Who Comes First: Mother Or Husband?

Lolly

your mother should be first but be careful make your wife think shes first

Cyclist 2300

Husband............

husbands and wives.... made a vow to each other.....

AnimaInspired

Well...your mother and father are your "family" when you are growing up. When you get married, your husband becomes your "family". It's not an issue of who is "more important", but rather that you need to be supportive and on board with your husband at all times if you want to have a happy life.

accentedflirt

For me, my mother comes first...I just don't let him know/think that is the case.

My mother will always come first because he can leave me if he choose, she has and always will be there for me...and she is matured enough not to put me in a position to choose between her and hubby.

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I think that your husband would be more important but your mother would be important too.

aybike a

i think its rally hard on a wife when she has to deecide if her husband is more importnant or her mother...dont make her have the burden of deciding.

Love!

Depends on the importance of each of their needs. If my husband needs a kidney and my mom wants a sandwich, well...

or vice versa.

WENDY G

My mother over any man! My kids over any man! No man is worth losing family over!

Blessed

Depends on the relationships you have with them....but for me (MOTHER) We are very close...but (HUSBAND) is a close second

Kasja

My husband is going to be my soon to be "EX" Husband. My mother is definately more important.

ITALY

I STRONGLY BELIEVE THIS: I WILL HAVE MANY MEN IN MY LIFE..BUT ONLY ONE MOM IN MY LIFETIME.. (AND VISE VERSA)

Mourning my Mom

My fiancee and my mother. They are nice, they don't make me choose. However, I spend most of my time with my fiancee (when he is home) and my mom gives us space. When we see our parents, my fiancee gives me time with my parents and I give him time with his. It is about a balance in life. I am not avoiding the question. I have never had to choose.

Of course, both understand that my children are important too, and hold the same value in my life.

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I think it depends on the situation, and the relationship you have with either of them.

Kiki G

Husband..he thinks I look perfect just how I am.

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Husband. But my kids are before him.

Worshipful Heart

Husband, definitely . . .
when you get married you leave your parents - you are not a child any more and your relationship with them should change - you can still show honor and respect but they no longer have authority over you.
When a woman gets married she is making a commitment to her husband and her relationship with him should come before her relationship with her parents- otherwise she is inviting trouble into her marriage.

Helen W.

My husband. Not even close.

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My husband is far more important =)

Phoenix mom

My husband comes first my mother second because i married my husband not my mother. I love my mom very much don't get me wrong,but my mom knows her place,and that's were i think problems start when you don't set boundaries with your mom once your married she feels like she can get in your marriage business. I just find that wrong.

ShahidLover

Well to be honest I don't think there's any wrong answers to this question because everyone has their own opinions and likes.

But for me I'd have to say my mother, my mother is everything for me, she's just amazing and she's like my best friend, you know how when you're upset u run to your friend? yea I run to my mommy lol
she's the most strongest person I've ever met not to mention the worlds prettiest woman

Family is just EVERYTHING for me, my love, my support, my friends, my guidance. For me there's no such thing as me alone, it comes all together in a package me my mom and my sister and my father lol

& so my mother for sure, she's been there all along, changed me, made me who I am, and there's no one in this world that can replace her, her and my sister definitely make me keep my head up and proud of my family.

But then again I come from a huge family rofl anyways, what I'm trying to say is, I'd say a mother because a mother, she's everything, she's your world and so much more. So my MOMMY over my HUSBAND even though I don't got have one, but yeah mommy, forever & always <3

Call me a mommys girl if u want but I don't care I'm a mommys girl & proud of it :)

Likittyslit

husband FIRST...

rachel t

husband

happy 1

husband

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Husband must come first.

You choose to make a commitment to your husband. So, it is that relationship that must come first.

Mommy should come second in that regard. Although you will always have a very deep love for your mother, your marriage should always come first.

IMO

irishmom91562

They are both of equal importance in different ways. Unless, of course, a husband is forcing his wife to "choose" between him and her mother.

Then it's MOM all the way. Kapish?

Lady_b

My mother and I are like best friends and I love her alot but I would have to say my husband. I meant what I said when I made those vows. Not only is he my husband who I will hope to grow old with but he is the father of my children.

lulu

Husband,the binding between husband n wife is unique,the closeness has no barriers and the attachment is speechless..every other relationship has boundaries n different kind of respect.family is important but life partner is more important.

soldier_brians_wife

I AM NOT TRYING TO MINIMIZE THE MOTHERS PLACE IN OUR LIVES BELIEVE ME.

but when you get married you create a new family. you, your spouse, children, pets...etc. the parents who have raised you and your inlaws are on the outskirts.

but like the others said. if your mom is ill then yeah i think mom would be first. if it were a burning building and mom was a little unable then yeah the mom.

for me its easy i just switch the situation. if it were my husband asking my wife or my mom (my mother in law) what would i want him to do. then thats what i do.

good luck in all this.

MayO

I am married. So my priority would be my other half which is my husband! :-)

confused

I feel quilty for wanting to be with my mom who has alzheimer's and I feel quilty if I choose being with my husband. My mother lives in a different state. Any one ever have to make this chose.

quilty

My mother has alzheimer's and I want to be with her but feel quilty because my husband and life is in a different state. Not sure what to do.

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