When you get married, aren't you making a promise to never change?
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When you get married, aren't you making a promise to never change?
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Basically you're saying:
I promise to get my jollies with my one women till death and be the same person for 10,20,30, even 40 years till death.
How can you make a promise that you won't ever change? That's impossible.
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Buongiorno Mi Chiamo JAY
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Big reason for the Divorce Rate. Unfortunately. I don't believe that people should give us so easily, but the majority do.
We do change. I'm a very different person today (at 37), then what I was back when i met my wife (17-18). That's almost 20 yrs ago. I was different at 27. At 27,. I still was 100% into my marriage. Now, I'm not. |
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Janet W
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I don't think your promising to never change, you making a commitment to stay with someone through the changes. |
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J.J.
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Exactly!!!! People don't stop changing..that is the stupidest assumption with married people. Evolving is what we do! Married or not! |
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Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)
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I think that Janet said that beautifully. |
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candymom419
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its not a promise not to change. its a promise to grow and love together. AWWWE. |
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Lulu 2 dtg2NY
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woman or men cheat some where in between those digits or die wishing they did.. |
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sarah
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no, you are making a commitment to that person. of course both of you are going to change over the years, but marriage is about supporting each other growing together. DUh. |
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Song
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No, you make a promise to be faithful and that when you change you change together with your spouse. You are promising to LOVE; That's what you are promising to never change! |
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MAndy
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No one expects a person to stay the same their whole life. It is possible to love someone throughout your life no matter how you change. |
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Rudi A
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Marriage vows are from one to the other, and married over22yrs our
vows are still for each other, so for those that say it is impossible
are wrong, it depends upon the couple, my parents were married
for 55yrs, and their vows were intact until they passed away, so
a few of us are honest in our marriage and to our mates. |
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charlesjerrell
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i have to agree with Janet, couldnt have said it any better |
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stranger 292929
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It is possible. It depends on the person. |
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Half My Love Is In Iraq
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No. You promise to love, honor, and obey. Which with my husband and me, obey was turned into compromise LOL. My husband and I have been together so long that we've basically matured and grown together so we've done a lot of changing but for the better. |
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Tricia G
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You don't promise that you will never change. You promise that you will grow and change together...and be accepting of the other's changes. |
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Mohamed D
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if i made this promise what is the guarantee that my spouse wont change. The change is the rule of life. |
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Clementine
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People don't change, they just become more and more who they really are. It is nice to change together. |
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chacha
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Georgio, what the hell are you talking about now? LOL
You're questions are one of a kind. |
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★ LILF - best viewed sideways ★
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I agree with you. It gets old, fat, and boring. |
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