Who was wrong me or my husband?

Julie

He was wrong to think that what he was doing was more important than what you were doing when he told you to take away whatever your son was playing with, since he was right there. You were wrong in that you said the things you did when you got mad (though I can understand, it gets old). What you need to do now is talk about what you both did wrong and ask him why he didn't respond to the email, then both apologize and kiss and make up! : ) Tomorrow is another day.

Lord Percy Wooster

your in the wrong because you attacked him as a person , when you had a problem with his action
why should he put up with being insulted by the woman who is supposed to love him , when he wouldn't put up with it from a stranger

what gives you the Right to be insulting and rude
would you do this with a stranger?
no
of course he is upset

Ramman

You both were wrong. You more so than him. You are not communicating with him, and expects him to know what's wrong with you. Granted he should know these things, but maybe he don't. You are worse for acting the way you did. It don't excuse him though because he is insensitive to your feelings.

jackielafemme

"i told him that life with him is useless & went to have a bath & didn't have dinner with him"
Did you apologize after that?--
How would you feel if heÂ´d said the same sharp sentence to you?
In that love mail, you mentioned "I didnÂ´t mean it" '?
Kind of youÂ´re thinking on you..You both need to talk, apologize and forgive..Too many things, but are needed before it goes wrong or worse.

Yahoo! Princess

Sorry but you were wrong. You ignored him first and said something mean. Maybe he didn't read your email. Ask him if he got it.

Î±mÐ²Ñ”r'

Your husband defoo your been all nice to him & dosent repay you he just ina bad mood, life too short for all these arguements hun just try to get along

Good Luck;)
xx.=]

bec_775

The question i need to ask is are there any other underlying problems with your marriage? Sorry.
If he didn't respond to your love email, it's probably not just about the issue you mention but other things as well.
Do you feel you connect with your hubby at all other times?
Is there a silence that can be deafening between you and hubby regularly?
Does he connect with his son as he should? Is he tolerant with your son, or does he have little tolerance for the things little ones do for no logical reason?
Should you speak with him about this in person rather than email him?
Not trying to be harsh ... sometimes speaking up front can help can sort things out.
Best of luck :)

lolly

You both sound like you have seriously different expectations about your relationship. Firstly, about the email. When he is at work he is there to work, you shouldn't expect him to be thinking about love letters while he is meant to be focusing on his job.
With the other, you guys just need to sit down and talk it out. Was it really worth turning it into a big fight?

Jesus love you

Because when he got the email he feel shame that he quarrelled with such a good wife who send him email at working place. So he is stuck up. He dont know where to start and how to start. Also he have a bit of eego that keeping him a liitle far from you. You talk to him directly and remove all his shyness. Dont be ashamed to hug or kiss him in this situation. Wait and see the result.

craig b

You really don't understand what "love" really means!
Marriage is not this 50 /50 deal that everyone says. It' a 100% / 100% deal in which you gave your vow that you would do certain things in this marriage irrespective of if your husband reciprocates!
You are not doing your 100% because you are wishing/demanding that he does his 100% FIRST!
(He's wrong in this too, but that is not the point!)
It's all about what YOU are supposed to do!
He asked you to do something and you would rather not. Your job, your responsibility is to continue to be "wife" and "mother" even in the face of disrespect and judgmental scorn.
You were looking for a response to your "love" email and got angry because you did not get the response you were looking for. Marriage is not a quid pro quo! It is YOU doing what you're supposed to do even when your husband does not do what he's supposed to do!
One of you have to grow up! And it's probably going to be you because your husband is still 8 y.o.!

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