Who get more attention, your kids or your spouse?

mem11363

My wife gives our 3 kids more attention than me and that is how it should be. However she doesn't do what lots of women do with their husbands which is drop them to bottom of priority queue:
- Kids,
- Kids
- Family (sisters, parents, cousins)
- Friends
- Husband

SSG D

My kids, they are number one, my wife she is second to them.
Same way my wife would answer. Our kids are more important then we are individually.

DrowsyJay

I ignore them all equally:)....jk

Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)

My kids. They have more things that I need to help them with, so they get more attention. I don't do things like brush my husband's teeth or check his butt after he makes a poop, or cut up his chicken at dinner, or help him with his homework.

Salacious Crumb

I'll PayPal you $50 if you post a photo of yourself in your avatar, Wayne.

â™« Mad Luv â™«

i don't have kids but when we do kids will be #2
it's hard for me to explain it with out sounding careless so don't take it to heart!
but me and my partner can make more kids. me and kid or hubby and kid can not!
attention wise kid should get the attention but not so much that my partner is lacking attention! it's not one or the other i's proper time management and both can have attention!

david

my kids. i have no spouse. we split two years ago

Katrina

My kids, but I always do things that make sure he knows he's just as important to me as the kids.

Shannon

My wife certainly gives the kids far more attention, for me it's about 60/40 kids/wife.

When they are infants and toddlers they demand continuous attention. Then as they get older they need less & less.

We can send the kids outside to play if we need to talk now; before we had to be right next to them to keep them from eating sand or running into the street!
They can also occupy themselves with various activities; computer, TV, coloring book, toys, etc... so you can establish 'Do NOT Disturb' time for an hour or so a few times a week.

Cableguy

Hurray for empty nest now its back to us getting the attention

Debbie B

My kids are teenagers and I have so much more fun with them. I guess my kids.

No More Y!A

her in bed, kids rest of the time.xxxH

Backhoe

I don't have kids of my own, but I try and do as much with the step kids as I do my spouse

i8pikachu

Happy marriages share the attention and it grows as each devote themselves to the other and their children. When a parent ignores one for the other, the marriage is doomed, even if they don't get a divorce.

that girl

My son and step-kids(3) get way more attention than my SO, but I am working on giving him more of my time.

Black Mamba

I think it's pretty even, at least I try to make it even.

Zee â™¥

When I get married and have kids, I will definitely tell you. But as for now, taking a wild guess, I think both, maybe my kids a little more than my spouse - or just equally. It depends.

Satanic Brainsmasher

My kids

Complicated

When my daughter is awake, we kind of all give each other attention, bc that's more family time. But he gets the uninterrupted adult time, after her bedtime. There are times where she and I go do things just the two of us, as well, and they have regular daddy/daughter dates. It probably evens out.

J'Adore.<3

I believe that kids get more attention.

Your Reality Check Bounced

kids

gringo

kids

Larry

It better be me.I did not take a vow with my kids.

castlequeen

kids! I love my husband (most of the time), but my kids are my reason for existence....my joy.....my sunshine....MY LIFE!

dcolin2007

my son

zoro

both...z

pixie

The kids, they need more attention.

Seth ...DILF-to-be...HaHaHa :)

They should both be given equal attention. I believe a lot of marriages hit the rocks cause the husband and wife seem to forget the other exists when they have kids, it's a pity cause once those kids are off to college it's just husband and wife again, people shouldn't let their marriage suffere cause they have children.

Seth.

BK ~ â™¥ ~

It depends ~ sometimes hubby requires more attention then the kids =) but most of the time it's about even!! (mother of 3)

â™¥SEVENâ™¥

My hubby and I, including our daughter all dote on one another. We are a very loving family. Whenever we order food, my daughter tells the delivery guy that she loves them because she is so use to hearing us say it to one another lol. However, my hubby and I both shower our daughter with lots of affection so I think she may get more than all of us. We do not mind though..she is our angel:)

TRIXIE

as selfish as it sounds. me.

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