Who is divorce more difficult for. Woman or men?

babyitscoldoutside:)

I think its women. They get more emotionally into it. But, at the same time, I think it can be just as hard for a man if a woman leaves him.

Its tough on all parties.

Mommad

Neither...it's the children

CHUCK S

MEN

box of rain

The children.

Bella Wolffe

Who ever it is that is blessed with the children the most. The other thinks that the child support "covers" it all. But then it may be more difficult, but it is more fulfilling. Emotionally, maybe the woman. But I could be biased here. Also for a lot of women the change is devastating even if it is initiated by them. Some have been home makers and to find a "real" job is a major life change.

It is extremely hard on the kids...the changes are so very hard for them.

I Speak the Truth

Men usually ends up paying for the broken plates. Child support, spouse support, house, car and everything else they can grab.

J. W. H

I think it depends on who is doing the divorcing.. I think most of the filings are initiated by women.. and I believe because of that.. it may affect the men a little more than it does the women.. but it ain't easy on anyone.. unless it is by mutual consent.. so lets say.. 60/40 men..

cog1233

CHILDREN!!!!!!

pretty asian

In general, break-ups and divorce are more difficult for men compared to women. During the relationship mostly the women anticipate and know that the ending are coming, but on the other hand, the men does not know it coming. Because of this it is difficult for men to handle. Now, not every single case of divorce apply to this explanation. Every couple break-up due to different reasons. But in MOST cases, the men end up have more difficult time dealing with the situation.

But I got to admit that, most of the times; it seems like the women have more difficult time because of the way they express their emotions after the break-ups. But it is a way of releasing stress and anxiety. But on the other hand, we don't see men act dramatic, they don't release their emotions. Because of this, we assume that they have easier time with break-ups.

SuperVibrationalEscrow

Depends on who has the money and who is getting the money, who lied and who was lied to.

Marcus

Let's see, given that marriage is an institution for systematic wealth transfer whereby men lose a substantial portion of their assets in divorce (anywhere b/w 50%-90%), including their house, car(s), etc, on top of facing a 90% prospect of losing custody of their children, in addition to losing future earnings (eg. child support, alimony, etc.), I'd be inclined to say that MEN are the one's who get the short end of the stick.

Women? Eh, well given that women instigate the divorce proceedings 2/3's of the time primarily for trivial 'feeling' reasons, factoring in the above entitlements, what's difficult about that? Women have it easy; they have everything to gain essentially.

First Lady

It depends on what ways you are talking about. PEOPLE DO YOUR RESEARCH. After a divorce, men are more likely to marry (and sooner), their income increases by up to 10%, AND they get their independence back. After a divorce, a woman is more likely to get primary custody of all children, THEY are twice as likely to fall into poverty, her income DECREASES by up to 30% and she never gains her independence back because she has the children.

I am sure emotionally divorce is equally hard on men and women but check the stats if we're talking about other ways

Bottom Contributor

Men. We end up forking up $1,000,000's and lose our kids to an evil woman who turns them against us.

Romi

Of course Women.
The worst thing that you can do to a man is challenge his ability to be a bread earner.
The worst thing you can do to a women is ABANDON her and take away her emotional, physical and mantal security.
Divorce does that to women

Pepe LaPue

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mocha

the kids

lady_bella

Both have the stress of divorce. Everyone deals with it in their own way, whether it's a man or a woman.

stelise

i think divorce can be equally difficult for men and women.....men are probably less likely to show how deeply affected they are by it though

SuziQ211

I think that TOTALLY depends on the person. Some men take it harder & in some instances it is the woman. All relationships are unique. Some partners give more than they get. Some are more sensitive than others. There are many things to consider.

talon699

The kids ! As for the others , deal with it .As leave with what you came in with and get on with your life.Don`t make it difficult.

Ava

It is according to the individual and also to how much each are going through.People can get pretty nasty during a divorce. The men get hurt just as bad as the women do at times though. Not in my divorces but, in some. All in all though, the children are the ones that suffer the most.

I think it all depends on the situation. What type of family/friend support they have, if there are children involved, what caused the divorce. Too many factors play into it to pick men or women.

jackie

Difficult for both,and very hard for the children why daddy and mommy live two difference places not together no more.

simplesimon

It all depends on who filed for the divorce. But in my opinion .......it's the children that suffer the most.

mennonitegypsy

I was completely devoted to my wife, and our divorce came as a total shock. I had a very very tough time, and she didn't.

FeatherHead

Depends on who instigates the divorce...

flight m

depends

Lisa W

Emotionally, women...........Financially, Men

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