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Who thinks getting married before 30 was one of the stupidest things they've done? (Be honest...)?

Just wondering. I heard someone say the other day that no one should get married before 30, and I'm starting to agree.
I'm 28 now, graduate college educated, good career, and got married at 21.
I'm still married, but I just think I'm barely getting to the point where I could wisely make such a huge decision. I wouldn't make the same decision today (just being honest!) and I wonder how many feel the same way.


    




Denisse
Maybe not the stupidest thing, but I do agree that I can definitely make a much better choice now that I'm 31 than I did at 24.


Watch IT!
I was married at age 22. I stayed married for 23 years. In the end, my now ex wife kept falling down and men kept falling on top of her.


Tilley
I DO I DO I DO I DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


floridaman39us
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Every one usually would make different choices in hind sight. However, learn to appreciate and love the situation you are in now. Suppose your parents regretted having you? How would that make you feel?


i_ate_sponge_bob
I agree, personally not planning on getting married until about 30. However my brother has proposed to his 30 year old girlfriend (who is desperate to get married and settle down and have 2.4 children), he's only just turned 27 and I know this will be the biggest mistake he ever makes, they are planning to get married within the year. They've been together about 6 months.


Lisa M
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I got married at 23 and do not regret it. I would make the same choice I did back then. But, I have to say, I was really mature for my age and had my head on straight. My husband was 26 at the time.

We are still married and I am about to be 30


Steve from PA
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Age has nothing to do with it. Its all about the maturity level of the 2 ppl..unfortunately most young ppl prepare more for the wedding than the actual marriage..I say if u can live with a person for 5 years and make it through the ups and downs Ull know what ur getting into when u decide to marry..


Racin
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I do I do...

I could talk for hours about how stupid it is to get married when you are young. I can even give lots of reasons why you shouldn't


Sandy Ego
I think it's one of the smartest things I've ever done. Just because you wouldn't make the same decision today doesn't mean it was a wrong decision 10 years ago.


gossipgirl
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I DO!!!
I am now mature, i know who i am and what i want... much much capable for taking good decisions.


Leaf
I can't speak from the "I got married young camp" since I got married at 30. I will say though that it was one of the best decisions I've made in my life. I always wanted to establish myself as a person who didn't need a man to support her so I spent my 20's finishing up college, getting a job, buying a car and then a house, getting a better job, etc. After all of that life experience I knew exactly what I wanted out of life and out of a partner.

The nice thing is that my husband and I have been friends for years so we even got to spend our misbegotten youth together!


Dragonfly Girl
Being 31 and only just now seriously thinking about spending the rest of my life with one man whom I love VERY MUCH and have unparalleled chemistry, openness and honesty with, I'm very curious to see these responses. For the record, I'm VERY glad I waited for him. I've been engaged twice before and broke it off both times because it just wasn't quite right.


bellabella
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I DO!! i don't think people should get married till the y are at least 30!!! there should be a law


Georgio (I'm a dude)
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Yes its true...it would be better to put marriage off till maybe even 40


__A_YAHOO_USER__
I fully agree. I don't even think marriage should be legally allowed for under 24.


Paige Due 10/28/09
I am 18 and married to a 21 year old. We have been best friends since I was 9 and in some situations, I do have my regrets. But every day when he kisses me, all my worry goes away and everything is right. I am pregnant with his baby (he proposed before we knew) and we are really excited to spend all of our life together forever. Don;t let someone get you down about getting married at 21. And if you don't love your husband anymore, than maybe you should rethink things. I ddon't know. I'm just saying





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