school at all, I sort of feel like running away somewher or trying to get my parents to move because I feel like moving would just mean I can start fresh where I have no emotional attatchment to anyone in a place.
I know there are much bigger issues, It's just all been bothering me for months and i need some advice, on how to get over stuff and perhaps find enjoyment in life again?
I dont have a rough time in school, I have lots of good friends that I can talk to I just want a perhaps more experienced opinion on stuff.
Thanks a milliion and please, no stupid answers.
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rhndnicholson
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I think its normal to have these feeling especially after breaking up with someone you cared about. I cannot tell you anything to make your heart heal quicker, but I can tell you this you will eventually get over the heartbreak, and begin again whether you two get back together or you find someone else it will pass, just keep your heart open and love will find it's way in again, maybe even a better love. In the mean time I would advise you to just keep busy, maybe join a band, sports, hanging out with friend anything to keep your mind off of the situation. If you feel yourself getting more depress talk to your parents or someone older that might be able to help you. please take care and best of luck. |
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Donna D
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have some respect for yourself you will meet someone else you are only 15teen.you know how many times in your life you think you are going to be in love.why would you want someone that doesn't want you in the first place the thing to do is take one day at a time and get over it time will heal you.and you can't run away from your fears or problems the thing to do is face them you will be much happier in the long run.just be grateful for the things in life you do have.consider it her loss. |
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sweetgranny06
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your only 15 you will probably fall in love with other girls probally puppy love a crush because your still a kid |
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redhead27
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word.
haha... did that piss you off? |
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FelixR
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It's hard getting over anything but life is yours.
You have loved and you know what we don't and that what you have to live with .
You've made mistakes she's made mistakes. and now it's let me do me time, Do you enjoy something else. reading writing Taking to friends about what you feel share your feelings with peolpe you trust. not just anyone.
You'll have better relatiopnships if you look at what went wrong with the last one ....
keep learning in school so you can find your way in life . love will come again. Just be wiser this time... |
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rosie p
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Hi,
I can totally relate to what you're going through. I think the best advice I can give you, is to get out and try new things. I think you need to realize that you are still pretty young and you will probably have many other times like this. Trust me I know, but you have to be able to deal with these things. You will have plenty of wonderful girls come into your life and those not so great. Be patient things will get better. |
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