Who's worse? The Cheating Spouse or the Person Cheating with the Married Person...?

Captain S

The cheating spouse...they're the ones who made a commitment before God and everybody. The person cheating with them is just an opportunist trying to get what they can get. Don't get me wrong, they're no moral pillar of virtue either, but it's a lesser offense by degrees.

Kelli O

both are bad! but ill go with the married person, they are the ones that have a commitment to someone else and aren't honoring it.

lasttexasknight

The cheating spouse. They said the vows... they pledged their love to thier spouse... they cheated.

AnswerJunkie

If the person cheating with a married person know that they are married, they just as bad as the cheater themselves! If my husband cheated on me, I do not know how i would handle seeing the other woman.

Greenegirl

Both equally low.

Freedle S

I agree that it is the spouse however, it is hard to choose between vomit and ****.

fs

jemmamomma

I think they are both homewreckers and both equally to blame.

Still Chained Down

The cheating spouse.

kthxbye

I feel they are almost equal; with the cheating spouse leading slightly.

dianak502002

The cheating spouse, they are the ones who made the marriage vows to love, honor and cherish. The person cheating can't be held liable for the pain and suffering of the family when it breaks up over it.

There is too much of this crap in the world today, people just don't care about what marriage means, the trust and dedication it takes, or the hurt it causes the kids when someone gets "bored" or "unhappy". There is no good excuse for cheating, period. If you're unhappy with your spouse, either divorce them or kick them out.

Beth66

I think both are guilty. The spouse said the vows but the other person chose to participate. I think people should have more respect for themselves. Why would a woman think a man would be faithful to her if he is a "cheater"? I dont believe women who say they dont care, they only want to have a good time. They are being selfish and looking out for what they want.

Pirate Girls Kick Butt!

the spouse
What difference does it make ? ~ A huge one! The spouse is suppose to love and cherrish his /her family and what happens to them. The other person has no reason to care what happens on that end of the deal. (I'm not saying the other person hasn't done anything wrong) And there are too many times that the married person conseals their marriage or lies about how thier marriage is to the other person. I know someone who told this girl that they had an 'open' marriage, so it was ok.......

JustMyOpinion

The cheating spouse is more at fault. They vowed to forsake all others when they got married. Although, if the person cheating with the married person knew that person was married, they would also be to blame

curious

The cheating spouse - they are the one that's in a commitment.

Meeeee!

The cheating spouse definately! Unless the other person is your best friend or something!

nwnativeprincess

Cheating Spouse, They have compromised their vows.
But both are losers in my book.

Dr.PhilwithBoobsDueInJune

Hands down the cheating spouse, the other person never made in promises to me.

hurts so good

50/50.
both are as bad as each other in some cases.
but sometimes the cheating spouse dont tell the other person that they are married so then how could they be blamed if they are getting lied to. and are unaware they are with some one married. so when you think about it the spouse is cheating his/her partner and the person he/she is having the affair with.
true.......

Keeper

I agree with others. Both are at blame. The spouse leads slightly, and the person cheating with the married person is pretty much a low life home wrecker that usually acts inocent in the ordeal. Truthfully, they are just as bad as the one cheating. They both deserve each other as far as I'm concerned. What goes around comes around.

Mel

What difference does it make? They are both doing wrong and breaking up a marriage. Honestly though, I would have to say the cheating spouse is the one who has broken vows and betrayed trust, so my vote would be for him/her.

BabeHeart

The person doing the cheating, definitely. They are the one who is lying to their partner, betraying them, being deceitful, and possibly exposing them to STDs.

The other person doesn't get off the hook (if they are aware the person they are "playing" with has a significant other) but unless they are cheating on someone also, their behavior is just selfish and thoughtless.

What goes around, comes around...both parties are okaying themselves to be cheated on (by participating in the behavior), and karma will have its balance so it'll work out in the end. Just unfortunate that someone's partner will likely suffer for the thoughtlessness and selfishness of others.

Dr Philys

BOTH! Especially if the other person knows that the other is married, but mostly the spouse.

renee a

both are wrong cause if u or they was in love they wouldnt cheat or hurt eachother

justakiss62

The cheating spouse.....It's all on their shoulders....they have the say so on whether to move forward with an affair or not plain and simple

Julie

do we really have to pick just one?...

Archimedes' screw

The cheating spouse. Technically, they're breaching a contract (i.e. marriage) that they have entered into.

They promised to "foresake all others". They could and should say no, whereas a free agent has all the options.

Rita

Spouse has comitments , responsilibities and trust , the other person is free of any commitements nor does he break anyone's trust
So the Spouse

Andi S

i think they r both wrong.

Good Girl

If the other person knows about the spouce then the cheater and that person share equal blame.

Beatngu

I would say the cheating spouse.... because a lot of the time, the "other person" (not going to use man or woman because both sides cheat, not just husband's or wives, BOTH) was lied to.

Now, there are those that intentionally go out and try to steal, but a lot of the "others" have been lied to and find out later.

A W

It depends on who YOU are in the situation. If it is your spouse who is cheating, then the worst person is that spouse. If you are the lover of the cheating spouse then you are the worst person.

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