Who is more important ...spouse or kids??

yo mama

whoever says both.... no
My kids are always first no matter what... and my hubby knows that and he says the same thing..
We love each other dearly.. but in no way are they on the same level.. very close.. like one step away.. But my kids are a part of me... my blood, my love... my everything.. and always will.

snddupree

God Almightly always first, but on earth Spouse first, kids next, extended family third, everyone else last.

TMLeaf Fan

This question can't be answered by picking one. each is just as important as the other and they are inseparable,

Mike S

YOUR SPOUSE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN KIDS.
If you think kids are more important, than you will put your spouse second and eventually you might loose him/her. That will hurt kids very much. Overwise, if you respect your spouse, place him/her #1 ALWAYS, you both will be ok, and kids will benefit from it, not loose.

Danielle

Kids, they depend on you to be there for them. Now I love my husband with all my heart, but I know I could live with out him.

The love for a child has no boundaries, the love for a husband on the other hand...

wisdom_women

According to the Word of God..... the spouse is more important then the kids. For the simple fact, once you become married you and your spouse are one.

jesse

my kids are more important.

The Tramp Collector

Both but without my spouse i don't think there would be a lot of interest in the kids. I know that sounds bad but we together keep our sanity to even be around or children.

texascomet

kids

ny_spork

The kids are more important than both of you.

Slexie

kids

Chickybabe

Kids because they can not fend for themselves_

keral

both is important

emotionalyhurtmom

It depends on the situation if you children are being abused then the kids are more impotant, if it is a situation were the kids are in trouble with the spouse and are trying to get you to take sides the the spouse is more improtant. There is never one better than the other but there are always differences even in the way you love your kids I don't love one of my three any more than the other but I love them all differently.

Red-Chrome

B--O--T--H

kheserthorpe

Your spouse should come first.

Two things your children desperately need:

1) A stable family that can form the bedrock of their lives.
2) An example of what a proper, healthy and loving relationship looks like.

Children are critically important, but neglecting your spouse because you are so caught up doing things 'for the kids' is not good for anyone.

badcat

I love my husband dearly.But if I had to choose.I would pick our son in a minute without having to even think about it.My husband is a wonderful man and I love and respect him.But my son is blood more over he is a life I created therefor are forever bound to. I despise those people who take their love interest over their kids they don't deserve the blessing of being allow to have a child.

hardbringer26

differs

hotbutter

they are both important for different reasons

Adrian R

Both are just as important. They are a part of your life. And each of their actions will affect your future.

longneck242002

Both are important. But kids should always be taken care of first.

cma80

ewwww kids always!!!!!!!!!!!

Definitely the kids if they are underage.If they are of age and are trying to interfere with your marriage then thats a different story.

SapphireB

kids, they are your flesh & blood

karategirl2563

they are both really important. but considering i dont have kids i would say my spouse.

Casper77mc

Kids. A spouse you can lose, kids you can't.

Myrmaad

The answer is:

Because both are important, your spouse comes first so that the TWO OF YOU together can Protect Your Kids.

You two need to be a united front to Shelter Your Children and provide them with two parents who love each other.

Diana J

Yours kids by far until they reach the age when they go off on there own, so many kids have become second best to the spouse/boyfriends/girlfriends. I also feel that their more important then yourself, it's a huge responsibility that some choose to ignore, and that's wrong!

â™ªMsz. Nenaâ™«

Until they're eighteen, children should be number one priority. You chose to bring them into the world, they need guidance and attention, to learn what is right from what is wrong.

Jennifer P

I am sure your spouse will agree, your children. You can choose to be with your spouse, but your children you are connected for life.

i was once with a man who could not have children and he left me ..he said it was me who could not have them.. yrs later his wife gave him a son come to find out it was not his .. but he love the boy no matter they are celebrating there 22 anniverasy next month by getting re married.. i could not cheat on him to give him want he wanted to me spouse to him children it depends on what your heart desire is

repented-hubby

Please help: I was a cheated husband to wife and recently got a kid of mine from a single mom with 3 young kids from 2 different ex-partners. I've tried to abort the kid when he was 7 weeks old but couldn't succeed it. so I smacked her for first time and walked away from her since and I've confessed ev'thing to wife on the same day. I've got a domestic violence order a week after). Wife saved the marriage against her parent's will and now agreed to raise the kid if wins at court. Meanwhile kid is in high risk due to mum wasn't know how to raise her kids. (Her disavantages kept me connected with her even after my marriage took place and now am feeling that she baited me with kid). I see my wife stressed out everyday (feeling that i I'll leave her for kid). What am I supposed to do now? Is it enough to show my love for kid just by his maintenance for 18 years if i were lost at court? (Please remember it's my first kid and i've been isolated from family for 12 years and seeing my wife crying everyday). Meanwhile I feel that I dont deserve wife's love. please advise. Thank you

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