Whose right? Him or Me?

sidsiclid

If you haven't already, make sure he knows that his actions ARE HURTING YOU. If the idea that he causes you harm doesn't scare him, is he really the right guy to be married to? He needs to acknowledge your pain. Hopefully, he'll open up and explain his reasons for not introducing you. But I find this story very suspicious: what's your husband's damage, man? He should be proud to introduce you!

~JanisÃ¢?Â¥Nitty~

No it's not okay!!You should be his trophy!! Tell him either he treats you like his Queen or ....Good Luck

Look Away, I'm Hideous

no he should introduce you , that is rude

wkdwchofwest

ITS JUST PLAIN RUDE FOR HIM TO NO INTRODUCE YOU

free_angel

Take control and introduce yourself. Tell them you're "what's his name's" wife.

shawnice26

NO, because it's hurting your feelings.

Capra

no thats not ok. there is obviously some reason that she's not introducing you to his friends and you guys really need to talk about it.

Mav

My husband does the same thing. Not to worry. He's you partner so help him out and stop a potently senseless argument.

Put your hand out and say our name and shake their hand. They will tell you their name at that point and the issue is over.

Stick out your tongue, say AH!

Make a deal with him. If it's someone he doesn't remember the name. Just tell him to look at the person and say "This is my wife (insert name here)" You step forward and offer to shake their hand and say "And your name?" They'll say whatever their name is and you have looked like a confident, independent woman, and he is reminded the name of his old acquaintance. Work this out as a team.

Sexi Beotch <3

he is being really rude

fumefumefume

very rude...

Jake

He should introduce you to his friends, you know this, and his friends probably know it too. It is the polite thing to do.

Hazel Eyes

you need to set him straight, and tell him that you would like him to introduce you to whom ever he talks to. and tell him that you get hurt by it. just tell him the truth.

Qyllix

Forget the power struggle. You have the ability to introduce yourself. Put yourself out there and make the first move, and i bet you will be much happier.

Sadie

Geezus, he's your husband!
Of course he should introduce you to his friends!

Besides, he could just go "This is my wife, ____" and be done with it. He doesn't have to remember the other person's name, because that person will usually introduce themself, anyway.

shellybelly0

He should introduce you.

If your husband doesn't want to introduce you, but wants to be around his friends I would wonder what the real reason is.

You need to get him to tell you the real reason. If you can't talk about easy things now, it will be much harder years later.

Good luck

Lizzie H

he should.. if he doesnt just introduce your self
then start a conversation.

Gina C

Get your act together! Introduce yourself! Say... 'Hi, I'm______ and I'm married to this mannerless person who can't remember your name....but I will....! Good luck and God bless.

kerow109

your right it is rude but could it possibly be that he dosen't understand that it hurts your feelings so maybe thats why he thinks its not a big deal?

straycat

It's rude of him not to introduce you. Whether or not he remember their name-surely he remembers yours. Sometimes the best reaction is the same as their reaction. Next time you stop and talk to a friend of yours act like he is not there-what goes around comes around-right or wrong that is how some people learn.

anilupadle

He should definatly introduce you! I think you should tell him how much this really hurts you, and try to get it resolved.

muffin me captain

no, I think its wrong that hes not introducing you. You've been married for over a year and he doesn't have the courtesy to introduce you to his friends?! That's a little suspicious to me but I don't know his personality or how he is so he very well may forget the names but if he does this on a regular basis i think you should defiantly talk to him about it. If there's some reason hes not introducing you whether it be out of embarrassment or he doesn't want his ex to know you should defiantly find out.

Also, next time he doesn't introduce you kinda embarrass him a bit. Say My husband may not have the courtesy to introduce us but my names ____ . And you are?

Cecily A

He should totally introduce you. He should be proud that you're his wife. Whether or not these people are from the past and may or may not have something to do with his ex. You're his wife now, he should be proud of it and proclaiming it from the rooftops (metaphorically speaking, unless you really want him to climb on top of a building, hehe).

BrunetteBabe

He should be introducing you. Even if he doesnt know the person very well, or cant remember their name, thats no reason not to introduce you. Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't start introducing you, then introduce yourself.

soccer_hottie_13193

Personally i think he should introduce you. if he really feels that ashamed to introduce you to people who are friends of his ex, then something is wrong in his brain... i think you are totally right.. or just don't introduce him to your friends and give him a taste of his own medicine

CaliOutCast

UMMMM... its about time he starts introducing you! doesn't matter if he cant remember their names they need to know you!!

julie

if he doesn't introduce you, then it seems as if you're not important. if you're his wife, then it would seem you are important to him. perhaps it's true that the people don't need to know who you are, if it's just random people. but if this happens frequently, then it seems bizarre to me. if you're happy together, and like each other, why wouldn't he want to introduce his wife? you could introduce yourself, and participate in the conversation when you're there.
keep in mind i have no experience in that, just my opinion.

Jon D

To be honest, it doesn't seem to be all that big of a deal. I mean, if you had to introduce him to someone you knew, but couldn't remember the other person's name, you would feel a little awkward if you said, "Honey, this is... umm... someone i knew once before... guy i knew, this is my husband" it wouldn't be all that bad if you might make the first move from time to time to say, "Hi, my name is... and i believe you might know my husband."

kunibusby2

Introduce your self to his friends. And yes that is weird for him not to do that.

Krissy

don't think he's embarrassed backs my bf was scared to introduce me to his friends ive been dating him for 4 years

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