Who was wrong, me or her?

Yes, I know this is the wrong section, but I'd prefer mature answers. She's 19 and I'm 21, and well I, like most people have a celebrity crush (Cheryl Cole) and my girlfriend currently is bulimic and has many insecurities even though she is perfect. I've been talking about how beautiful and how amazing Cheryl Cole's body is and how stupid Ashley Cole was for cheating on her around her and I never noticed how uncomfortable she was until today when I talked about her, and she told me that until he grows up, and stops fantasizing about women he'll never get, and to get real, then I can talk to her and she just left. Was I wrong or was she? How can I get her back?

Mercy Smith

No one is "right" or "wrong" in this scenario. If your girlfriend is suffering from Bulimia she can't help feeling insecure. She didn't choose to have an eating disorder and poor self image. She is hurting and hearing her significant other talk about how "perfect" another woman's body is does not help her feel any better about her own body.

If your girlfriend is so perfect to you why are you wasting your time on some juvenile fantasy about a woman who wouldn't know you existed if she tripped over you? If this relationship is worth saving, focus your attention on your girlfriend. Help her get the help she needs to overcome her problem and help her feel beautiful without discussing how perfect you think other women are. If not, you need to end your relationship and find what you're really looking for.

SherryF

I think she just told you how. Stop thinking about women you cannot have and grow up.

hello

You are young and you made a very stupid mistake. You NEVER talk about how good looking some other woman is. It does not matter what you may think, but you NEVER say anything like that to your woman.

rock284

heres the solution...tell her she wasright and ur sorry for everything u said but in ur head know u were right..its how all relationships work..its like the circle of life or theory of relitivity for guys/men/bros

pepperbeast

You are in the wrong. I don't think a celebrity crush is a major problem, but no girlfriend wants to listen to you salivate over another woman!

Alyssa D

you are wrong, she is right you are never going to get your crush and you should talk to her and say it is a celebrity crush and you are the only one that is beautiful to me.

frozendrinks

duh jealously here stop talking about other girls bodys thats way she mad when you see her start talking with a joke like "hey beautiful" and go on form there

riley

a**hole

Curious Lady

YOU WERE WRONG.
Omg...
Do the most romantic thing ever to get her back

StarFox

tl;dr
She's wrong, the woman is always wrong. The female brain is too small to make rational decisions.

autumn

actually starfox, women are very intelligent men are no smarter than women, so get your facts strait. now to answer the question. A woman wants to feel like she is beautiful, and I was anorexic, so I can tell you from a point of view of someone that had an eating disorder. dont talk about how hot other women it will only add more fule to the fire and make her think she isnt good enough. just because you have a crush doesn't mean anything will ever become of it. you are with your girl and you need to be soley with your girl, you can think a woman is attractive and not say anything. instead of telling her how beautiful someone else is, try telling her how beautiful she is. but stop talking about how hot other women are to your girlfriend it just isnt right.

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