Whts wrong in having a extra marital relation?

Starla_C

EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!

from me to you

I agree with rkrell

rkrell

Nothing as long as your willing to tell your husband about it and he agrees to it. If you really think there is nothing wrong with it then telling him shouldn't be a big deal. If you can't tell him then you obviously know there is something wrong about it.

conifee

If you have a good relationship with your spouse and you truly love him, then you should not want to have an extra marital affair. If you are thinking on those lines then you must not really love your spouse or maybe not yourself. Go within and ask your heart the truth will be revealed.

Irish

Give us a break.

scott_v1963

have fun

Barbie doll lover

I'd say if you had to ask then you know the answer. It's not right and your not comfortable with it. I hope you finally find your happiness.

chuggerlugger

what a ditwad, you know before you even ask your just hoping some idiot sap out there will agree with you to justify it. What goes around comes areound

GreenGrasshopper

People get hurt, duh.

TheSmartass

Everything. Your husband trusts you. And it's a sin.

Fairy Codswallop

I agree with STARLA_C. If you want an extra marital relation then I think it would be best for you to get out of the marriage.

nighttimewkr

If you were not going to be happy with one why did you marry him in the first place?

ettennej79

It is wrong because it hurts someone that you are supposed to love. Even if they know about it and say they are ok with it. If your love your spouse and want this relationship to work then you need to be faithful bottom line. If you truly feel that you want to be with other people then you need to end your marriage because your hearts not in it. It is better to be honest about your feelings and intentions and give your spouse the chance to find someone that will truly love them.

May-May`s mommy

Everything, dear. Adultery is a sin too! There is always another alternative to cheating. Don't subject your vows to this danger.

anonymous

Divorce and adultery lead to violence, which is chaos.
Chaos leads to senseless death.

bluez

gee, i dont know........get a brain

dym939

There's nothing wrong with that. But as long you both knew how to handle your relationship, so that your true partner in life will not hurt even anyone person.

Mr nice guy 2U

nothing if you want to go to hell and show a total lack of disrespect for your spouse

sjh

Review your vows that you took BEFORE GOD and that should be your answer. If you are still confused check out the 10 commandments and they should clear it up!

Would you mind if your hubby was "unable" to forget about someone other than you?

jlee

V.D.

Blue Jean

Having an extra-marital relationship goes completely against the meaning of marriage. Marriage is a commitment you make to a person, and if you break that commitment you're breaking that person's trust. If you want to fool around with several people you shouldn't get married in the first place.

hirsutemustelid

Nothing. Now, are we still on at the Motel 6 at lunchtime today?

d260383

If you can look at your husband in his eyes and tell him ,he is the only one.Then there is nothing wrong.

natex14

Wow, good thing you are asking this in the divorce forum, because you know the answer. You are only to be with your husband or wife. Not with other people, even if it's only in your head, because that is where the cheating starts

James

This is the best answer, considering that I see this question all the time!

Would it be okay for your husband to have an affair because he can't get a bomshell out of his mind, and she totally digs him, I mean, she is crazy about him, to the point that she doesn't care if he is married, and hopes to break you two up eventually?

iceman

It's hard to stop once you've started.
You'll have to live with the guilt. Besides if you're caught, the your butt is toast.

noemasounds

Secrets kill relationships every time. I can relate to past loves and the only way to handle it is to leave it in the past!!

If your relationship is so "good" why cant you tell him about the "other man"?? Have courage and communicate. Real love requires openness especially about these matters.

So let's turn the tables on you...If your husband was asking the same question, where would your marriage be?? In fantasy/secrecy land.

gladiator27m

yes , right said tell ur husband to go ahead

vieja

pervert

berry

Nothing wrong. Just let your husband know about it so he can have his extra marital relationship with someone else too. Don't be selfish.

HevenSent

Well I must say and this of course is only my opinion , however , it is totally unacceptable. If you are to the point where you have or are going to have an affair it is best to go off alone somewhere and REALLY weigh out what you want in life. It is possible that you might actually find that you can forget about this other person. Or maybe not. But dig deep down and find where you want to be because you cannot be in both places , it is just not fair to any of you.

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