Which is worse: When the husband is unfaithuful to the wife or when the wife is unfaithful to the husband???

LadyC

I respect your opinion and I can see what you're saying. I remember reading in a magazine a story about a woman who had walked out on her husband and her two young children to begin a new life with another man. I was genuinely surprised, not that she'd cheated, but that she'd left her family. You tend to think a mother would put her children before anything but this isn't always the case. I think thats why it seems to be worse if a woman cheats.

Kerrybobs

I disagree, I think either party having an affair is equally destructive to the marriage.
The kids get hurt no matter who has the affair.

Suthern R

In either case, the unfaithful one would be violating the vows, the bed, the marriage, the trust and love of the other. I do not think one is worse than the other, I think both are equally vile.

stoutseun69

Wtf ?
Why is it different ?

champagne

I think its equally as bad.

Romans 8:28

Both are equally wrong...Adultery is adultery - it doesn't matter which one does the cheating.

I think that both are horrible and equally so. It makes no difference if it's a wife or a husband that cheats. Whom ever does it is wrong.

it doesnt matter who cheats on who its still BAD.

mimi

It's just wrong no matter who the offender is. If this is going on then the relationship needs to be reevaluated.If they've both stepped out they're not getting from the other what they need. They should just go their separate ways.

Both are at a similar level

mother_amethyst

It isn't a contest. No matter who cheats, a promise has been broken. It's equally bad no matter who does it.

And you seem to be saying it's more okay if the man cheats because more men cheat. If that's your reasoning, there's not a lot of logic there.

XXkarlaXX

Its the same

shez

You cannot say it is worse for a wife to cheat than a husband. It is the same for both - they both took the same vows and made the same promises to one another.

BLING

both are as bad as the other.

eharrah1

The wife does not play a bigger role in setting morals and standards in their kids lives. If the father is cheating, then the reprecussions would be just as bad. He is saying that it is okay. Would you want your daughter to marry someone that would cheat on her. Same as with the mother. Showing the wrong standards. Both are equally as wrong. Why be married at all. Divorce and then play the field all you want.

Kari R

One is not worse than the other. They are both horrible.

No_Imagination

I think it's equally bad. Both parties are responsible when children are involved. It's the act itself that is horrible. I personally wouldn't say either is worse.

Fragile Rock

They're both equally worse. Being unfaithful to a partner shows a lack of self respect, lack of respect for the relationship and for the partner. I feel that women/ wives/ mothers are very important figures in a family set up, so I think it's more upsetting to see a woman fall from such a revered and respectable position than a man.

xyz

morally, it's the same. i think when you means worse, you're referring to the family overall and for the kids especially. so maybe you wanna rephrase your question. cheating is cheating. it makes no differences from women or men side. it's just women play the more traditional role of a emotional support and care for the children and children suffer more if the women choose to leave them behind.

edison

Point taken,but it is equal here as some Fathers have been known to get control of the children when the wife has been found to be incapable, then the husband abandons the children with his/her parents.

I need answers!! : (

It's the same either way, but most dudes do it anyway even though they know exactly what they're doing

tattylashes

i say both.....being cheated on by a man or woman is horrible...so yes i say it's equal

laplandfan

I think it is equally bad if either cheats! BOTH are cheating on the other and not keeping their vows. And they are also cheating any children they have.

Cheating when married is an absolute disgrace whether you are male or female.

well lets just blame nature 4 it,men were born as hunters n women like the attention. if kids r involved then it doesn matter who does it,they r both bad examples then

tallyluver

The husband being the typical one to do it is what makes it much worse...so I say the husband cheating on the wife...after the wife having kids and taking care of them thats the worse thing a husband can do...

srracvuee

both have the same effect

blownover

it is devastating to either party who is hurt.
my wife had an affair and she didn't care what it was going to do to our kids or me.
people who are unfaithful are just weaklings who give in to lust but are to scared to break the relationship they are in.

Frihah Anti-Milanist 4lyf!

it is equally as bad

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