Who should be boss the husband or wife?

miss_match

the children!!!!

greeneyes634970

it should be 50/50 there are no bosses you are not at work.

FunkeyChicken_Magic

wife

terterryterter

People have different skills, different interests and differing degrees of concern over a given subject.

No one is the boss of everything unless they are married to someone that might be challenged.

Instead, each partner should take responsibility, be the boss, in the areas that they are the better choice between the two.

Mom may be the boss when it comes to school and homework, dad may be the boss over the kids keeping their rooms clean.

the_silverfoxx

that. goes .50.. 50.. in my opion?

malibu29130

nobody is the boss. equal.

hotgurl1805

Nethier it should be a partnership. Thats what a realtionship is all about.

shenango515

Neither. If you love each and respect each other you should want to please each other. You should care about the other's opinions, wants and needs.

It's always best to talk it through.....and never go to bed angry.

Threeicys

Both of us do....but I am still right when I don't win...lol

fight the power

hide in corner lol

Rie Sanae

depends on their selves

Constance Olivia

Women of course should always be the bosses in the home. We are far better at managing then men. I am only joking around. It should be equal in a marriage.

sexyladymercedes

both

xouyang2003

theoretically, nobody. they should be equal in the relationship. but if one love another more, the another one normally is the boss.

nhiz__image

Neither.

thatcutesexygyrl

the husband he the man and hes the one who takes care of the business.

Village Girl

There is no "boss" it's a partnership.
Give and take, honor one another...

passionate

why does their have to be a boss why can't you just negotiate the problems that your having.

catsclaw

Who ever SHOUTS!!! the loudest.

grey_sky_morning84

Our kids, usually. My husband and I get no say in anything.

princessgeorge131313

Marriage should be a partnership. Both should have a say and find a compromise they can both live with.

sis_jk27

I really hate to say this, but, i think the man should be the boss, & that is because women was created to be there with the man, & for the man. Now if the man isn't going to be a real man, then i say,,, You had your shot, step aside & let a woman show you how it is done. Now for the arguements, i win, because every one knows, You just can't arguee with a woman....

sjh

God should be the boss and Man should be the leader of the household while the woman is the glue that holds it together. This would help elliminate the arguments.

But, I usually win bc I am too hard headed to follow my own advice above. My husband has a good head on his shoulders and he lets me have my way until I am rational enough to talk through it!

Cattales

Neither, it's a team effort, using the skills of both for the benifit of both. Marriage is like a business, U do what U got to do for the benifit of the company.

brm1981

Well actually the woman and man should discuss all the decisions and tell how they feel but the final say should be the husbands unless he is abusive. If the husband is abusive I thinkt the woman should do what she feels is right which in the end may be leaving him. A good relationship needs to be this way. It hopefully will make our relationship last as it did for my parents.

kcsakany

neither. We are equals. That is part of being married

kevsnow00

It should be equal. It's called compromise.

hannah_banana

uhhh how about neither.

badonkadonk85

By traditional standards the man used to 'wear the pants' in the household. But that has changed. In today's world where both the husband and the wife are the 'bread winners' there is no set "boss". Today's relationships are a partnership, both contributing to the health of their future.

baker_bree05

That's an easy one. The husband is the head of the house. Hear me out. In the bible it states that the woman is to be submissive to the husband(Ephesians5:21-33) The word submissive is not a word chicks like to hear. I did not at all like that when I was told that. I was appalled that God says to be a submissive woman if I were to be married. But that is how it was intended in the very beginning. Adam was the very first person( a man) and the LORD created Eve as Adams helpmate. No it that that means she is to be his slave and be a second hand peace of crap. It just means that she is to be his other half.Gods ideal way a family should be is the father/husband works at a job everyday, and provides for his family. And the mother/wife stays at home and cares for the children, and tends the house. She isn't a made or anything bad. If you think about it getting to stay home with your kids to watch them grow, and developer would be aw some. You wouldn't miss a thing, and there will be an aw some bond there. That's how God wants it. I am a single mom of a beautiful 13Mon. old girl. I would love love love to stay home all day every day with my little angel bug. But being unmarried I do int have that option. My ex took everything but her away. Well, and the clothes I was wearing that day. Any who, that's how god intended it. Wanna email me sometime? Get me at baker_bree05@yahoo.com

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